Posted: 19 July 2012 at 11:16am | IP Logged
Rajesh Khanna...urf Kaka
May your soul rest in peace...you gave us some outstanding movies, songs and cinematic moments...zindagi kaisi ye paheli hai, kabhi ye hasaye kabhi ye rulaye...Thank you Sir
Pushpa...mujhse ye aansoo dekhe nahi jate. I hate tears - Movie: Amar Prem
Anjali, Khushi, Payal...I think a lot of us are women, reasonably in the same age bracket that you are in. We study, compete for seats in universities, stuggle equally to find jobs, work our darnest best, fall in love with equal passion, strive to make or marriages work, take care of kids to make them better persons...the list is endless...
But we dont go around giving "I did this for the Happiness in the family" jingle, ...when in reality there are many instances when you guys take such regressive stands that would never make anyone happy
So if this serial is the new "Naari bechari ko kya naam doon", then fine...In that case I am better watching Pratigya or Diya aur Bati, because one can argue till the cows come home and sure there are regressive moments in these serials too...but largely...both their leads heroines, Pratigya and Sandhya respectively, have enough spine to deal with the harshest of circumstances.
Here, the answer to harsh circumstances is either moping or crying or comedy or dhamki maraoing....
Iss ek (sharaab ki) glaas main ek majdoor ki ek mahine ki roti hai aur parivaar ki saans.
Kabhi socha hai ki iss ek glass ko pite hi hum ek parivaar ko bhooka maar dete
hai - Movie: Namak Haram
Anjali...you are not the first person whose husband cheated, unfortunately you wont be the last. You are not the first person under duress in pregnancy, unfortunately again you wont be the last...think of the zillions worker class women who slog till the last day of the pregnancy term, some of whom have husbands beating them or messing around. And you are not the first person to feel upset by what happened ...and you won't be the last.
There is a baby due in 3 months. ...its a different matter you have a more flatboard stomach than the one I am flaunting even after hitting the tracks
But coming back to seriousness...can you get your act together please instead of seeing through and ignoring assorted family members, holding them responsible without any reflection on your part... and clinging to 'little brother'. ...For a change why do you not say one thing, "Ok this thing in my tummy is half mine and I am going to work for it, live for it, make its entry in this world happy and so long as I am there don't worry my baby"
Kisi badi khushi ke intezaar mein, hum yeh chote chote khushiyoon ke mauke
kho dete hain - Movie: Bawarchi
Khushi...after your "jalebi jaisa seedha" monlogue yesterday where in the same breath you said you are not angry with ASR and then said you cannot forget and tehn said you must change...I don't really know what you are thinking anymore.
So my (unwanted and unnoticed )suggestion is... first decide what you want...then decide what you feel...and then decide what you will tolerate...and then decide how you will achieve it...Makes sense
After that, cut a deal with ASR that you need half an hour of his time, and sort out the damm problem in a discussion...dont say "you are not my husband" when you went declaring over the rooftops to Shyam and all who cared to listen that he was...and when the moment he is out of sight you are pining away to eternity.
He has hurt you...no denying that...But he has also loved you more that that...and no denying that either...So the answer to his contract marriage statement...if that is the crux of the current displeasure is in asking him why he said that...because good news is, the answer he will give you is it was just an excuse to make you stop...
So stop the charade you are making yourself believe that you are doing this for Payash...its their marriage, they are adults, let them deal with it...you look at your own relationship and life first please...if you can't stand ASR...then leave him...respect yourself at least
So then, you decide if you love ASR, or its back to acidity...Because truth be told Khushiji, while you looked petrified in the ahem scene, at one point you turned up your face and the expression was "unmistakable"...I thought "this is it"...the woman too wants it....And in case you missed...you blused at the closet moment ...and the last "suna maine"...was out of a regular couple's everyday talk (sweet and sour bickering)
Think of the good time you spent together, of his being a hostage...If the answer is 'you love him', then tell him he is an absolute jerk at times, sort out the issues by having a sensible conversation and get on with the realtionship!!...He is far more open to converstions now...But, if the answer is 'no, you dont love him', then may I recommend the herbal medicinal tablet Pudin Haraa for acidity!!...simple, tikaao, aur rakhe aapke batwey ka bhi khayal
And on a serious note if you dislike and hate ASR so much...then be the role model your writers routinely love to imagine you to be...So leave him...re-skill or get educated and move on with your life...That is the real "samajh", "soch nayi" and frankly "aam aadmi ka sangharsh aur izzat".
'Arrey oh Babumoshai hum to rangmanch ki kathputliyan hain jiski dor us upar wale ke haathon main hai kab, kaun kahan uthega ye koi nahin janta' - Movie: Anand
Who this applies to...of course Khushiji and Nannav...because thats what 4 Lions is doing to their character boards and storyline...Is forced track ko kya naam doon!!...so after Khushi yet again for the 689698th time calls and accepts ASR her husband ...then what is the next plot to keep ARSHI away from each other...
Some suggestions (again unwanted
a) Shyam comes back and plays the "amnesia" card thinking Khushi is his sister. Taking a cue from Anjali, he demands to constantly be around Khushi...coz serial was originally meant to be called "Didi ki Saut bani Jeejoo ki behan"
b) Lakshmiji is pregnant ..Congratulations...Family members have two pregancies to take care of ...busy times!!!...Coz serial was originally meant to be called "Didi ki Saut ne bachaya do nanhe jeev ko jinki ho sakti thi maut"
c) Lavanya comes back...nah nah not pregnant ...but with a baby...claiming its ASR's...Because serial's first name... was ...yes!! you guessed the starting right...Taaliyan..."Didi ki saut sikhayegi balidaan ke baat"
Edited by JWMRK - 19 July 2012 at 11:37am