Kyunki Anjali bhi Kabhi Wife thi... - Page 2

It's the problem with execution..I dunno whose fault it is..Director's or DB's..But watching Anjali get all jealous and worked up..It seems Arnav is stuck between two wives..How can a sister get jealous of her brother in love??!!She might be sad that her brother is lying and yada yada yada but it's pure jealousy these days...

Originally posted by: rima

agree tia. i always blame arnav for all torubles of Khushi. He brought her into the raizada house. he did not speak up for her and now she is facing the brunt. when will that guy be a husband in the real sense? for me the romance does not make her his husband.

 

Tia i also agree she was nice when things were going well. she turns bitter when things are not in her favor and she is not number 1...which is not goodness in the real sense

I read some posts on defense of Anjali..after read that i tried a lot to make sympathy n understand her condition but i couldn't. I couldn't b/c her self centric selfish type attitude..All ready her different behaviors were proved she is not quite happy to see ArHi's togetherness..her jealousy expressed my hubby is not with me then why will khushi be happy with her hubby!!

But in last episode she was more aggressive in her attitude   n dialogues..she fully shown she doesn't tolerate the intimacy of ArHi in front Khushi. She said to her chotae * u r in love* ,* after marriage u have changed*, * u started to tell lie with ur di now*(though he didn't tell lie with her di) blah blah blah... but what is now she going to do for meeting with her hubby without telling her chotae?? Is it not love for her hubby?? If it is love, if she can love her hubby then why can't her chotae to his wife?? Iss discrimination ko kaya nam doon??Anjali ji apki jitna trif karu utna e kam hai!!!😵

Its high time for Arnav to understand not he rather than his di has changed b/c her dogmatic for her hubby..She is not his beloved di who always claimed Chotae *u r the most important person in my life* his di doesn't believe him anymore how much he does for her..her world is now revolved with her creep hubby's thought...So, Arnav leave ur di in her own delusion dreamy world n u go forward n build ur own fresh lovely world with ur Khushi.




Edited by ogive_nab - 11 years ago

Because Anjali is a self absorbed, self centered, delusional person. If she is personally happy then everyone and everything around her should be happy, if she's unhappy... everyone around her should be grieving too. Selfish and mean. Edited by vellainsaan - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o

Rima, you are forgetting that Anjali was sugar and spice and everything nice when her life was rosy and she was no.1 in Arnav's life. Now that she is alone and she is no longer no.1 in her brother's life, she is no longer sugary sweet.
I had said on the slap episode what a big mistake Arnav did by not speaking up. Now you will see the result.

 

Originally posted by: tia.o

You see Rima, when everyone was going ga ga over how perfect Anjali and Arnav's relationship was, I said one thing which a lot of people did not like. I said that they have a exclusive relationship which won't let them form healthy relationship with anyone else. If they were husband and wife, that's fine because then they would be each other's life partner. But they are brother and sister and they need their own life partners who may not be content to stay on the sideline of their relationship.

Another point is that when everyone was saying Anjali is so good, no one noticed how manipulating she is because she was manipulating for good. Now people are noticing her manipulating nature because now she is doing the same for bad. She manipulated the family to accept Lavanya for Chotey's sake, she did it again to convince Khushi to train Lavanya, when Khushi left she did it to bring back Khushi and I can give you numerous example like that. And every time Arnav gave in. She never did.

She is truly ASR's sister.

Now about Arnav. No, he is not being a good husband because he is doing nothing to safeguard Khushi from insults. All he can think about is his Di's so-called fragile health. Just like Aakash has never been a good husband. He has been a more attentive husband. But I realized during Bubbly track that Aakash does not trust Payal even a bit even though he claims to love her. When he could think that Payal could be that cruel to torture a little girl, then is it any wonder that now he is back again his jerky behaviour?None of them know how to treat their own wives. They should never have got married.

U r absolutely right Tia...anjilli was always manipulative,arnav and anjilli never shared a normal sibling relationship they were too involved in each others life without giving space to each other which is very important for any healthy relationship...she was happy for his married life when she was happy herself but now when she isn't anymore happy and in a relationship she wants him to suffer as well.

My big issue with the cvs r that stop portraying Khushi as only a sexual object in a marriage where arnav's only interest in being accepted as a husband is to get her into bed...being a husband is a complete package and love is not only the physical aspect,agreed its a very important part of the package but not the only one...love is respect which he is not giving to her himself and not making others to respect her either...he should stand by her bcz she is not the guilty party here and if the Cvs make her bcz of anjilli then where is the nayi Sochi star plus is harping on abt? This is what always happen that the wife/daughter in law pay for everybody's crime in the susral.

Thank you for the lovely Post Rima... I think she has never seen Arnav romancing Kushi before..She always knew they had problems. But after kicking shyam out of the house she sees the sudden change in Arnav.. She holds Kushi responsible for everything which went wrong in her life..It's a shame that she can't recall those past memories like why shyam was never around when Kushi was working in RM and the jokes he said about his second marriage, Kushi's engagement ring and even she knew Kushi's fiance's name was Shyam... She has become purely selfish...I think she is using everything and everyone for her own benefit. She was like a mother to Arnav, but in my opinion Arnav is more like a father to her...He still takes care of her every single need but I think she cares for shyam more than Arnav...
What makes me so angry is that she never asked a single word about Arnav's kidnapping. It seems like she doesn't even care about it.. It's true he is saved but doesn't she think that she needs to know  what actually happened... But I am happy that Kushi is leaving RM.. It's a shame that Arnav couldn't clear her name in front of the family members before the contract but I am glad that she is leaving..If Payal is willing to listen to all the MIL husband crap it's her problem but happy for Kushi...

Pls tell me why she expects Arnav to give her more importance when she gives more to shyam?If she can blindly believe Shyam why can't Arnav?
Edited by babes25 - 11 years ago

That's typical Indian mentality. 

Originally posted by: ogive_nab

I read some posts on defense of Anjali..after read that i tried a lot to make sympathy n understand her condition but i couldn't. I couldn't b/c her self centric selfish type attitude..All ready her different behaviors were proved she is not quite happy to see ArHi's togetherness..her jealousy expressed my hubby is not with me then why will khushi be happy with her hubby!! But in last episode she was more aggressive in her attitude   n dialogues..she fully shown she doesn't tolerate the intimacy of ArHi in front Khushi. She said to her chotae * u r in love* ,* after marriage u have changed*, * u started to tell lie with ur di now*(though he didn't tell lie with her di) blah blah blah... but what is now she going to do for meeting with her hubby without telling her chotae?? Is it not love for her hubby?? If it is love, if she can love her hubby then why can't her chotae to his wife?? Iss discrimination ko kaya nam doon??Anjali ji apki jitna trif karu utna e kam hai!!!😵
Its high time for Arnav to understand not he rather than his di has changed b/c her dogmatic for her hubby..She is not his beloved di who always claimed Chotae *u r the most important person in my life* His di doesn't believe u anymore how much u do for her..her world is now revolving with her creep hubby's thought...So, Arnav leave ur di in her own dreamy world n u go forward n build ur own fresh lovely world with ur Khushi.

  Edited by ASR4eva - 11 years ago

what the CV's intended to show & what we saw, are very different