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Exactly why I love Arnav and Anjali!

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:25pm | IP Logged
Ok for most people that know me I watch this show for two people only and that is Arnav and Anjali! 

Their relationship is what keeps me watching this show otherwise I would be long gone, their moments always bring a smile to my face and today was no different, it was honest, it was open and it is exactly how their relationship has been and it did fracture, it happens in every sibling relationship its how you come out on the otherside...It was shown that they both have the same bond, Arnav was the only one that managed to get his Di to have medicine and she was the only one that stopped him saying what he was saying... 

Arnav done what ever brother would do for a sister like mother he tried to protect her and in that he made a choice and Anjali never wanted him to make this decision it was never his decision to make... 

Today I can see that everyone has gone OMG I hate Anjali what about Khushi etc etc... But finally Anjali blamed Arnav she had to the courage to blame her brother because he was the one that was wrong not Khushi for when he hid the truth... He is the one that gave her false hope, he is the one that let her build a life with Shyam and her baby, Khushi wasn't her own but Arnav was and the day of his wedding when he decided to shut her out he made his choice, for Arnav that was the right choice and being Arnav he would make the same decision a thousand times over but for Anjali it is something she has to deal with now, she reacted how Arnav expected her to and for that Arnav is more adamant that he had made the right decision... 

But this is the loop hole neither sibling is wrong neither sibling is right... (Yes Shilpu I am putting our argument hereLOL
Arnav was wrong for making a decision about Shyam on Anjali's behalf it should have always been Anjali's choice if she wanted to give Shyam a second chance to be the a husband and a father to their child, it was always Anjali's decision not Arnav's and Arnav made that decision when he didn't tell her the truth... (and Arnav also brought Khushi into the mess as more than an outsider...(I shall come back to this point)) It was never Arnav's decision to make, if your hubby is cheating on you it is your decision to give him a second chance not your brothers or anyone else's decision...

But Anjali was wrong for the fact she gave Arnav the impression that she won't be able to deal with the truth and it is true she wouldn't have but Arnav never thought it was important to tell her that he has decided her future she is meant to stay with a man that cheated on her... Yes she is still believing Shyam whatever, but what proof does she have that he is wrong nothing and she is meant to take her brothers word for it, fine! She accepts that but the trauma is still the same, the one person who has never lied to her just took the biggest decision of her life without once thinking to tell her or let her make the decision herself...  

As for her being jealous on Arnav and Khushi's relationship, the fact that they are happy isn't what is affecting Anjali, the flashbacks and the portrayal of it is different but the fact is Arnav made a decision to protect his wife over his sister and that is correct as well but when Arnav made a decision to marry Khushi he chose love over his family not because Khushi betrayed her but because he protected Khushi instead of telling her the truth, even if at that point Khushi was blamed called characterless we would have all been just as mad but at that point Anjali would have been able to make a decision without having Arnav in the middle on these two women... Arnav never sought out the truth he blamed Khushi believed Shyam and there was nothing more to it, but this was what complicated the situation... But whatever happens now both of them are going to be hurt... 

Is Arnav wrong to think about Khushi? NO! 
Is Anjali wrong to say what she has said? NO! But Anjali has never told Arnav to stop thinking or caring for his wife, Anjali would never hurt Arnav like that but what she has said today wasn't about his marriage but it was about his decision behind the marriage when he hid the truth... Maybe circumstances were drastic but everyone can blame circumstances but the fact is Khushi can say if Arnav wasn't kidnapped I wouldn't have told the truth or if Anjali hadn't panicked that day, Arnav can say his Di was pregnant etc... Everyone has a list of excuses and all Anjali wanted was honesty something her and Arnav have always had she has shared everything with him and been through everything with him and that is what is hurting her that Arnav hurt her  by lying not Shyam... 

It can seem selfish, it can seem like Anjali is being a Censored a lot can be said about the situation and that Anjali is to blame but one thing shall stand true lies hurt more than the truth, even if they are said to protect you... Arnav asked Khushi why didn't she tell him about Shyam and it hurt him? So why can't Anjali feel the same hurt? When Khushi hide the truth she worked for the family but Arnav was her own brother? 

Neither is this defending Anjali nor is it blaming Arnav but I am glad the CVs actually brought this matter to hand and for that thank you that but also for showing that Arnav and Anjali's relationship hasn't changed Anjali still told Arnav how she feels... Embarrassed

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:37pm | IP Logged
Very sensible post.
I am NOT in favour of Anjali, I never was but your post makes sense. Arnav did the blunder and now both the woman he loves is suffering because of him. Even today he stood still when Mami was taunting Khushi mercilessly, BUT THAT'S ANOTHER MATTER .
Arnav should ACT out ASAP without hurting any of them.

I don't watch IPK for Arnav Anjali though I used to like their scenes earlier. Now they are pathetic but that's just my POV.
Wonderful post . Thanks

Edited by trina2010 - 20 July 2012 at 3:37pm

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:40pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by trina2010

Very sensible post.
I am NOT in favour of Anjali, I never was but your post makes sense. Arnav did the blunder and now both the woman he loves is suffering because of him. Even today he stood still when Mami was taunting Khushi mercilessly, BUT THAT'S ANOTHER MATTER .
Arnav should ACT out ASAP without hurting any of them.

I don't watch IPK for Arnav Anjali though I used to like their scenes earlier. Now they are pathetic but that's just my POV.
Wonderful post . Thanks
sooo agree with you.
arnav need to tell the truth to his family fast.
i can't stand them like that

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:40pm | IP Logged
excellent post. totally agree. hatts off to cvs...

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:44pm | IP Logged
Good post nikita ! Makes a lot of sense, but trust me you 99.99 % of the people in this forum here watch this show ONLY and ONLY for ArShi.

I'm neither a fan of this show nor the couple (Although I have to say that the chemistry and the acting by the lead actors is FABULOUS) simply because of reasons I dont wish to disclose. 

So a very few people who are gonna agree with you on this Smile

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:44pm | IP Logged
Niks...U really dont want me to start my blabbering here again...do  u?? U know my feelings for both dese losers...
Both dese bro-sis duo are equally involved in making the hot n spicy soup...but everyone else in the house...including innocents like payal n khushi are having to face the brunt of acid reflux n diarrhoea!!! OuchLOLLOL
 
So much for the chaos!!Angry
 
I want khushi n payal to go on a bahamas trip now n set out on the beach with bikinis on...with that royal attitude...m sure they will be much more at peace than having to live in dat looney RM!!!Cool
 
oh btw...being ur loyal phanka...I paid my respects...n dont be complaining...I havent even paid any respects at RJ's Aashirwaad LOLLOLLOL


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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:45pm | IP Logged
hey here we meet again

really good to see siddhima fans again...u didn even changed ur siddhima dp...thnx for that...i wont change my dp either

I HV A HUGE COMPLAIN FIRST b4 replying to this post

WHY THE HELL DIDNT U POST HERE ARLIER

WHY WHY WHY

im sick of the bashing posts in this forum and ur post was jus like a breather...nd i want this breather everyday...
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SALUTE TO IPKKND TEAM FOR SHWiNG US THE NOST BEAUTIFUL BRO SIS BOND EVER SHWN ONSCREEN till date...i really dont. hv words abt how amazingly beautiful th arnav anjali scenes of today...

SPECIAL THNX TO DALJIT For NOT QUITTING the shw when it needed her the most...i cant even imagine barun calling som1 else di...these scenes wud hv lookd fake it wasnt. daljit playing. anjali...STANDING OVATION TO DALJIT ND bARUN again

edited for todays epi...today we saw another side of the relation which barun anjali was BANG ON again...what we saw today we never witnessed b4...there was anger frustration misunderstnading pain everything between arnav anjali and barun nd anjali portrayed each nd every emotion flawlessly...ND I M JUS LUVING THIS TIFF BETWEEN ANJALI ND ARNAV...this is a welcum change given the all the time loey dovey scenes...negativity can happn in the most treasured bond as well nd cvs hv portrayed it beautifully...HATS OFF...



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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rach.

Good post nikita ! Makes a lot of sense, but trust me you 99.99 % of the people in this forum here watch this show ONLY and ONLY for ArShi.

I'm neither a fan of this show nor the couple (Although I have to say that the chemistry and the acting by the lead actors is FABULOUS) simply because of reasons I dont wish to disclose. 

So a very few people who are gonna agree with you on this Smile


thats a very compliment cuming from some1 who doesnt even watch the shw...salute nd really appreciate it

nd yeah SARUN IS LITERALLY STUPENDOUS

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