Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

India-Forums

   
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

Anjali - The woman behind the Illusion... UPDATED. (Page 3)

Tia.0 IF-Sizzlerz
Tia.0
Tia.0

Joined: 04 March 2012
Posts: 13856

Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by memyselfandrshi

[

You are right as the situation stands now. It's hard to feel pity for a person who is selfish and manipulative. No one is denying the fact. But think of it this way. If she had a house of her own where she lived with her husband and she had her own identity... would she bother with Arnav's life? She will just leave her brother's house. 

But a. she has money when Arnav gives her money. Until now, even though she gave Shyam money, but at least she could think that my husband is a lawyer so earns at least some money. Now her husband is gone and she is entirely dependent on Arnav for everything. And not only that, her child will be dependent on Arnav too...

b. She can't leave RM as she is not independent and she is not like Khushi who is a go-getter. She never had to earn her living and she does not know how. 

c. She now has to be the poor relation (or so she thinks) in the same house where she used to be the queen. It's difficult for a woman to accept that even when she is not insecure of her own identity and here she is a bundle of insecurity. 

And you have hit the nail on the head when you mentioned that her self-worth is down and her insecurity is showing. The only person who feels jealous of another is a person who is insecure in his/her own self. A secured person would go achieve what he/she wants instead of wasting time to be jealous and pining for something.


[/QUOTE]

Yeah u r absolutely right I do understand that its financial dependence too which is making matters worse now...

What I am trying to say is that...her self worth was always dependent on others perception of her and not on her abilities or her qualities. Neither did she ever try nor did the Raizada's ever encourage her to seek her self worth based on her own self... As u rightly said the Raizada's have done a great disservice to her in tat aspect

[/QUOTE]

Precisely... You see, often the people who taunts or feels jealous of other people are really not happy with their lives. Truly happy people never taunt or put down other people.

However, I believe that a person should change his/her life if they don't like it... Not sit at home and lament on other's happiness and wallow in self-pity. But then I have a strong personality (or so I like to think) and unfortunately Anjali does not.

The following 3 member(s) liked the above post:

maan-and-geetthechaigirlOmNaMaSteOm

samin6 IF-Dazzler
samin6
samin6

Joined: 02 March 2011
Posts: 2814

Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:27pm | IP Logged
Explained well. However not all people of rich are pampered. It depends how the parent earned their money. If it is hard earned they teach that to their kids and if it was easy money the kids learn that. In my mind Arnav is quiet hard working considering he works sometimes till 11pm from 9:00 am. It is very unusual that their parents taught them differently. Finally she has three family members working in AR industries and she had ample opportunity if she wanted to hold a job.

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

OmNaMaSteOmTia.0

Tia.0 IF-Sizzlerz
Tia.0
Tia.0

Joined: 04 March 2012
Posts: 13856

Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by samin096

Explained well. However not all people of rich are pampered. It depends how the parent earned their money. If it is hard earned they teach that to their kids and if it was easy money the kids learn that. In my mind Arnav is quiet hard working considering he works sometimes till 11pm from 9:00 am. It is very unusual that their parents taught them differently. Finally she has three family members working in AR industries and she had ample opportunity if she wanted to hold a job.

I never said that she had any desire to go out and work. She never needed to so she never did. Look at Payal and Khushi. Payal had the same need to earn money as Khushi. But the person who felt the urge to support the family was Khushi, not Payal. 

There are people who never want to earn a living. They are content to be home makers. However, not everyone gets the luxury of a choice. If Anjali ever had to earn a living or even felt the urge to make her own identity, she could have joined AR easily. But like I said, she is content to be pampered and coddled at home. That's again her nature.  

The following 4 member(s) liked the above post:

maan-and-geetsamin6thechaigirlOmNaMaSteOm

BeautyForAshes IF-Sizzlerz
BeautyForAshes
BeautyForAshes

Joined: 20 May 2012
Posts: 17778

Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:49pm | IP Logged

i too just wanna see Anjali emerge as a very strong individual !!! hope they bring it on like the way we imagined !!! 

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

maan-and-geetTia.0

ASADsweetZOYA IF-Sizzlerz
ASADsweetZOYA
ASADsweetZOYA

Joined: 22 January 2012
Posts: 16581

Posted: 20 July 2012 at 9:58pm | IP Logged
Smilewithout even read it ,,,i know tat its nice post dear
i'll read it later dear,...not now...just pissed with her...watever people will say...i am just pissed off with her...Cry

but let me ask...wat the hell is going on actually...?Angry
yesterday Anjali was saying u changed chotte & u wanted 2 spent time with khushiji...
wat does tat mean..?Angry
if he wants 2 spent some time with his wife wats the problem..?and obviously he has 2 change after marriage...he cant sit with anjali 24*7 time near 2 her bed...
she was saying "u r in love now" ...so wat??????? cant he?????
anajli was in love with her spouse ...and ASR too...wats the big deal|???
so she dont want her chotte in love ?she wants 2 make him angry ASR & only sweet with Di???
just pissed off man...its better 2 bear the snakewaa i think...AngryCry

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

OmNaMaSteOmTia.0

Tia.0 IF-Sizzlerz
Tia.0
Tia.0

Joined: 04 March 2012
Posts: 13856

Posted: 20 July 2012 at 10:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ASRsweetKKG

Smilewithout even read it ,,,i know tat its nice post dear
i'll read it later dear,...not now...just pissed with her...watever people will say...i am just pissed off with her...Cry

but let me ask...wat the hell is going on actually...?Angry
yesterday Anjali was saying u changed chotte & u wanted 2 spent time with khushiji...
wat does tat mean..?Angry
if he wants 2 spent some time with his wife wats the problem..?and obviously he has 2 change after marriage...he cant sit with anjali 24*7 time near 2 her bed...
she was saying "u r in love now" ...so wat??????? cant he?????
anajli was in love with her spouse ...and ASR too...wats the big deal|???
so she dont want her chotte in love ?she wants 2 make him angry ASR & only sweet with Di???
just pissed off man...its better 2 bear the snakewaa i think...AngryCry

It's typical Indian mentality. If a man does not put his family's need first, he is not a good son but if he does put his wife's happiness first, he is not a man. Apparently the sign of man is to put down his wife in front of his family. So in that definition, Aakash is a man.

The following 3 member(s) liked the above post:

thechaigirl.Kiran.ASADsweetZOYA

OmNaMaSteOm IF-Sizzlerz
OmNaMaSteOm
OmNaMaSteOm

Joined: 09 April 2005
Posts: 21013

Posted: 20 July 2012 at 10:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ASRsweetKKG

Smilewithout even read it ,,,i know tat its nice post dear
i'll read it later dear,...not now...just pissed with her...watever people will say...i am just pissed off with her...Cry

but let me ask...wat the hell is going on actually...?Angry
yesterday Anjali was saying u changed chotte & u wanted 2 spent time with khushiji...
wat does tat mean..?Angry
if he wants 2 spent some time with his wife wats the problem..?and obviously he has 2 change after marriage...he cant sit with anjali 24*7 time near 2 her bed...
she was saying "u r in love now" ...so wat??????? cant he?????
anajli was in love with her spouse ...and ASR too...wats the big deal|???
so she dont want her chotte in love ?she wants 2 make him angry ASR & only sweet with Di???
just pissed off man...its better 2 bear the snakewaa i think...AngryCry

im in the same state i havent read the post yet but by default it would be good i know that
i need time a lot of time before i read wht tia wrote
i still cant get over the 2 previous weeks & specially the latest epi

The following 3 member(s) liked the above post:

thechaigirlTia.0ASADsweetZOYA

SaraPhoenix Senior Member
SaraPhoenix
SaraPhoenix

Joined: 15 May 2012
Posts: 416

Posted: 20 July 2012 at 10:18pm | IP Logged
Very wisely expressed. Anjali is indeed nothing more than an object of pity.

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

Tia.0

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Author Replies Views Last Post
BEHIND THE SCENES OF ipkknd..WRITTEN UPDATE ...

Author: ..Enchanteur..   Replies: 4   Views: 4288

..Enchanteur.. 4 4288 26 February 2012 at 10:07pm by rubab1690
Behind the scenes shots!

Author: Meeboo   Replies: 7   Views: 1977

Meeboo 7 1977 08 December 2011 at 8:41am by preetijaiswal19
new TT video Behind the scenes

Author: geetmaanluv   Replies: 1   Views: 901

geetmaanluv 1 901 08 December 2011 at 2:08am by minuu
Behind the scenes video link -tt

Author: aanu23   Replies: 7   Views: 1137

aanu23 7 1137 07 December 2011 at 6:50am by OnepoundChic
Behind The Scene Shots - Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doo

Author: nilmi   Replies: 4   Views: 2418

nilmi 4 2418 07 December 2011 at 6:06am by soapliker

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels
Forums

Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon Topic Index

Check these Celebrity also

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index