Posted: 21 July 2012 at 2:09am | IP Logged
This topic is so over the hill now .. its beaten to a pulp and done to death .. and analysed with such viciousness at IF that I can only give up on it..
Why are majority of the folks at IF agitated over Anjali's behavior in the last few episodes...They seem to understand what the character is going through but harbor ill wills anyways because its coming in way of Arhi romance...
Stop pretending like you have the perfect relationship with your siblings, that you never had arguments and show downs and that its always been hunky dory. It's human to be behave near psychotic when in depression / shock. The recovery is usually hastened by medical help and emotional support of loved ones. Valium too maybe but even that's no magic wand.. It takes time and effort.
I have 2 siblings, An aquarian day dreamer of a sis and a stubborn hot headed Taurean of a bro.. And oh boy do we fight!!! and I am talking not of pillow fight but actually pull at hair, throw vases, and rip apart clothes..as in fisticuffs...You can imagine what becomes a Cancerian like me esp when I am caught between the crossfire .
I don't believe in astrology but we are pretty much the kind of people Linda Goodman says the signs are.
My sis has been married for 3 years now , ( went thru a break up before that) has a baby, suffered a miscarriage , had a breakdown unable to fit in a joint family post marriage, having to balance her work and studies ( masters) and also make he marriage work esp all the while not getting quite there in terms of financial security.
Oh we have had spats..Like never before...peppered with choicest of abuse and words that scarred...She asked me to keep my meddling nose out of her f*****g business and her life, keeping my worldly wise views shut along with my big mouth... in exactly those words..we dint speak to each other for 3 months...not a word despite sharing a room when her marriage was in trouble...
my bro dropped out of one college to pursue another professional course, something he wanted to despite maha drama being played out at home.
So you see we have had nasty times, when u swore you dint want to see each others face for the rest of your lives, you can forgive but not forget all that was said...
In the rush of the moment or under denial its hard to come to grips with reality... One of them needs to stay sane.. Let things be, stay back, allow yourself and the other to reflect and get some perspective... and then try and reason with them.
With time people do come around...Today, me and my siblings, we are the best of friends , fiercely protective of each other and wouldn't trade anything for the equation that we have... That's life.
It's not perfect but you need to make imperfections work for you...
Irrespective of what Anjali's character is playing out now, which is hard to digest, more s because we are so obsessed with ArHi, we need to cut her some slack.. Before her life turned topsy turvy she was adorable, wasn't she? She would be abnormal if she dint change. And you are hating her because you don't like the extent and degree of her change. Really? can anyone really define a parameter that others should adhere to? well who gave you the right?
It's her way of dealing with her pain, and seeing logic in it, however screwed it may be, why are everybody mauling her? Who the hell are you to give your gyaan on that? ( This line is for all those who don't seem to respect the thin line that demarcates the actor from the character).
Real life mein itna drama hai toh on screen mein drama toh exaggerated hi hoga na...Show chalega kaise varna?
It took Cv 5 months to expose Shyam, that's the pace, aur RM mein time warps ke toh kya kehne!!! All the drama cannot be rushed in a week or in a maha episode...They are balancing out romance and melodrama, pitching cliff hangers on fridays...
Not defending CV's, I have my own set of bones to pick with them, but you need to give CV's time. and anjali's character too.
P.S: Arnav ko khushi ne badla, Arnav ke pyaar mein padhkar Khushi mein bhi badlaav aa rahe hai,lekin agar Anjali ki zindagi ( read -her pati parmeshwar- who was her entire sansaar) mein toofan aaye toh woh na badle..kyu kyunki woh Arhi romance ke beech mein haadi ban rahi hai, what kind of a trade off is that?
Edited by GodHelpUs - 21 July 2012 at 2:17am