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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:09pm | IP Logged
@Koyel... I m not happy that Nidhi went to get Ashu... so not defending Ashu here.. but that does not absolve Nidhi from the fact that she was not at all interested nor cared or bothered for Anjies happiness! 

@Kaks. .she did not go to get Ashu for Anjies happiness.. she got to get Ashu so that.. DB n other relatives dun crib n taunt on Ashu ..n fret on whether all is well between AshNi or not..! 

I did have preferred had she.. chosen to stay away from the dance stuff.. since she is in bad mood..! 

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:17pm | IP Logged
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Secondly, how do you all expect her to actively participate when everytime she attempted to behave normally some one came up to her and asked her about ashu or his whereabouts. How long would she continue to put up her brave face and make excuses when she herself did not know what was going to happen. If nidhi had not gone home ashu would not be at the sangeet and that would have been an even worse situation . So, truthfully speaking i applaud nidhi for correctly guessing ashu's intentions and going to meet him, even foregoing that ego. She did what bb wanted ashu to do.


Everytime?? Erm.. When?? Confused  How about the Desi girl step moment.. only anjie and nidhi were there n anjie kept asking her to keep her phone aside.. but she refused.. n din focus on her steps.. 

there is no harm being angry on ur hubby etc.. but not to such an extent.. to b completely cut off from the proceedings.. she din put mehendi on her hand.. she din dance.. she din smile.. barring the one time she put a 'excellent' ka signal ..

i dun think that its such a big deal to think that Nidhi behaviour was disappointing as a friend.. as a wife.. she gets 1000000000 points from me... Embarrassed

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:19pm | IP Logged
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I agree with u.. today she was very very selfish.. its so unfair.. if she is feeling so disconnected with the whole world without Ashu.. she should have kept away from the whole thing. .instead of doing a show of being present. .but mentally absent..! 

Can imagine.. how much Anjie mus hv felt bad..! 


I agree with you but then Anjie is no angel too.
Tanu you remember the time when Nidhi Ashu broke up and Anjie was so busy with her love affair with Ranga that she never bothered abt Nidhi's heartbreak and used to share her stories of her exploits with Nidhi without caring abt Nidhi's feelings

Are we drawing an account of actions here?? 

Its Anjies wedding... aare dushman ke khushi mein bhi.. people behave.. if not wish well .. 

Nidhi was majorly disappointing today.. n no justification works.. sorry mohinee.. she gets a Thumbs Down from me.. 

Sorry about the delay in my reply, Tanu. Got busy with some stuff at work.Cry
I agree that we are not drawing an account here and I totally agree that Nidhi acted selfish. But it has always been like , hasn't it? But what I was trying to say is that KTLK has always portrayed friendship in a selfish manner be it Nidhi , Anjie or Ashu. And that is one reason why I have made peace with this aspect of the show since the only selfless example of friendship I saw was from Armaan towards Ashu and they went ahead and removed his character only.


Edited by mohinee - 19 July 2012 at 1:22pm

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:27pm | IP Logged
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Sorry about the delay in my reply, Tanu. Got busy with some stuff at work.Cry
I agree that we are not drawing an account here and I totally agree that Nidhi acted selfish. But it has always been like , hasn't it? But what I was trying to say is that KTLK has always portrayed friendship in a selfish manner be it Nidhi , Anjie or Ashu. And that is one reason why I have made peace with this aspect of the show since the only selfless example of friendship I saw was from Armaan towards Ashu and they went ahead and removed his character only.

U dun come to the forum much these days... kahan rehte ho? LOL

And .. yes.. they have all been this way.. thats why i said.. what is the harm in accepting that 'Nidhi THE FRAND was not upto the mark today' ?? Embarrassed

I never carry the grouses.. beyond an epi .. raat gai baat gai.. . but the view shall remain for today n i shall stick with it! 

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:29pm | IP Logged
Agree with you...Nidhi the friend was very selfish today..not enjoying her frends Mehendi...bas thinking about saiyaan..WTH...

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:31pm | IP Logged
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Secondly, how do you all expect her to actively participate when everytime she attempted to behave normally some one came up to her and asked her about ashu or his whereabouts. How long would she continue to put up her brave face and make excuses when she herself did not know what was going to happen. If nidhi had not gone home ashu would not be at the sangeet and that would have been an even worse situation . So, truthfully speaking i applaud nidhi for correctly guessing ashu's intentions and going to meet him, even foregoing that ego. She did what bb wanted ashu to do.


Everytime?? Erm.. When??Confused How about the Desi girl step moment.. only anjie and nidhi were there n anjie kept asking her to keep her phone aside.. but she refused.. n din focus on her steps..

there is no harm being angry on ur hubby etc.. but not to such an extent.. to b completely cut off from the proceedings.. she din put mehendi on her hand.. she din dance.. she din smile.. barring the one time she put a 'excellent' ka signal ..

i dun think that its such a big deal to think that Nidhi behaviour was disappointing as a friend.. as a wife.. she gets 1000000000 points from me...Embarrassed

Sorry tanu , you misunderstood the 'everytime' word, the whole sentence was everytime she was with a lot of people . Again , when she was with anji during the rehearsal she showed anji her true feelings because anji is the only one who knew the truth, so no point in acting in front of her! Even if she did not put mehendi, or dance , she did smile when necessary . Again no one seemed to notice that something was wrong , so how can you say she spoiled everyone's fun? Only because anji knew the truth she was disturbed. As the time for the sangeet grew closer nidhi also started worrying about what would she do and say if ashu did not come at all. Confused

So yes, she was being a spoilsport and no amount of cheering up from anji helped. But, i also believe she went back to bring ashu so the situation does not worsen and the entire sangeet ruined as. If that happened then what had remained between ashu, nidhi and to some extent anji would have been exposed. So, i would say ashu's tendency to blow things out of proportion , his inability to let go of that ego, and his misreading of societal rules and norms is the main culprit here. Its ashu who always acts immaturely when it comes to relationships, he clearly is still a novice in this department . Even after bb adviced him he did nothing . He could have taken a trip to anji's at lunch or something and diffused the situation. He clearly wanted to patch up but was unwilling to let go of that ego. And it always falls on nidhi to make things right in the nick of time.


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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:33pm | IP Logged
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Sorry about the delay in my reply, Tanu. Got busy with some stuff at work.Cry
I agree that we are not drawing an account here and I totally agree that Nidhi acted selfish. But it has always been like , hasn't it? But what I was trying to say is that KTLK has always portrayed friendship in a selfish manner be it Nidhi , Anjie or Ashu. And that is one reason why I have made peace with this aspect of the show since the only selfless example of friendship I saw was from Armaan towards Ashu and they went ahead and removed his character only.

U dun come to the forum much these days... kahan rehte ho? LOL

And .. yes.. they have all been this way.. thats why i said.. what is the harm in accepting that 'Nidhi THE FRAND was not upto the mark today' ?? Embarrassed

I never carry the grouses.. beyond an epi .. raat gai baat gai.. . but the view shall remain for today n i shall stick with it! 

Yeah I wasn't coming to the forum for the last few days. Was really busy, I am changing jobs, so busy with the relocation and stuff.Cry.It is going to be crazy for one more month and then I will be able to relax for a while.Smile

Aise I like your attitude of taking the show on its face value based on every episode. Somehow I tend to remember the things long back from past if they annoyed me beyond a certain point which Anjie did long back.LOL

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:37pm | IP Logged
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Sorry tanu , you misunderstood the 'everytime' word, the whole sentence was everytime she was with a lot of people . Again , when she was with anji during the rehearsal she showed anji her true feelings because anji is the only one who knew the truth, so no point in acting in front of her! Even if she did not put mehendi, or dance , she did smile when necessary . Again no one seemed to notice that something was wrong , so how can you say she spoiled everyone's fun? Only because anji knew the truth she was disturbed. As the time for the sangeet grew closer nidhi also started worrying about what would she do and say if ashu did not come at all. Confused

U misunderstood my post...

I din say she ruined EVERYONES fun.. i said.. she was disappointing as a friend today.. for not PARTICIPATING in her BEST FRIENDS HAPPINESS ...  

She did not go to get Ashu for Anjies sake.. she got to get Ashu for HIS SAKE ... so that.. people dun comment sarcy on HIM ... [that way she gets full points as a WIFE from me]  but not as a FRAND ... not today..! Smile

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