Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon


Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

Bye bye Anjali, was nice knowing you *edit* (Page 15)

momma1128 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 8:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by stardust-

i don't know what to say lady, just not as disappointed as yet,, umm maybe its the pattar ka dil, but i know you'd get that :p

i can't say i relate to Anjali or her pain, but there is something less happening, something that hasn't just blown me off LOL. Maybe i thought she'd say Khushi get out of the house and maybe i thought she'd blame Khushi for everything and say you don't deserve to be here. She did none of that!! at least verbally, cause who knows what runs in that doodle brain of hers?

Bacchiii - you and your dil!!  anyhooos, the CVs want us to relate to her pain and the fact that you can't speaks volumes.  Her initial shock I get, even afterwards but slowly i see her starting to become emotionally manipulative fot selfish ends which she wasn't before

The only thing i thought would happen and has happened is probably ASR's plight which i get. But what i don't get is someone needs to give Anjali a reality check and tell her she LIVES OFF her brother's money. So just because she has been his life support, just because he faraks her does not mean she can take him for granted!!

Ta-Da!  That's is self absorbed right there.  You live breathe and die for me for the past 12 years and it means I own you and your time.  Say what Di?

All that she has done so far is tell him that things have changed since the day of marriage and that is so true, nothing happened now, not now, not NEW!! maybe she needs to find a button on me to blow me off the hook. LOL

But what is it that prompts her to say that, it is that she is neglected for the sake of being with his wife, a wife that she threw at him every chance he got.  It comes off as when shyam is there I am happy and when he is not, rsvp my pity party.  CVs and Daljeet, BIG FAIL.

i did not and will not watch the RM interview. whoever thought i could sit through BISSless interviews for 7 whole minutes LOL. As of now, the one to sympathaize for looks like ASR; not Anjali; and Daljeet has only herself to thank for that!!

No man would or should be caught between his sister and his wife at the behest of his sister no less.

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applesauce. IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:08pm | IP Logged

Great post!I agree with each and every word of yours.This track is becoming inconsistent(as if it wasnt) and confusing.Its like anjali on wed & anjali on thurs/fri doesnt relate.I am highly disappointd with the way they going with the story..Yesterday the living room scene wher anjali was al crying and accusing Chotey..I felt as if Am watchin the vahu show..& i expectd the BG to switch too.(my gran watches that shw)
expect the start nothing was worth watching...Mami n her stinking mouth..Angry.
I just hate myself nw of being positive abt the show frm feb..The promisd romance /love story has becum nw DSK with interruptd RVsStern Smile,,Only BS & SI are makin it worth watching.

Anjali is supposed to be pregnant..&nt sick due to some deadly disease..If DB wants the screen space why dint the creatives hd brains to deal 'baby bump' with her.How do they expect us to imagine that she is 5mnths pregnant..&sympathise with her.

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JWMRK IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by momma1128

A bit of a rant - it's long, at times perhaps incoherent, but I was revelling in some awesome ASR moments and then bam!  what the Anjali...

All indications were given that this was a love story.  I didn't see Anjali lurking in between ASR and Kh in any of the show promos, I did not see Anjali in any promo touting her incredible bond with her brother.  I did see her as a side character from day 1 when she came onto the stage with ASR and it was evident that ASR loved his Di and she cared for him immensely, worried about him being HAPPY and letting go of the pain of the past.  That has been Anjali from June 6th 2011.

Yes ...why did they shoot 4 promos with the pair they knew were a win win...perhaps they didnt get Daljeet's dates at that time

Anjali has always been the unstable Raizada ' not only an insecurity arising from her disability but also from her broken wedding,  but even in her bubble she recognized her brother's feelings.  She is the one who reached out to La even though the family didn't like her, she called him out on his rude behavior with Khushi, she recognized that he fell in love with her and she was the mature one in the family who put aside his shotgun wedding and welcomed Khushi into the house. 

Exactly, and that is the premise for my post also...if she was always shown as someone who resented a person in ASR's life...fine...Ok she hates Khushi as the saut..fine...why hate him??...He would have been dead by now

 If she was shown to remain the one who understood her brother, then I would have oodles of sympathy for what is a plight that can break any woman.  Pregnant with your adultering, kidnapping and attempted murdering husband's child, who you pinned your entire self-worth and being on.  I am supposed to be crying for this woman.  But I ain't.

On the money here...what would have been a very relatable track and frankly a chance to show soch nayi is down the valley in the name of drama

Anjali has gone off the deep end.  I tried for two weeks.  For two weeks I said, come on Anu, she is a pathetic creature right now in the midst of an emotional breakdown, she's pregnant, never worked a day in her life, mooches off her bro'wait focus, her husband got kicked out of the house.  She's delicate, she deserves the benefit of the doubt.  I am supposed to sympathize with her.  But no dice.  What I see is a woman who shuts everyone out, who goes off to abort her child and kill herself in the process because THE FATHER gets no respect, then comes back and wants to keep baby and have baby look like said father who deceived her and her family for 3 years (sach kya hain nani, somebody just tell her to call the Guptas and Happyji),

That is it...I can understand someone is upset...but then please help that person and that help cannot be satsang and feeding fruits...have a talk...take her to a counsellor...give her anti depressants...After all this if she wants Shyam without even a moment of reflection on what two f her own brothers ASR and NK are saying...God help her
I made a post on understanding why she may want to abort...but here the excuse is so flimsy ...its about Shyam ...not the babyShocked

who tells her brother who saved her life he is of no help to her, who cries at the sight of flowers for her sister in law, who cries at the sight of her brother having alone time with his wife, who cries at the sight of her brother having a moment with his wife, who cries that her brother forgot her after he lets her keep said flowers, hauls her butt to bed, that's in a room, in a house, that had the snake who got the allowance in the Shantivan that ASR built. 

 And thats why we feel the characterisation took a drastic turn around

She is coming off as self absorbed and she is coming off as begrudging her brother's happiness which goes against the essence of this character. the bold

There is no other way to take it.  She stood in the living room today and called her brother ASR a liar.  How convenient  and how unimaginative CVs that you have Khushi maligned by Mami without a single shut up and extreme tepid retort from Nani and then you have Anjali the little delicate flower call her brother a liar, pout, cry at the display of affection for her sister in law and waltz off.  How sad was ASR today left alone in the living room with his wife and sister going off in different directions.

I have a load of stuff on Mami...but thats for another say
My heart went out to ASR today...he is like the punching bagCry

  Why is this injustice visited upon this couple time and time again just when the audience feels that they are due for some time to just love.  So ASR goes off in the direction of Anjali (obviously because we have to have equal air time now, he hugged his wife, her screentime quota met, am I being cynical, yes because the story is ridiculous as is Anjali's characterization at the moment).  And this is where Anjali and any glimmer of sympathy left and I wanted ASR to pack her off to her Shyam heaven haveli that has been under construction for a year.

She says marriage changed Chotte the day he got married.  So why are you whining about it NOW?????  Why were you not whining about it when you made Bali in Delhi, why weren't you whining about during Holi, where was this boohoo Chotte why isn't Di numero uno when you made Khushi repair his button??  What has changed between then and now is that Anjali is devastated and lost her husband, which leads me to believe that she now begrudges the time with his wife because CHOTTE IS HAPPY and she is not and wants attention NOW  (insert pout and mote mote ansoo). 

Exactly again my thoughts...I mentioned it in my post ...that line was a real low brow when she takes him back to his unannounced marriage

 And now, what will she do, try to get back the man her entire household despises and alienate Kh (this is how soch nayi works on SP right). 

Star Plus for all its tommtomming has real regressive stuff being aired at times 

How much more emotionally manipulative can someone get.  How much more self centered?  CVs this is the reason why the audience cannot relate to her.  While she was happy with Shyam, she was all for her brother being in love.  Now, she is not.  If her issue is that it is Khushi he is happy with, then find a better way to display it because right now, Anjali is no better than any other manipulative saas.

She is increasingly coming accross as that
I signed up for a love story.  Today I got a couple finally acknowledging and succumbing to each other  (Barun and Sanaya thank you for the most awesome 7 mins) and then got lambasted with a saas/bahu drama with Akash showing absolutely no spine and Payal thinking just a spoonful of bhindi makes the ghussa go down.  Manorama becoming that "saas" again, insulting the bahu and trying to feed her son a bottle.    I use my remote to avoid those shows (yes I know exactly what to do with them thank you!) Add some phantom calls from the character no one wants to see return any time soon and we have a recipe for disaster.  The show needs the main lead couple to have some time ' uninterrupted time.  Make parallel tracks, but don't do it at the cost of the central story and don't do it while destroying the characters.  Today's episode was a stale regressive kitchen drama with a half baked love story stuck in.  For shame.
(note - I have not seen Dolly's interview with Rangmunch, so don't know what she said, and quite frankly don't have any interest now)
Anu, as an aside for a change I watched that interview, I was responding to another thread and read comments aboout should watch ...chuckles...the best part is ...the line we are working very hard you know...LOLLOL...and being professional (with not a shred of an attempt at character study or projection eg flat stomach)...I rest my case


Take a look at the sister Anjali was a year ago - where exactly is there an inkling of DKS story here?  Now this is the sister calling her brother a liar for spending time with his WIFE (thanks WCW)

Hiya AnuBig smile
Awesome postClapClapClap...on the money should I sayWink
Some thoughts above

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.SublimeSaRun. Senior Member

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:22pm | IP Logged
Okay I went on a huge ranting session\rampage here only to realize that my views were voiced perfectly with another post so read this Anu. I'm not feeling sympathy for Poojali but I think its more pity over her situation and how weak she is... She is clingy by nature and ull understand with this post..

Edited by .SublimeSaRun. - 20 July 2012 at 11:55pm

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rima IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:25pm | IP Logged
Thumbs UpAwesome post and awesome points, one after the other.
like you i held on to anjali for two weeks. i defended her when people bashed her for the red roses episode. even made a post for her when she ended up crying over the cake cutting scene.
but today i lost it.
today i agree with the rest of IF.
she is selfish
and has a dog in the manger attitude about her brother whome she claims to love
she is the same woman who prayed and cried that a girl should come and take his pain away
and today, since the girl is her souten (in her warped mind) she is upset and she is grudging him his happiness?
what kind of a sister does that?
good post anu. loved it

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zsewaq IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:25pm | IP Logged
show jaye bhad mein...Anjali ko footage dena chahiye...! i was watching the show with my sister & she also got annoyed with more n more didi ka rona dhona & nakhre.

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stardust- IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:46pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by momma1128

But what is it that prompts her to say that, it is that she is neglected for the sake of being with his wife, a wife that she threw at him every chance he got.  It comes off as when shyam is there I am happy and when he is not, rsvp my pity party.  CVs and Daljeet, BIG FAIL.

No man would or should be caught between his sister and his wife at the behest of his sister no less.

@red.. THAT part of Anjali just doesn't make sense. free advice for the freeloader Anjali : you want your brother to give him more attention over his wife? you give him more attention over your husband's thoughts Big smile

But that's what i am saying Anu, she never said that, though she implied it that's what she wants. As of now she just looks like a sister who is hurt that her brother "lied" to her. She THINKS he is changed and that is true. and for Anjali Manohar Jha, that's the normal (thanks to aish). That's why my dil goes hmmm :p its pathetic and its Anjali. hence i am buying it. *head desk*

@blue : AMEN. also, if people want to see a Arnav Khushi story and not Arnav Anjali story, then start with making Khushi the woman in ASR's life. If she walks out of RM; that'll only push ASR to fear what we don't want him to do : choose between Anjali and Khushi for real. (and make ASR more of a victim) I'd expect Khushi to be better than that cause frankly, she IS.

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FakeLove IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:57pm | IP Logged
I'm highly disappointed and disgusted with this weirdly freaky fictional character called 'Anjali'. Is she pregnant or mentally retarded? That's a question for CVs and PH

Trust me Anu even I tried to empathize her but I lost whatever respect I had for the character the day she shed crocodile tears spotting Nannav having somewhat happiness with his wife. How absurd was that? I thought she was the mom Nannav never had. Can you possibly imagine a mother being selfish over her son's happiness even if she's going through a rough patch? I'm sorry I haven't heard of such mother. I think  Anjali's bluffing when she says she's Nannav's only family

Frankly speaking I find her a selfish sibling who has no respect for anybody else other than herself and her so called 'husband the greatest'. If her love for Shyamu is so intense and precious, why didn't she leave RM along with Shyamu? Why didn't she even try to get in touch with him post this Tsunami?  Unbelievable! 

Grow up and get a life Anjali...

I was too busy venting that I forgot to say hello hi  LOL

Edited by NaDzGirl - 20 July 2012 at 10:00pm

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