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Trust begets Trust

zandu37 Senior Member
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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 7:44am | IP Logged
The lovely thing that Megha told Mohan the other day is that if two people faithfully love each other, nothing else matters. And its okay if one person does not want to immediately lay bare all the secrets  and details of the past - all these things can happen over time as long as the TRUST is there. She believes that each person needs his or her own private space that needs to be respected. (Remember when Mohan was trying to look at her past pictures with Amar at the Bhopal house, she was not comfortable with that and took the pics away) .  She REALLY appreciates the fact that Mohan completely TRUSTS her and her past and is in love with her for what she is today.  That's why she respects him and loves him so much. She has never told him about her tumultuous marriage to Amar, straining of her relations with her parents, her past is a closed book to Mohan - and the best thing is that Mohan has never ever asked ! And Megha respects Mohan immensely for this. She too therefore is willing to allow Mohan to take his time to be able to share his innermost secret with her and she has given him the ASSURANCE that she would understand the issue when it comes out and not let it affect their relationship. And knowing Megha, I am convinced about this assurance - she may be sad or surprised or taken aback at the circumstances but she will never blame Mohan or leave Mohan for this. And her love and respect for Mohan will  grow even more if he were to himself tell her about MR  now before the marriage.

Really, if two people are deeply and faithfully in love and in a relationship based on complete trust, nothing else matters. Trust begets Trust and the love will only grow stronger over time.

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 7:59am | IP Logged
Nice.. I also noticed these lines. But will she kept to these words when the truth comes out is yet to be seen. Well rangeela channel n trp maiya dont understand these beautiful things. Usse tho melodrama hi pasand hai. As per things r going to keep our expectations high is like fooling ourselves. Am exhauted making a fool out me everyday..

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 8:05am | IP Logged
I really hope so... thank you for such a nice and positive post. Smile
If this happens both the characters of Mohan & Megha will be saved.

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 8:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by zandu37

The lovely thing that Megha told Mohan the other day is that if two people faithfully love each other, nothing else matters. And its okay if one person does not want to immediately lay bare all the secrets  and details of the past - all these things can happen over time as long as the TRUST is there. She believes that each person needs his or her own private space that needs to be respected. (Remember when Mohan was trying to look at her past pictures with Amar at the Bhopal house, she was not comfortable with that and took the pics away) .  She REALLY appreciates the fact that Mohan completely TRUSTS her and her past and is in love with her for what she is today.  That's why she respects him and loves him so much. She has never told him about her tumultuous marriage to Amar, straining of her relations with her parents, her past is a closed book to Mohan - and the best thing is that Mohan has never ever asked ! And Megha respects Mohan immensely for this. She too therefore is willing to allow Mohan to take his time to be able to share his innermost secret with her and she has given him the ASSURANCE that she would understand the issue when it comes out and not let it affect their relationship. And knowing Megha, I am convinced about this assurance - she may be sad or surprised or taken aback at the circumstances but she will never blame Mohan or leave Mohan for this. And her love and respect for Mohan will  grow even more if he were to himself tell her about MR  now before the marriage.

Really, if two people are deeply and faithfully in love and in a relationship based on complete trust, nothing else matters. Trust begets Trust and the love will only grow stronger over time.


this sounds very nice, but hasn't Mohan already broken her trust? Let's see. He gets himself drunk, and then he goes and gets married to another chick, all in the space of a few short hours. Not very reassuring behavior if you ask me. What's he going to do next time he's depressed?  Can he be really trusted after he's had a peg or two, and he runs into another dukhiyari chick with a sob story?LOL

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 8:59am | IP Logged

Are yar!! mohan bhai ne hos me na rehkar ek galti kya karli aur tum log mohan bhai ke aukat pe sawal utha rehe ho!! jabn usne rondima se shadi ki thi tab forum members keh rehe the ki agar mohan ne riddhima ko megha ko pa kar chor diya to woh aur humare ankho mai izzat dar nahi rahega!! aur jab mohan megha ko pa kar bhi riddhima se apne zimmadari nibhana chahta tha!! tab tum logo ne megha ke pyar ke layak nahi hai keh kar bulana suru kar diya!! aur ab jab mohan aur megha ki shadi hone ja rehe hai!! tum log use bigamist keh rehe ho!! yeh kya haiAngryAngry!! aur ek bat gaur kara du ki mohan aur rondima ke shadi legal nahi hai!! kyu ki unke shadi registered nahi hai!! aur aaj ke zamane mai registry bina shadi ko shadi nahi mana jata!! chahe woh kitna hi boring,depressing,rotten tradition se ho!! these mere mention of  traditions make me want to puke!!DeadDead aur ha mohan ne riddhima ko nahi kaha tha ki apna mangalsutra khol ke mujhe de do ki mai use megha ki gale mai pehna saku!!! really!! so yeha par mera mohan bhai ka koi dos nahi hai!!

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 9:03am | IP Logged
@janeman007 admi ek bar galti kare iska matlab yeh nahi ki woh wohi galti bar bar kare!!AngryAngry

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 9:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by meghan432

@janeman007 admi ek bar galti kare iska matlab yeh nahi ki woh wohi galti bar bar kare!!AngryAngry

LOL great. Will remember to use this excuse next time one is in trouble.LOL 

bottom line, it shows instability in character and that's something that does not engender trust. Even if he came clean, how many women in real life would overlook something like that and be ready to forgive/ forget/ accept overnight? I think it would take a long time to rebuild trust. At the least, it shows that one cant trust him after a few pegs, banda pagla jaata haiLOL


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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 9:24am | IP Logged
That's a wonderful point Zandu, that's one of the reasons for me to fall in love with this show. 

Every relationship, (especially Love & marriage) should be built with the trust, if it is there, then nothing else surely doesn't matter.  This is handled very beautifully(note:- so far) handled in this show between MM.  Hope they do carry this in future too.

As you have said:-

I like the very thing that Mohan never ever asked about Megha's past & he loves her as she is now & that Megha also has accepted him as he is now. Isn't this enough for a relationship?.  Eagerly waiting to see their post marriage episodes.  Hope it's coming up soon, but fingers crossed that the ridhimma thing is cleared before that.

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