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Whatever we sow is what we reap... Good or Bad!!
Whether anyone agrees with me or not..I want to say something which is in my mind here .
No point in us telling again and again..Why does not Mohan talk to Megha about Riddima in detail & about the divorce? Why does not he do something about getting the divorce rather than sitting at home and romancing Megha?
The second point first...what else can Mohan do now other than to wait for the divorce proceedings to take its course? Both he and Riddima have signed the papers for it...he did not read it before signing. It was wrong..agreed...but Riddima apparently has not just kept it in her cupboard as we had thought. Bec Mohan has indeed received the papers by post..and he was seen glancing through it as well...Now there is nothing he can do but wait...
Coming to why Mohan did not talk with Megha in detail about Riddima...that moment came and gone and was not used..It will never come back to however much we crib...He must have thought that Ridz has told the entire truth including the fact that they have started the proceedings for divorce...Why would he think that Ridz would have told Megha that the marriage was a fake...? He must have thought that Megha, with her repeated proclaims of their love for each alone is the biggest thing and that nothing else matters...is willing to forgive him and accept him...And regarding why he did not want to talk about it further...one can try to understand that it is very difficult to talk about unpleasant things repeatedly. So he took the easy way out ..And consoled himself that there is no need to talk about it again as Megha already knows everything from Riddima..He is not trying to hide anything now...he kept the papers in a file and kept it in the cupboard without a second thought about Megha finding it...
He did a grave mistake by marrying Riddima impulsively..
He did a much graver mistake by getting married to Megha while his marriage to Ridz was still valid.
And the gravest mistake he did was when he married Megha without revealing the truth about his marriage to Riddima to her...
He tried to tell it..did not do it….kept on finding silly excuses for not doing the right thing..That does not belittle his mistake..but what was done was done..And when Megha did not know the truth [as he believed it]he was v uncomfortable touching her ..or even to be around her..Now he is not uncomfortable bec according to him she knows the truth and has forgiven him..It may take 6 mths to one year for the divorce to get through..If till that time he completely distances himself from her...well. I don't think people can find it easy in their real life as well...
And I don't agree that till his divorce is through whatever good he does cannot be given any points…….No…I am sorry……I don't believe that that is proper…..some mistakes take time to be rectified…….and does it mean that unless that mistake is rectified whatever good one does would not be considered at all? If that is the case……it would be so discouraging…….and one will be tempted to remain in the pit of depression till one rectifies the mistake or gets punished…..
No dears, that is not the way nature works…..and we should try to follow nature's law..as nature knows best..and is right…….
...And my dear no wrong of us goes unpunished...it is the infallible law of Nature that whatever we sow we will reap . but there is a time gap between reaping and sowing….which varies from one wrong to another….and it is not written anywhere and neither it is necessary to get stuck till the reap time …without moving forwards with other things in life…….because time does not stand still and neither should we..Our wrong doings will catch up with us sooner or later…..and nature will decide the best punishment for our wrong doings….
So my empathies..not sympathies...my empathies are with both Mohan and Megha...feel bad for both of them...Mohan has more good than bad in him...and I hope and pray that fate won't be cruel to them in the long run. And to poor Riddima also….bechari..She is trying to do whatever she can at the moment…at least…to make things easy for Mohan and Megha..Later on also what she will do depends on what her mind dictates to her..And it also depends on what Fate has in store for all three of them…..Mohan, Megha and Riddima…
My friend who was getting divorced from her husband fell in love with her colleague in the meanwhile...her husband was divorcing her because she did not conceive even after 10 yrs of marriage...She was v depressed about the upcoming divorce..and that is when her colleague started to cheer her up..and they fell in love. She became so depressed that the doctor advised that someone should always be with her...lest suicidal thoughts enter her mind.!! Her parents were abroad...She could not go there as her divorce proceedings was going on...and relatives were out of Q as they were only taunting her...So her boy friend decided to move in with her and they rented a house..She was staying in a hostel till then but remaining aloof from all...And once they started staying together invariably the inevitable happened..They could not keep their distance from each other..and ironically she became pregnant ...her first husband was divorcing her as she was not giving him a child and now she was pregnant by her boy friend..!!!!!!! may be because she had been so much tensed up all those years she did notbecome pregnant….And now that she was as happy as she could be….her hormonal status changed and she conceived..But she was forced to terminate that pregnancy...bec it would have adversely affected her divorce case….her lawyer advised that…everyone including me scolded her ...but later I could understand her plight also..And how sad and miserable she felt when she had to abort her pregnancy when she had been looking forward to it so much...all these years...That was her punishment for living in sin..I realized…..And after that I tried to understand her also...and stopped judging her and started empathizing with her…..I should have done that earlier…..but we friends were so busy criticizing her for living in sin that we did not try to understand her…and talk with her about her fears, depressions and anxieties..thus driving her further towards her boy friend….Well…it happened …..And I learnt a very valuable lesson there…
And life is too short to constantly worry about everything…and anything……
And another thing ….more often than not half the things which we worry about won't come to pass as well….and in the long run things will turn out much better than we fear ……
Forgive me if I sounded as if I was preaching…That is not my intention…just thought of sharing some lessons I learnt in Life with you all……but I got carried away……please do try to take it in the right sense…..
Love you all.!!!!
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Well today we are celebrating Mohan and Megha's sangeet in a grand manner. I wish you a warm welcome here; hope you enjoy the festivities to your heart's content and make this day and place a memorable one, for yourself as well as for others.
I know and hope that you are scrolling down to this post after reading Sita's detailed piece about Megha and Mohan's beautifully splendid journey towards love and finally marriage.
Ahh Sita's words do make you fall in love with MM all over again, right?
Here I shall try and make some effort towards the very same, while travelling back 6 months 10 days from today, taking all of you along, to lovingly go over the memorable Mohan Megha encounters -that were at first full of sparks but later turned into passionately steamier ones. In short, to give you the sizzles, make this atmosphere even more romantically charged, here we go!
Mohan Megha is a couple that made us fall in love with them, not through cozy lovey dovey brushes with each other. Instead, we fell victim to their charm right from their initial fire-brand confrontations. The scintillating instigations that flew around packed enough spark to get us hooked plus actively rooting and cheering them on.
Their first ever chance encounter in the local Mandir -
Opposites attract, that is what defines them best. Mohan and Megha, two individuals, who come from totally different backgrounds, their hopes for future completely different and their ways of life at absolutely opposing poles respectively.
Yet it was fate that brought them together, pitted them against each other with an urgency that they both took as their temporary misfortune. Little did they know that there'll come a time when it will all become the story of their lives. Love happens. It is extremely hard to consciously choose with whom, when and how you fall in love.
Megha found Mohan to be a domineering, ill-mannered, arrogant man while Mohan suffered from the impression that God had bestowed upon him an argumentative, provoking, tart-tongued widow. No wonder conflicts arose whenever they chanced upon each other.
Mohan in spite of himself and his prejudice, found himself helping and assisting Megha out of troubling situations quite a few times but Megha's stern manner and caustic outbursts acted like acid for his ego, inflaming him even more, leaving a consistently bad taste in his mouth.
There was something in Megha, that kept drawing Mohan, however gradually, towards her. While unobserved by anyone, Mohan kept finding his wandering gaze, astute mind returning repeatedly to Megha and her ways of going about her life. As many times as his thoughts returned to her, everytime they came to a stand-still. It intrigued him no end but little did he know that a deep silent admiration for her was silently making it's own place in his heart.
Maybe subconsciously, the more he tried to stay away from Megha, fate placed Megha even more in his way, finally putting a dead seal on it when Megha joined Prabhat Leher, the newspaper where he himself was a crime reporter in.
That's when sleepless nights, strangely soft cozy thoughts started making their way into Mohan's mind. Till that moment in time, Mohan's vision of the world and all it's norms traditions was tinted with the shades of cynicism and bitterness.
But despite this bleak outlook on life, he found himself getting more and more influenced with the idealistic, views and ethics which defined Megha's life. It crept inside his heart so silently that he wasn't aware when he himself started viewing his life, this world with a fresh lens of love and warmth.
For Megha, unbeknownst to her, Mohan wreaked unique kind of silent tremors in her life. Each and everytime she met him, the cloak of pretense which she had hid herself into, by default, after her husband's death, that cloak kept slipping from her grasp. In front of this world, she serenaded as a dry stern widow, a disciplined mother of two but with Mohan, she time and again, became something else. Mohan made Megha shed her inhibitions, and brought alive the woman in her, the woman who wanted to live her life for herself.
Mohan's senses started shooting warnings early on, the strange alluring vibe which he kept feeling whenever he was around Megha, the nano-second trances that he experienced whenever he dared delve into the ocean which pooled in her eyes, the prickle that he felt at her touch...All of this confused him but he thought little of it's causes.
Despite of all the bitter fall-outs, Mohan kept getting helpless where his urge to help Megha solve all her problems in life was concerned. Out of his own volition, he all but self-appointed himself as Megha's messiah, making it a habit of to steer her out of every troubling, treacherous situation in her life.
Each time Mohan secretly gazed at Megha, we found our hearts skipping beats, or coming to a stand still altogether. Every glance of his always looked as caressing as a gentle breeze, it had the glow and warmth of a shinning sun. The fire and tenderness in it, made us feel his love from afar. Indeed it was the rapture of passion's blissful fire in Mohan's life.
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