Posted: 20 July 2012 at 3:22pm | IP Logged
Best Items of the day -20th July
Best dialogue of the day
Indu: Ka sunana baaki rah gaya Saanchi ji, jo ee bhakat bulaya Indu: Jab maun vrat dharan karna tha, bulaaya kahe ? ...walks away Saanchi: Indu Singh, you spoilt my life ...blah blah ...i will not be able to forgive you..blah blah... Indu: Yeh sab roj roj ki ram-kahaani sun-sun ke hamaare kaan pak chuke hain. Bahut sun li. Kuch naya ho, kauno zaroori baat ho batao. Saanchi's small face worth watching . And Indu with all poise conversing with her. Like a total adult before her. Back to his bed, he fumes. He is the angry man again. WOW!!!! Indu has become the thinking machine again. Oh! I love him.
Best scene of the day
Shobha so concerned and calls Radha.
Best Verdict of the Day
The judge's verdict. Has marriage become a joke???? That was so called for from her side. And Pooh!!!! that was so uncalled for Saanchi Mathur. Poor Indu!! He got sandwiched between Saanchi's wanting divorce and the judge's wanting testing of the marriage. Wasn't Indu Singh advocating the same; to give him a chance. Now he's fed up of the whole Saanchi fiasco and here judge throws him before "Saanchi the tigress" to eat him alive.
Oh!!! the last part was hilarious.
Overall a very good episode.
I wanted to share with you this story. So I decided divorce in 3rd or 4th month of marriage. And I studied the rules of engagement and got to know that hassle-free uncontested divorce, I can get in 7 years when both spouses will stay seperately from each other. I was okay with this option. Otherwise, I had to contest divorce. My ex was against divorce so I knew that option was total cross-out for me. Mutual consent was the only option available. This we achieved after one year of marriage. Because my parents could not live in stalemate situation. But biggest problem for the lawyers was that we did not even stay together for 6 months. So someone suggested a twisted story of we being married for 3 years and on one phalana -dhikana day of Satyanarayan puja, differences were developed, which got escalated and now we have become irreconciliable.
I don't know why, but all along I was so level headed and cool-minded and calculating even in heights of emotional frenzy of all people involved, this last piece of story so upset me that I exploded. I started my tirade, whose story was it,and why the 3 years was there. That was so abhorrable and unacceptable to me.
And when my cousin brother scolded me and said you are getting what you want. What do u care what is written on the paper. Its not that you are going to get the paper framed!
And me "the satyawaadi harishchandra' retorted. Said that's the point. Its on paper. Whether getting framed or not, it is one of the truths for me.
Then he said, "okay fine. Then just accept it as your truth and close the chapter. And now sign the document"
I had no choice and in partial indignation and partial sense hitting back to me, I signed.
I chose to NOT think about it. The document is still with me and I never read it again.
But today, after watching the episode, I suddenly realized that I was mad at the story, because no one thought of informing me beforehand what story they are going to tell before the judge. That was real reason of indignation to my rational mind. If they had told me, I would have easily understood, why they had to write that story. ofcourse to get me divorce. I would have not minded my ex to have the better part of the story. Actually while contesting also, I never was truly angry with him. Just that I felt, we cannot have anything together, and that indifference stuck to me.But then that indifference also gave calm, quiet and tolerance to me towards him. I never thought ill of him. Heard that he was having a good life. Someone tried to make me jealous about that. But in my heart and even my mother's heart, we were so happy that he was happy. Because if he is happy, nothing bad can touch me. I am deeply religious in believing that principle.
Edited by shridevigaddam - 20 July 2012 at 3:22pm