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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 4:11am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by Maverick29

[QUOTE=rima][QUOTE=tia.o]That's typical Indian mentality. 


defenitely not general.
 
but largely men without spine do this.
 
they tend to let the wife or in-laws take the blame for their own mistakes by t taking a stand.
 
i know many men are not like this,
 
i know women too who have hurt parents by siding with their husbands. i guess it  depends on the larger human nature.
 
but since the woman lives in the man's house the scope is more with men.
 
usually the woman are the ones who reach out and build bonds. so when they do not do it with their in-laws the blame falls on them

Ok!  Let us set ground rules here -- A man without a spine is not a MAN in my book.  The definition of a guy that runs his family is one who is capable of making the requisite decisions and has the convictions he can stand by.

So, the spineless wonders who are not really men dont count.  I have been away from family politics for so long and like I said, I live in my work world totally and I just make sure my immediate family listens to what I say.  So, I may not know this well.

So, my conclusion will be before we blame "MEN" -- let us qualify them -- these are spineless guys -- you can pick them out quite easily.  If there are too many of them, then there is a problem.
let us keep it to the two spineless guys who are in this show...one who apparently seems to have the spine but does not show it...arnav
 
the other who never had it all...akash

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 4:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by preetihere

Somehow i feel its CVs mistake here, they meant to portray that Anjali is upset with the insensitivity she feels her ever- protective brother is showing and instead they showed her as some weird jealousy angle!

Coz the Anjali we know was waiting for her Chote to find the same happiness she had with her ever loving hubby...she even made a mannat on that!
Here i find the couple are also at equal fault, they haven't explained to her beyond that first day where only accusations were hurled...after that all people do is shove tablets and put her to sleep .She still has no clue what these two went through and why her brother feels the need to be around his wife, she doesn't know they almost lost their lives, she doesn't know how much Khushi went through to get Arnav back! She doesnt even know the real reason behind their marriage. Arnav shud tell her on Monday , not only her but Maami also. Why only Naani knows about Arnav's confrontation with Shyam on PayAsh wedding.
All Anjali sees is her doting husband was thrown out and everyone around her are getting back to their lives!
Why the need to hide information further i don't understand CVs, anyways Anjali is already hurt, isn't it better to bring out the whole truth?
that still does not explain how she can grudge arnav romancing khushi. it can explain why she is confused about shyam and truth.
 
i see your point but even then the CVs ortrayal of her is inconsistent

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 4:15am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by Maverick29

Originally posted by arshi21

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Originally posted by arshi21


your interest getting slow? no way. Can't handle that. You are so positive.
 
But sigh. I know this show can ruin the interest of the most ardent fans.
 
anyway yes, khushi's plight always weighs on my heart and that is why romance does not go down well with me

No, I still watch and wait for IPK like everyone else, its just that my expectations are slowly fading...
I used to voice my expectations and hopes...but now, I just watch the episode because I am addicted to it...
I have stopped making posts because this track hurts me.

I don't know whether you'd believe me or not, but on friday night, when Anjali had said those strong words to Chottey, I had tears in my eyes. Tears for Arnav and Khushi's happiness..
And that's when I thought that perhaps, hoping for TRUE and soulful Arshi moments is a waste of time.

Its better to just watch the episode and expect nothing.

Mishti's spoilers have again confirmed my worst fears. 
What to do now? I don't have many options. Can't hate IPK, Can't live without it, but right now..can't love it either. 
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I can identify with this -- there is something about NOT GIVING UP from my way of doing things that is keeping me with this show -- In every venture I have been in, I have pushed things to the point where my physical and mental health were challenged till they were "terminal" -- this damn show/I take that back Khushi character and Sanaya's portrayal has made me think that this is like one of my ventures.  I am not able to just walk away from it.  So, I keep away from posting all week only to stay up talking and posting about it.  My wife sits next to me and we share what we read -- laugh etc etc while making these posts.

It is strange but I will eventually get out of it -- but still remember this as an experience -- it surreal.

Cheers.
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I agree with both of you.
 
i too am unable to give it up though time is now pressing me to become less obsessive.
 
maverick it is good you wife is with you in these posts. my hubby thinks I have ost it when I am so nutty about a serial character like Khushi
 
but for me Khushi is one of the main reasons I stick on.
 
she is like a cause I can't give up the serial or post makingSmilezoha is right. I seem to be her momSmile
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Yeah Wifee loves the show but she has no patience -- she screams at the writers and then goes back to watching the show.  She is funny.  Usually we are out and about or when we watch TV she has her laptop open and she goes through stuff and keeps giving me some info or the other while I find stuff to watch for both of us -- she is technologically challenged even though she is an engineer!

But these days, we both sit with our laptops and read out the funny stuff we find on the forum -- especially since this crap started -- we just want to see it end -- being crazy motivated people I guess we are both a bit too Type A to let it go.

She starts screaming while watching the show -- all kinds of expletives when they show Khushi crying!

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 4:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Maverick29

Originally posted by rima

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Originally posted by arshi21

Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by arshi21


your interest getting slow? no way. Can't handle that. You are so positive.
 
But sigh. I know this show can ruin the interest of the most ardent fans.
 
anyway yes, khushi's plight always weighs on my heart and that is why romance does not go down well with me

No, I still watch and wait for IPK like everyone else, its just that my expectations are slowly fading...
I used to voice my expectations and hopes...but now, I just watch the episode because I am addicted to it...
I have stopped making posts because this track hurts me.

I don't know whether you'd believe me or not, but on friday night, when Anjali had said those strong words to Chottey, I had tears in my eyes. Tears for Arnav and Khushi's happiness..
And that's when I thought that perhaps, hoping for TRUE and soulful Arshi moments is a waste of time.

Its better to just watch the episode and expect nothing.

Mishti's spoilers have again confirmed my worst fears. 
What to do now? I don't have many options. Can't hate IPK, Can't live without it, but right now..can't love it either. 

I can identify with this -- there is something about NOT GIVING UP from my way of doing things that is keeping me with this show -- In every venture I have been in, I have pushed things to the point where my physical and mental health were challenged till they were "terminal" -- this damn show/I take that back Khushi character and Sanaya's portrayal has made me think that this is like one of my ventures.  I am not able to just walk away from it.  So, I keep away from posting all week only to stay up talking and posting about it.  My wife sits next to me and we share what we read -- laugh etc etc while making these posts.

It is strange but I will eventually get out of it -- but still remember this as an experience -- it surreal.

Cheers.
[/QUOTE]
I agree with both of you.
 
i too am unable to give it up though time is now pressing me to become less obsessive.
 
maverick it is good you wife is with you in these posts. my hubby thinks I have ost it when I am so nutty about a serial character like Khushi
 
but for me Khushi is one of the main reasons I stick on.
 
she is like a cause I can't give up the serial or post makingSmilezoha is right. I seem to be her momSmile
[/QUOTE]

Yeah Wifee loves the show but she has no patience -- she screams at the writers and then goes back to watching the show.  She is funny.  Usually we are out and about or when we watch TV she has her laptop open and she goes through stuff and keeps giving me some info or the other while I find stuff to watch for both of us -- she is technologically challenged even though she is an engineer!

But these days, we both sit with our laptops and read out the funny stuff we find on the forum -- especially since this crap started -- we just want to see it end -- being crazy motivated people I guess we are both a bit too Type A to let it go.

She starts screaming while watching the show -- all kinds of expletives when they show Khushi crying!
[/QUOTE] Smilei find that cute
 
i too feel like screaming while watching which I can't.
 
my husband won't get it.
 
for him serial are a menaceSmile
 
but anyways i think she reacts the way any woman would react at the atrocious treatment of another womanSmile
 
she is technologically challenged is she? tell her she has company in meSmile

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 4:25am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by Maverick29

Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by Maverick29

[QUOTE=rima][QUOTE=tia.o]That's typical Indian mentality. 


defenitely not general.
 
but largely men without spine do this.
 
they tend to let the wife or in-laws take the blame for their own mistakes by t taking a stand.
 
i know many men are not like this,
 
i know women too who have hurt parents by siding with their husbands. i guess it  depends on the larger human nature.
 
but since the woman lives in the man's house the scope is more with men.
 
usually the woman are the ones who reach out and build bonds. so when they do not do it with their in-laws the blame falls on them

Ok!  Let us set ground rules here -- A man without a spine is not a MAN in my book.  The definition of a guy that runs his family is one who is capable of making the requisite decisions and has the convictions he can stand by.

So, the spineless wonders who are not really men dont count.  I have been away from family politics for so long and like I said, I live in my work world totally and I just make sure my immediate family listens to what I say.  So, I may not know this well.

So, my conclusion will be before we blame "MEN" -- let us qualify them -- these are spineless guys -- you can pick them out quite easily.  If there are too many of them, then there is a problem.
let us keep it to the two spineless guys who are in this show...one who apparently seems to have the spine but does not show it...arnav
 
the other who never had it all...akash

This is the writers!!!  This is the so called Daily soap format!!! I have been saying this from the time of the Kidnapping -- they are changing Arnav's character -- Lalith and the original team built a Royal character that didnt give a shit about anyone -- these morons now are making him the "spineless guy".

Akash is a bigger problem -- he was the guy that wanted to please everyone -- Indian obedient boy style -- but we all know people who do that end up pleasing no one.  But there are ways to show spine as an Indian Kid -- now this upbringing limits leadership potential that is a totally different discussion.

I surely cannot see a guy who is as abrasive as Arnav at work being a nice little Pussy when it comes to handling the hard stuff.  This does not happen.  The writers are MENTAL.

If you take my way of dealing with things -- it is the same across the board -- I yell at home/when pissed at my parents or any of my aunts and uncles grand parents does not matter who it is/at work well the entire board knows when I am pissed -- it does not change.  The only time it changes is when you need to be nice, I am not Soft at work but I am at home when I need to be nice i am soft.  That is the only change -- if I talk to my wife like I talk to people at work all the time she will Kill me -- no leaving me -- just butchering me.

So, we make slight adjustments but we dont become "different people" this is schizophrenia that the writers are showing.

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 4:30am | IP Logged

I fail to understand this Poojali. 

Agreed she's in pain and needs everybody's attention. And she's getting the attention as well but does giving her attention mean that a man cannot even spend few romantic moments with his wife? Does that mean that only because she's unhappy, even people around her should remain unhappy too. Only because the great indian dummy doesn't want to believe her hubby's a creep and doesn't want to move on in life, should even other's not move ahead and enjoy their life?


'Chottey you have fallen in love, Your married now' 

She said this in such a way that made me feel like Arnav has committed some big crime by marrying the girl he loves. It was totally fine when she and her husband used to openly romance in front of the whole world shamelessly but when her chottey does it then he has started lying to her, he has started paying less attention to her, he has distanced himself from her. If she so blindly believes in her hubby dear then why didn't she just leave the house with him? Why did she allow Arnav to throw him out? 

And if she has such a big problem in Arnav lying to her then why is she not believing what he's trying to say? Why doesn't she believe him when he says Shyam is a disgusting human being. And now she will be going out by LYING to Arnav to meet Shyam. Wah re wah Anjali, You accused Arnav of lying to you but now your not LYING to your brother? You have started lying as well right? And why have you started lying? Because 'You're  in love, Your married.' Heights of hypocrisy. 


I have always seen Anjali as a very manipulative person. She and her husband. Both the sweet talkers of the family and destroying everybody's lives. Let her go to Shyam and not come back. He's her world, he is her everything. She doesn't mind if he kidnaps her brother whom she claims to love to death, She doesn't mind even if he tries to kill her brother,  She doesn't mind if he tries to destroy her brother's and sister in law's life. Why? Because he is her Shyamji and she wishes her child to be exactly like him. 


This is nothing but disgusting. Arnav should do nothing but ask people to just get out of his house. Why on earth should he provide people with explanations for romancing with his OWN wife in his OWN house. Its not like the house is run by Anjali or something. Its Arnav's house. He pays from his pocket for everything that is purchased in the house. The beautiful saree's that Anjali has been wearing since the beginning are because of Arnav and not her Shyamji. Anjali lives a lavish life because of HIM. If he asks her to get out and go to her Shyam (I know he won't do that) then she and her husband will be on the streets. So she has no right to stop him from romancing with his wife. 


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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 4:31am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Maverick29

Originally posted by rima

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Originally posted by Maverick29

[QUOTE=rima][QUOTE=tia.o]That's typical Indian mentality. 


defenitely not general.
 
but largely men without spine do this.
 
they tend to let the wife or in-laws take the blame for their own mistakes by t taking a stand.
 
i know many men are not like this,
 
i know women too who have hurt parents by siding with their husbands. i guess it  depends on the larger human nature.
 
but since the woman lives in the man's house the scope is more with men.
 
usually the woman are the ones who reach out and build bonds. so when they do not do it with their in-laws the blame falls on them

Ok!  Let us set ground rules here -- A man without a spine is not a MAN in my book.  The definition of a guy that runs his family is one who is capable of making the requisite decisions and has the convictions he can stand by.

So, the spineless wonders who are not really men dont count.  I have been away from family politics for so long and like I said, I live in my work world totally and I just make sure my immediate family listens to what I say.  So, I may not know this well.

So, my conclusion will be before we blame "MEN" -- let us qualify them -- these are spineless guys -- you can pick them out quite easily.  If there are too many of them, then there is a problem.
let us keep it to the two spineless guys who are in this show...one who apparently seems to have the spine but does not show it...arnav
 
the other who never had it all...akash

This is the writers!!!  This is the so called Daily soap format!!! I have been saying this from the time of the Kidnapping -- they are changing Arnav's character -- Lalith and the original team built a Royal character that didnt give a shit about anyone -- these morons now are making him the "spineless guy".

Akash is a bigger problem -- he was the guy that wanted to please everyone -- Indian obedient boy style -- but we all know people who do that end up pleasing no one.  But there are ways to show spine as an Indian Kid -- now this upbringing limits leadership potential that is a totally different discussion.

I surely cannot see a guy who is as abrasive as Arnav at work being a nice little Pussy when it comes to handling the hard stuff.  This does not happen.  The writers are MENTAL.

If you take my way of dealing with things -- it is the same across the board -- I yell at home/when pissed at my parents or any of my aunts and uncles grand parents does not matter who it is/at work well the entire board knows when I am pissed -- it does not change.  The only time it changes is when you need to be nice, I am not Soft at work but I am at home when I need to be nice i am soft.  That is the only change -- if I talk to my wife like I talk to people at work all the time she will Kill me -- no leaving me -- just butchering me.

So, we make slight adjustments but we dont become "different people" this is schizophrenia that the writers are showing.
i agree withthe change and butchering of characters.
 
arnav is not so strong anymore.
 
akash is not so nice anymore
 
anjali is beginning to be evil
 
khushi is a doormat now...
 
 
maverick why is LM not coming back?
 
i somehow still beleive all is lost fro when he went away
 
ps: good you are nice at home and good you know she can kill you if you are not niceSmile

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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 4:35am | IP Logged
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I fail to understand this Poojali. 

Agreed she's in pain and needs everybody's attention. And she's getting the attention as well but does giving her attention mean that a man cannot even spend few romantic moments with his wife? Does that mean that only because she's unhappy, even people around her should remain unhappy too. Only because the great indian dummy doesn't want to believe her hubby's a creep and doesn't want to move on in life, should even other's not move ahead and enjoy their life?


'Chottey you have fallen in love, Your married now' 

She said this in such a way that made me feel like Arnav has committed some big crime by marrying the girl he loves. It was totally fine when she and her husband used to openly romance in front of the whole world shamelessly but when her chottey does it then he has started lying to her, he has started paying less attention to her, he has distanced himself from her. If she so blindly believes in her hubby dear then why didn't she just leave the house with him? Why did she allow Arnav to throw him out? 

And if she has such a big problem in Arnav lying to her then why is she not believing what he's trying to say? Why doesn't she believe him when he says Shyam is a disgusting human being. And now she will be going out by LYING to Arnav to meet Shyam. Wah re wah Anjali, You accused Arnav of lying to you but now your not LYING to your brother? You have started lying as well right? And why have you started lying? Because 'You're  in love, Your married.' Heights of hypocrisy. 


I have always seen Anjali as a very manipulative person. She and her husband. Both the sweet talkers of the family and destroying everybody's lives. Let her go to Shyam and not come back. He's her world, he is her everything. She doesn't mind if he kidnaps her brother whom she claims to love to death, She doesn't mind even if he tries to kill her brother,  She doesn't mind if he tries to destroy her brother's and sister in law's life. Why? Because he is her Shyamji and she wishes her child to be exactly like him. 


This is nothing but disgusting. Arnav should do nothing but ask people to just get out of his house. Why on earth should he provide people with explanations for romancing with his OWN wife in his OWN house. Its not like the house is run by Anjali or something. Its Arnav's house. He pays from his pocket for everything that is purchased in the house. The beautiful saree's that Anjali has been wearing since the beginning are because of Arnav and not her Shyamji. Anjali lives a lavish life because of HIM. If he asks her to get out and go to her Shyam (I know he won't do that) then she and her husband will be on the streets. So she has no right to stop him from romancing with his wife. 


precisely aahana. she is making him feel guilty about romancing his wife in his house and even his bedroom
 
...what did she think a husband and wife is all about?
 
anyway you are right, her compfortable and luxurious life is the gift of her chote and it is pathetic she forgets that
 
if she loved shyam she should have walked ut with him

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