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Sisters tie rakhis, wifes/partners make love (Page 15)

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 8:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by susan7

u just spoke my mind..
nice post..Clap
 
hey thanks muchSmile

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:08pm | IP Logged
Amazingly written.thats all i can say Clap
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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:11pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by svmi

You have hit the nail on the bed.But I have a feeling that Anjali will come out sounding slightly better once she completes the conversation on Monday (  or so do I hope)

 
Thanks muchSmile
 
I hope in the interests of a credible story and air-time, they show a sensible screenplay backed by equally good acting...I can as of now rely on that only for Barun and Sanaya
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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:29pm | IP Logged
HI JW,
 
Its a sorry state indeed that  "WE" the audience love our fictional characters to be formed in the same mould as that of women in the  18th century  if not earlier.  The influence of mythological characters is so strong that modern and innovative thinking takes a back seat.  We want it hence televison provides it.
 
A sister, a brother , a wife,  a husband, a mother have a predefined charecterstics and cannot  swing even by a degree in the positive or negative direction.
 
Character in question , Anjali. A mother figure to her brother and a devotee to her husband.  Typical, a mother feels insecure when her son finds himself a wife and no longer depends on her for decisons .  And a wife has blind faith and absolute dependenec on her husband to the extent that it defines her identity.  Maybe a regular occurence in our world but my question is WHY ???
 
Why in this day and age there cannot be a balance or liberal thinking on part of Tv show creators and writers who continue to feed such regressive stories.
 
I have loved Anji and always dreaded the day she would get to know about her cheating husband.  Her reaction is normal of that being in denial , depressed and wanting to harm her baby , the feeling of abandonment by husband and brother . I was with her till the end of Friday but for the last few minutes.
 
The scene is yet to be played out and I will reserve my further opinion on this.  What appalled me was the "expecataion"  that the brother should confide in her and is no longer faithful to her as before.  Is this not a typical compalin of a MIL that my son has been taken over by this new wedded women ?  It seemed extremely vain.
 
Should she not be more worried about her husband and the accusations hurled at him. Should she not try to talk to her brother about hsi decison to throw him out rater than talk of his life and her place in it ?  WHy is the entire household bent on protecting her and drugging her for god sake ?
 
I would so like ArHI to help her stand on her own feet and for Anji to stand strong to get a grip fo her life.  This pooja ki thaali and pati parmeshvar is very bookish.  Please break the mould and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
 
4 Lions & SP & we the audience- Nayi soch is required and here is your chance.

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:29pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Exprimere

It is official. I LOVE you... sisterly bond or romantic, whatever you like to assume (since the show is not too keen on distinguishing between the two)... Really, I'm panicking about the fact that I may soon hate Anjali beyond control! Maybe more than Shyam. At least that man (I no longer want to call him "Snake" since Anjali is redefining the term) had no double standards. He lied with conviction! What is this woman doing? Where is that divine angel called Di?

I have been forgiving Anjali TILL this date... Thinking she is really broken. I've tried to keep myself from comparing her with Khushi (who has been through worse fate without ANY protection).
 
Exactly, Khushi almost had her husband dead...we need some perspective here as to who all are under trauma
 
I have even tried to justify her abortion-idea thinking she would hate any reminder of a cheater (only to have her desiring a son like him). But today my control snapped. Look, DB is doing a great job with the acting. All she gets in return are hate mails. Is it her fault? Or is it the storyline?
 
There is something very disjointed in the execution
 

 
And WHAT can I say about the family... There are no words to describe their obtuseness, selfishness, aversion to logic, treatment of a 30-yr old preggers woman like a 2 year old baby with a chronic disease and of course, hypocrisy and double standards (Akash is a close competition to his Di)...
 
The fact that all of them have conveniently forgotten about ASR's kidnap and Khushi's abuse by Shyam and ASR-Khushi's near death is jarring
 
 
Thanks muchSmile
 
I wrote a reply twice and it got closed when I reach the end of the post...some thoghts above
 
Thanks
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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by jules




I was quite addicted to the show at one point.. it was the addiction that got me throw the antognising wedding drama and what followed after... but now the disappointment scale seems to be weighing now... maybe its a good thing to kick the addiction!


Addiction is the word! And kicking the habit seems like the next logical step if they continue to act like their audiences are not intellectual enough to weigh what they are dishing out!

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:52pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by AR_EternalLove

i so agree with u dear...
 
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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:56pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by JWMRK

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Am sorry 4 Lions...but Anjali's character is beginning to head south at a disastrous speed!!  There has to be a better way to show her insecurity vis-a-vis Shyam...Most of us viewers understand the shock she has been dealt with and sympathise with her...but there has to be a better way to show thisEmbarrassed...She was a loving, doting, mature sister, having an equally loving, doting, mature brother...You cant' discount that just because of one incident!!
 
What earlier was a unique, cherished brother-sister bond...now seems self-absorbed, crabby (I am not happy, so you also cannot), hurtful and very suffocating!!!...
 
 
As for Anjali demonstrating a most regressive attitude towards her unborn baby the less said the betterOuch...from wanting to kill it without a coherently and sensitively shown reason or monologue, to wanting a boy child like Shyam (There goes Sitara Plus's Satyameva Jayate!!), to not spending a single moment thinking of providing a good life to the child!!...4 Lions, this thinking of hers as per your storyline, is extremely disappointing and regressive!!!...Sure women who feel cheated go under depression but that is why psychiatric/ counselling help is available and there is no shame in itEmbarrassed...I am so glad a lot of mothers I know are not like her...Am so glad a lot of women in similar circumstances are not like her
 
 
 
Whoever is responsible for this track...it is sloppily written, very myopically visualised and very insensitive...4 Lions , you are a producer of a televised product...so try to appreciate that along with accolades...will come brickbacts or from those more discerning viewers...genuine constructive feedback...If you choose to ignore it...its your loss, not oursEmbarrassed
 
 
There is a reason why sisters tie rakhis and wives/ lovers/ partners give rings/ wedding bands...What is the message you are intending to give...that married men or men in love should not care about their partners!...He wanted to make Khushi happy...both he and Khushi also went through an emotionally and physically tough time...what is so horrible in that!...This is extremely regressive!!
 
 
Separately, thank you for an outstanding episode...it reaffirmed a few belief's of mine that were temporarily shaken:
 
a) This is at the end of the day, is an often sloppy product of disjointed fantasies...kept afloat by the tremendous talent of its leadsEmbarrassed
 
b) There is a reason why 879868576653653868965 people connect with Barun and Sanaya ...and not the others (perhaps Abhaas and Abha Parmar are the only serious second in line)
 
c) There is a reason why I love ASR...and it was on ample show today...a loving husband/ lover...a doting brother...a responsible adult...my heart went out to him when he said "do you want to see me dead"CryCry...Yes, I for one want him to head out of RM...because now, as always, he seems like a punching bag for all.Ouch
 
 
d) ASR has and will stand by Khushi...loved the way he told her to relax when their almost kiss (yet again!!) was interrupted by the Raizadas... There you go man!!ClapClap
 
 
d) And...Barun...outstanding expressions again...from soft to happy to raw passion to disbelief to upset to worried to hurt to horrified!!...I said this in my Gravitas post, I will say this again...you are the reason for a 25 minute watchSmile...Wish you the best!!Smile...and if that means I don't see you anymore in this...SIGH!!. then so be itEmbarrassed...To quote Jack (Leonardo Di Caprio) from Titanic..."I am too involved now...You jump!...I jump"Embarrassed
 

 


Someone needs to show your post to 4 Lions! I havent read an  article that makes so much sense on thins issue as well as your's does. This show is not for TRP auntie's only, it has a world wide audience, the PH and the channel need to do justice. If we wanted to watch Saas bahu drama's we can get that from a million other shows, there are plenty of them, we follow IPKKND because it depicted other issues in life like a genuine brother and sister relationship that as more close to real life  and an intense love story that was unique because of the love hate factor.

Anyways, the TRP's of the show have dropped and that should be an indication to the makers of the show that something is wrong and they still have time to redeem whats left of it. A lot of people watch the show because of Barun and  Sanaaya but if the storyline continues along these lines, am not sure how long the show run on this USP alone.

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