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Anjali - The woman behind the Illusion... UPDATED. (Page 6)

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 11:43pm | IP Logged
Loved it Tia. Epic Post.
I just feel, as a woman that, no husband can pull a cotton wool on a wife's eyes to the extent that the snake seems to have pulled on Anjali's eyes. Somewhere the sixth sense of a woman will warn her about something missing in her marriage.
To ignore that warning to keep feeling everything is ok with her own world is totally selfish. Anjali is doing the same. Also she claims that she loves her brother very much but her behavior shows that it is selfish love. 
That is what makes me hate her character. Even if ASR and the family has tried to shield her, she should have realized something is missing as if you look at her past behavior, you can see that she is a shrewd woman.

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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 11:47pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Fazila~

Excelledn post Tia...good analysis... i was watching the epi from the beginning and in it Anjali had come to stay at RH from her husbands house to stay for a week...n that has stretched into infinity...

Yes, because again, Anjali loves to stay at a cosseted and pampered environment. Who would not? Her husband did not force her to leave her brother's home. All her needs and demands were fulfilled here. She got treated like the uncrowned queen. So everything was rosy and wonderful. She is so dependent on others to provide her everything including her happiness, that even now, she is asking her brother to gift wrap her husband and serve her on silver platter to make her happy.

If she ever had to be responsible for her own life, she won't have been this weak and clinging vine that she is now and no time better than now to make it happen. Because now she is responsible for another life - her baby...
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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 11:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by fffan123

Loved it Tia. Epic Post.
I just feel, as a woman that, no husband can pull a cotton wool on a wife's eyes to the extent that the snake seems to have pulled on Anjali's eyes. Somewhere the sixth sense of a woman will warn her about something missing in her marriage.
To ignore that warning to keep feeling everything is ok with her own world is totally selfish. Anjali is doing the same. Also she claims that she loves her brother very much but her behavior shows that it is selfish love. 
That is what makes me hate her character. Even if ASR and the family has tried to shield her, she should have realized something is missing as if you look at her past behavior, you can see that she is a shrewd woman.


Like I said, that chick ain't dumb. She did not see it, because she chose not to see it. Not because she could not... Even her memories are selective. She remembers everything Arnav did for Khushi but she does not remember anything he did for her. So trust me when I say, she is smart as a tack. But choses to be dumb...

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 12:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tia.o

Originally posted by maan-and-geet

Once again love your analysis' you have described Anjali's personality
so perfectly that I don't feel the need to add anything to it.


I agree with you and have said it many times she has a right
to know the truth. She has begged to
know what went wrong or why things are this way. Arnav and family owe her an explanation.


Anjali's personality is shaped because of the environment
that she lived in her entire life. However when circumstances change a door of opportunity
for change opens. Yes Anjali has always
been sheltered all her life but now is her time to do something for herself and
her child. Sitting in a room and sobbing all day long isn't going to get her
anywhere. Today she sees that Arnav is
in love and has changed; what will happen when Arnav has his own children? Today
she thinks Khushi has changed him and she is jealous of her, tomorrow she will
be jealous of Arnav's children? Yes he will always care for his Di and her
child but she cannot expect him to always put his family aside for her. It's never too late to get out there and try
to do something for yourself.




Shall I say Bingo... That's exactly what I have been saying. She is wallowing in self-pity and her family is letting her. Khushi got blamed for going in her room but what she said should have come from her family. She is the only one who treated her like a woman and not like a fragile doll... If it was my family, they would come to me and say stop wallowing in self-pity and take charge of your life. If you believe your husband is right, get out and find him and be by his side. If you think he is wrong, then forget him and move on. Don't expect your family to gift wrap your husband and serve you on silver platter...


Exactly khushi showed her the mirror and Anjali couldn't handle the truth ...i recently went through something similar to Anjali's situation...dealt with it alone without any help or support from my family yet i turned my life around towards a new life... Anjali has a full supportive family by her side   then why is she not able to turn her life around? I say things are much easier when you have family by your side

You are right if Anjali thinks that Shyam isn't wrong then she should have left with him and support him

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 12:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tia.o

Originally posted by sheanuzz

Tia... take a bow!! What a perfect analysis of Anjali and you hit the nail on the head! In spite of all that you mentioned, I still did not get her not being happy for her brother and to top it all to get angry... even if he lied and wanted to spend time with his wife, was it not natural. Not able to fathom what the CVs are trying toportraybut it does leave a bad taste in the mouth.


She is just thinking about herself. I never said otherwise. It's not her problem if Arnav does notrecognizeher selfishness and decide to move back instead of waiting on her hand and foot...
If someone is wrong and their family is supporting his/her wrong deeds, that family is as wrong as that person who is wrong... So you can blame Anjali but you will also have to blame her family. If you don't blame her family, then you can't blame her as well...


You r right... i think Raizada family is more at fault than Anjali... especially Arnav... he can stop 90% of the nonsense in RM but he is choosing to stay quiet
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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 12:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by maan-and-geet

Originally posted by tia.o

Originally posted by maan-and-geet

Once again love your analysis' you have described Anjali's personality
so perfectly that I don't feel the need to add anything to it.


I agree with you and have said it many times she has a right
to know the truth. She has begged to
know what went wrong or why things are this way. Arnav and family owe her an explanation.


Anjali's personality is shaped because of the environment
that she lived in her entire life. However when circumstances change a door of opportunity
for change opens. Yes Anjali has always
been sheltered all her life but now is her time to do something for herself and
her child. Sitting in a room and sobbing all day long isn't going to get her
anywhere. Today she sees that Arnav is
in love and has changed; what will happen when Arnav has his own children? Today
she thinks Khushi has changed him and she is jealous of her, tomorrow she will
be jealous of Arnav's children? Yes he will always care for his Di and her
child but she cannot expect him to always put his family aside for her. It's never too late to get out there and try
to do something for yourself.




Shall I say Bingo... That's exactly what I have been saying. She is wallowing in self-pity and her family is letting her. Khushi got blamed for going in her room but what she said should have come from her family. She is the only one who treated her like a woman and not like a fragile doll... If it was my family, they would come to me and say stop wallowing in self-pity and take charge of your life. If you believe your husband is right, get out and find him and be by his side. If you think he is wrong, then forget him and move on. Don't expect your family to gift wrap your husband and serve you on silver platter...


Exactly khushi showed her the mirror and Anjali couldn't handle the truth ...i recently went through something similar to Anjali's situation...dealt with it alone without any help or support from my family yet i turned my life around towards a new life... Anjali has a full supportive family by her side   then why is she not able to turn her life around? I say things are much easier when you have family by your side

You are right if Anjali thinks that Shyam isn't wrong then she should have left with him and support him

Every person goes through tough situation MG... But strong people like you and me, get over self-pity and fight. Anjali is not strong. She expects everything to come to her very easy. She is weak. I'm not saying that she won't be a weak person if her family told her what Khushi told her, but she will definitely think about that statement coming from her family rather than ignoring it like she did because Khushi said it... 

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 12:32am | IP Logged
@tia.o, 'Switzerland as in neutral zone'- rofl @ that... Thanks...

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Posted: 21 July 2012 at 12:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tia.o

Originally posted by maan-and-geet

Originally posted by tia.o

Originally posted by maan-and-geet

Once again love your analysis' you have described Anjali's personality
so perfectly that I don't feel the need to add anything to it.


I agree with you and have said it many times she has a right
to know the truth. She has begged to
know what went wrong or why things are this way. Arnav and family owe her an explanation.


Anjali's personality is shaped because of the environment
that she lived in her entire life. However when circumstances change a door of opportunity
for change opens. Yes Anjali has always
been sheltered all her life but now is her time to do something for herself and
her child. Sitting in a room and sobbing all day long isn't going to get her
anywhere. Today she sees that Arnav is
in love and has changed; what will happen when Arnav has his own children? Today
she thinks Khushi has changed him and she is jealous of her, tomorrow she will
be jealous of Arnav's children? Yes he will always care for his Di and her
child but she cannot expect him to always put his family aside for her. It's never too late to get out there and try
to do something for yourself.




Shall I say Bingo... That's exactly what I have been saying. She is wallowing in self-pity and her family is letting her. Khushi got blamed for going in her room but what she said should have come from her family. She is the only one who treated her like a woman and not like a fragile doll... If it was my family, they would come to me and say stop wallowing in self-pity and take charge of your life. If you believe your husband is right, get out and find him and be by his side. If you think he is wrong, then forget him and move on. Don't expect your family to gift wrap your husband and serve you on silver platter...


Exactly khushi showed her the mirror and Anjali couldn't handle the truth ...i recently went through something similar to Anjali's situation...dealt with it alone without any help or support from my family yet i turned my life around towards a new life... Anjali has a full supportive family by her side   then why is she not able to turn her life around? I say things are much easier when you have family by your side

You are right if Anjali thinks that Shyam isn't wrong then she should have left with him and support him


Every person goes through tough situation MG... But strong people like you and me, get over self-pity and fight. Anjali is not strong. She expects everything to come to her very easy. She is weak. I'm not saying that she won't be a weak person if her family told her what Khushi told her, but she will definitely think about that statement coming from her family rather than ignoring it like she did because Khushi said it...


I know everyone goes through thick and thin in their lives... i just hope to see Anjali emerge as a strong woman coz it takes a lot to be a single mother... and i just want Anjali to be strong enough so she can raise her child with pride and confidence. I know its just a show but so many young girls watch these shows why cant we teach them something through these characters...

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