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Anjali - The woman behind the Illusion... UPDATED. (Page 8)

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 8:48am | IP Logged
tia ...
U nailed it.

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:11am | IP Logged
Originally posted by cherry227

fabulous! i agree with each and every word :)))

i totally disliked the way arnav just threw shyam out of the house without telling everyone that he knew the truth the day he got married... not just anjali but the entire family deserves to know the full truth... why does he expect everyone to take his word that "he trusts khushi" as a final decision and abide like good children? what he told nani should've been told to anjali and everyone else...

also the biggest mistake of his life was not mistrusting khushi but marrying her forcefully using blackmail and torturing her after that... emotionally and physically! not to mention not even telling her WHY she was subjected to all that... if anjali is questioning the fact that what is right and what is wrong or whether her husband really IS a bad man then according to me its arnav whos to be blamed for it! he shud not be keeping the truth from her... this will turn out to be the second biggest mistake of his life...

also arnav shud learn to lock doors!!! when is his next birthday? i wud like to gift him a 12" solid dead bolt... and a 12" "something" to khushi as well till ASR can find a full proof way to atleast kiss herLOL



Lol... Put my contribution towards the gift too...
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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Harshitha

tia do u mind if i cant get myself to read about anjali, but i still like it, im sure u did a fab job thats goes by default



No problemo... Big smile

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:21am | IP Logged
after reading your post i really feel pity to anjali..
after her parents death ,she should have done something to raise arnav..
if she took her brother's responsibility then,she will be able to cope up with her life today..
also her physical inability makes her weak..she wanted to live with her husband in their own house,that means she wished to leave chote and his life alone..but now she fears that she will have to cling on her brother for her entire life..this thought also makes her weak..poor anjali..

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:25am | IP Logged
Originally posted by heidi

after reading your post i really feel pity to anjali..
after her parents death ,she should have done something to raise arnav..
if she took her brother's responsibility then,she will be able to cope up with her life today..
also her physical inability makes her weak..she wanted to live with her husband in their own house,that means she wished to leave chote and his life alone..but now she fears that she will have to cling on her brother for her entire life..this thought also makes her weak..poor anjali..



She is a textbook example of poor little rich girl... Reminds me of Paris Hilton actually... LOL

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 9:43am | IP Logged
Beautifully written.  I just wanted to add that a couple of other characteristics to her nature.  She is highly sensitive and empathetic.  She was always the first to sense Khushi's pain or anxiety and always stepped in to support her, whether it was on the occasion of her parents' shrad when she saw a tearful Khushi try to leave or the day after Khushi's broken engagement when she was more disturbed than Khushi to learn that her engagement has fizzled out.  When Khushi was disturbed by Arnav's absence she took the trouble to cheer her up. We all know how disturbed she gets seeing her chottey in pain. She has been like that always, hyper about the people she loves.  So I guess she was expecting the same sort of response from them when her beautiful castle came crashing down.  She wanted the people around her to mourn her loss as much as she did because in her mind she would have done the same had it been the other way around and Arnav had lost Khushi.  However, all she saw was Arnav romancing his wife behind her back.  She is still not privy to the whole truth and does not know that the guy is trying to make up for being a prick to his beloved wife.  Before that Khushi had come into her room and told her to forget her past with Shyam and look forward to her future with the baby in an almost clinical tone.  She hasn't seen Khushi mourn for her pain. She does not know that she had a tiff with her husband because she cannot be happy in a house which is mourning.  So in her weak mind all she sees is the two people closest to her seem impervious to her pain and are in a blissful world of her own. In other words they are being 'insensitive' as per her definition. 


As you said, she is more to be pitied for being so emotionally weak.

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 10:26am | IP Logged

Take a bow Mam'

All right, I agree why Anjali is so dependent, so clingy, etc . etc. Until you had written this up so well, I seriously could not put my peeve in words. Now that you have done the harder job, I shall take the easier route out and get it off my chest

1.       Anjali is not DUMB. That has been shown in more incidents than one. She is manipulative and may I include cunning from the edgeways, please?  And that's her basic nature. So this basic nature would have remained intact even if she had to bring up Arnav(rather than vice versa), she'd still use these very skills to do things. If she had to go out and work, she'd use these traits of her nature at job and perhaps be successful too.

2.       And yes she did not have to share her husband with her in-laws, but may I saw that if she had to do it she would have won hands down for the above mentioned traits in her? Her in-laws would have packed their bags and left for 'teerath' by now(no fun only pun intended)

3.       Why do I work? To be in touch with myself, to be recognized, to be respected and offcourse to earn my roomali roti with Kadhai Paneer. Now I may choose to not work and what do I loose considering my husband works enuff for the 3 of us(miyan, biwi  aur bacchi)? I may still be respected, I'll still get my roti+sabzi with occasional paneerJ . I will still be recognized but perhaps by lesser people? So as a woman, I do not loose too much. So Anjali decided not to hurt her trim butt on an office chair when she can actually rest it on the plush Raizada lounge. And she is a person who basks in the end result and not how it was achieved. I'll feel happier to 'buy' that diamond ring. She'll feel happy to own it. Does it matter if it was gifted or bought? And this is the mentality that I disapprove of! And I won't change my stand if someone says that she is not such! Sometimes, yes even I want a gift coz it makes me feel special and loved, but receiving gifts forever would make me feel worthless. And I am absolutely sure it is the same with all. However some fightout this feeling and focus on end result.

4.       Now to the people who say she is very nice and sweet from inside. I'd say NO! She knew she is the apple of eye of the strongest being of the house. Yes she could have snubbed all and could have acted as a brat and still receive pampering. However she wants not only pampering but also love. Nothing wrong here. So she deiced to be all very good and nice. Best way to win hearts of Nani, Mama, Akash. Chat away to Mami and listen to her tales and become her little girl. Note how Raizadas do all her biddings because that will please her and not because they feel she is right……………

Sigh……. Ghar ka bahut kaam hai yaar. Would have loved to finish my rants with a proper closure. But gotta go,

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 3:12pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tia.o

Originally posted by cherry227

fabulous! i agree with each and every word :)))

i totally disliked the way arnav just threw shyam out of the house without telling everyone that he knew the truth the day he got married... not just anjali but the entire family deserves to know the full truth... why does he expect everyone to take his word that "he trusts khushi" as a final decision and abide like good children? what he told nani should've been told to anjali and everyone else...

also the biggest mistake of his life was not mistrusting khushi but marrying her forcefully using blackmail and torturing her after that... emotionally and physically! not to mention not even telling her WHY she was subjected to all that... if anjali is questioning the fact that what is right and what is wrong or whether her husband really IS a bad man then according to me its arnav whos to be blamed for it! he shud not be keeping the truth from her... this will turn out to be the second biggest mistake of his life...

also arnav shud learn to lock doors!!! when is his next birthday? i wud like to gift him a 12" solid dead bolt... and a 12" "something" to khushi as well till ASR can find a full proof way to atleast kiss herLOL



Lol... Put my contribution towards the gift too...


lol... 

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