Posted: 20 July 2012 at 6:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Ash_Rajendra8
Originally posted by Supna9
amazing n congo ash read na u dnt about love n attraction bw a girl n boy. But i know this but nt wanna trap in this web
I never came across this "Love" till date.Studied in girls school, woman college til my Post Graduation.All I knew was papa-mom, studies, sports, adventure and competitions etc .For me Love is Life . (my life , not this arnav and Khushiwala life we see
Though I have childhood friends(girls and boys) and colleagues (guys/ladies - married and unmarried ) around me and friends who are guys but never come across anything as such. I dont know why, the age and gender(male/female) thing just does not cross in my head at all when i talk to them .I see and treat everyone the same .My Colleagues all used to tease me and say "Ashwini only knows mummy papa , nothing other than that, she does not have responsibilities and problems in life etc etc" .
They all share abt their problems in life with me be financial, marriage life(love /arranged, inter-caste marriage problems, in-laws etc ), abt their children, bachelor life and cost of living too high to bear ,abt their GFs, broken relationships, lack of love and bonding with their parents etc , all I could do was to listen to them and understand . I dont argue with them at all coz i dont like, if something like that pops up I say "to stop and move to next slide plz
All they need is someone who listens to them which I do without interrupting most of time, I give them time to speak their heart and mind and I dont judge them.
At home everything was taken care by father and we were secure and protected always.After he passed away, only then we (mom, bro and me ) started to live and lead life.We did not even knew abt any responsibilities in life.My mom did not know how much to buy ration for month ? (strange and funny , right ? ) we did not even know how to book for gas cylinder , I learnt and booked this is my first responsibility in personal life I took(small one ). Bro did not know how and where to pay bills be it online or Bangalore One centers , laughable right ? Other than filing Tax return in our company we(bro-me, father used to guide here too) knew nothing abt outside life.
In just 3 months, we all grew up . Now the same friends and colleagues see so much of changes in me coz I know what outside world (or life ) today is.I love my work and the struggle, challenges at workplace a lot and help them at work and fight for what is right in professional way. I was independent then(personal life , yet to be independent in professional life .10 yrs from here i will ) and independent now .Freedom and peace in life (12 yrs ) is what I love most important and which is inseparable in my life. My father made us to practice it , today i feel its part and parcel of me. Honestly, till date bro and me have not fought even once since childhood, we tease a lot but not fought even for small things for once .I dont have any sort of arguments or fights with any females in my life , which will remain my principle rest of my life.
Looks like, I wrote my life history
ASh .. what a wonderful teaching .. & what a wonderful adage to live by ... Bow down to parents who teach their children such lovely Matured thoughts ... while still maintaining their innocence ..
Don't know if this your whole life history ... but suddenly feel a connection .. thank you for opening your self to us .. speaks about your amazing confidence .. honesty .. & courage ..
Lovely Ash .. no pretensions .. this is me .. yes .. this is you .. & today .. u've made a friend in me .. at least l feel like that ..