Originally posted by Ash_Rajendra8
I never came across this "Love" till date.Studied in girls school, woman college til my Post Graduation.All I knew was papa-mom, studies, sports, adventure and competitions etc .For me Love is Life . (my life , not this arnav and Khushiwala life we see
Though I have childhood friends(girls and boys) and colleagues (guys/ladies - married and unmarried ) around me and friends who are guys but never come across anything as such. I dont know why, the age and gender(male/female) thing just does not cross in my head at all when i talk to them .I see and treat everyone the same .My Colleagues all used to tease me and say "Ashwini only knows mummy papa , nothing other than that, she does not have responsibilities and problems in life etc etc" .
They all share abt their problems in life with me be financial, marriage life(love /arranged, inter-caste marriage problems, in-laws etc ), abt their children, bachelor life and cost of living too high to bear ,abt their GFs, broken relationships, lack of love and bonding with their parents etc , all I could do was to listen to them and understand . I dont argue with them at all coz i dont like, if something like that pops up I say "to stop and move to next slide plz
All they need is someone who listens to them which I do without interrupting most of time, I give them time to speak their heart and mind and I dont judge them.
At home everything was taken care by father and we were secure and protected always.After he passed away, only then we (mom, bro and me ) started to live and lead life.We did not even knew abt any responsibilities in life.My mom did not know how much to buy ration for month ? (strange and funny , right ? ) we did not even know how to book for gas cylinder , I learnt and booked this is my first responsibility in personal life I took(small one ). Bro did not know how and where to pay bills be it online or Bangalore One centers , laughable right ? Other than filing Tax return in our company we(bro-me, father used to guide here too) knew nothing abt outside life.
In just 3 months, we all grew up . Now the same friends and colleagues see so much of changes in me coz I know what outside world (or life ) today is.I love my work and the struggle, challenges at workplace a lot and help them at work and fight for what is right in professional way. I was independent then(personal life , yet to be independent in professional life .10 yrs from here i will ) and independent now .Freedom and peace in life (12 yrs ) is what I love most important and which is inseparable in my life. My father made us to practice it , today i feel its part and parcel of me. Honestly, till date bro and me have not fought even once since childhood, we tease a lot but not fought even for small things for once .I dont have any sort of arguments or fights with any females in my life , which will remain my principle rest of my life.
Looks like, I wrote my life history
...loved it..dont know what to say..i mean no words..