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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 2:03pm | IP Logged
@Sadiie: LOL LOL fantastic analyses Wink Clap Clap 
Feel much better Dear Hug
and good luck with fast Smile

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 2:04pm | IP Logged
@Jyo: I loved your reasoning that it is time for Bua to go! And I completely agree with you there. They have taken her character to a limit and there is no way that Yash will not now find out about her involvement in this situation so I feel that even if she is physically present in the house, she may be ordered to stay away from the kids. This issue is probably going to be huge enough to reach the ears of SP and he is going to be furious at the idea of her trying to separate Aarti and Yash when they are inching ever closer to producing his coveted pota. SP is fiercely protective of his family, mostly in a calculative sense, but still that figures most of the time and not only Yash but he will be furious. Unlike the time Gaya locked Ansh up, Bua cannot defend herself by saying she did it for the kids' good, because she has made the mistake of divulging every last detail of her diabolical plan to Palak who has promised never to hide anything from Yash... She is definitely in for it.

@Aparna: Nice break down of Palak, and I think the stage fright can easily be worked in as well. She is afraid of failure, for one thing, and also has terrible relationships if any, with her peers, who will form her audience. Because she sees Yash as vulnerable and feels the need to protect him she takes a lot of responsibility on herself and tries to shield him from her failures. This is why she lied about not being selected for the race, by saying her clothes would get dirty if she ran it, and hid her poor test scores. Debate and being on stage is a place where you present yourself live, in front of people. If she makes a mistake she has no way of covering it up, because there are so many witnesses so she is petrified of starting in the first place. Palak does not like to be vulnerable and exposed and public speaking is just that.

Secondly, like you said, she is a bully because she is an insecure kid with a lot of guilt and self doubt over her mother's death and her dad's subsequent withdrawal and has been taught by Bua and Gayatri that she has to put other people down to feel good about herself. She has no confidence that she can maintain her one-up on the other kids purely based on her own merit, so she avoids situations that make her vulnerable in front of them. We saw what an effort it was for her to even stand up and invite them to her birthday party. So I think it is her fear of failure, the vulnerable position that public speaking places her in, and her fear of being judged as weak by her peers that compounds in her stage fright.

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 2:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tarantulla_p


My view of Palak is this : She is a leader, fiercely independent, confident in her academic skills and other choices. She will not give an inch to anyone she doesnt trust and trust doesnt come easily to her. She is protective of her dad and looks out for the three of them (her dad, sis and herself). She is also very sensitive and easily hurt. Its because she is so easily hurt that she seems aloof to everyone else. Her mother is a concept that she allows only one person to introduce to her, her dad. She lets Bua in because Bua has always been there for her.  Also, when she plotted against Ansh and complained to get him in trouble, she seems like a bully so where is the consistency in this and her having a fear of public.



@Aparna, sorry for jumping in but I really wanted to respond to this before I left the forum and showed up much later at night. LOL


You are absolutely spot on about Palak's characterization. However, none of the traits you mentioned means she should have no fear of public. I am training to be a teacher and what I have realized so far (and I have a long way to go) is that children are such complex beings that you can never ever generalize and say that if they do this then they should be able to do that too. Palak is all that you mentioned but she also lives with the guilt that her mother did not come back on her birthday because she had to go out to get a cake for her. That guilt can manifest in so many ways and in her case it looks like it has manifested into a fear of people criticizing her. And that guilt is also probably the reason for one of the traits you mentioned that is of her being a bully. In my experience most bullies have issues with their self esteem which I think Palak does too. And I think Palak's fear of public speaking is a perfect characterization of such a child. I don't think of it as an inconsistency at all in fact I am pretty amazed that the writers have put in quite a bit of thought when it comes to the emotional charectarization of the children in this show. But then again this all about different perceptions, isn't it?

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 2:12pm | IP Logged
@Sadie: This for you



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and for those who will be fasting in this holy month of Ramadan

Loved your take and yes the Bua makes me laugh every time she is
on the screen. Even my dad said why is she walking around like blowing up herself for no reason like a balloon.

Hope you are doing better now


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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 2:14pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Zetter

@Sadiie: LOL LOL fantastic analyses Wink Clap Clap 
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and good luck with fast Smile


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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 2:14pm | IP Logged
@Samana, although I dont see it in her, its plausible I grant you Approve. I can buy that the perfectionist in her is afraid of coming off as anything but that so wont even try.
Total tangents the following thoughts :
-I think its important for everyone to understand its okay to lose too. The whole mania around winning should be tempered with the joy of participating. Since there is also a deep fear of humiliation associated with not winning, maybe the sensible thing for everyone to say will be 'everyone is a winner for talking up'.
-Also, isnt the debate competition supposed to be for children so why are the adults writing the speeches. Why couldnt they collaborate with the kids so the kids can speak in their own words? How is reading off a sheet or memorizing any skill?
-Where is the Prateik track headed? Is Prateik becoming aware of his shortcomings and afraid Paridhi will leave him because of them?

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 2:16pm | IP Logged
@Saddie : Nice Bua filled analysis ClapClapLOLBig smile... I think your  overall analysis too  say it clearly that time for Bua to go out of the picture and let AarYa live in peace Big smileLOL
 
 
@Z :I was happy too when Yash jumps to Aarti's rescue today in front of Bua Embarrassed...Yash's entry and vocal support for Aarti was so unexpected and I loved the way Yash gives the credit to Aarti by saying that she made us all realise that  we need to motivate our kids to get their confidence back Embarrassed... Bua was clean bowled LOL
 
 
@Mansi : I m not saying Bua  permanently should go out of the picture  but mayb for few weeks so that AarYa love track and their bonding with kids can happen without any negativity and then once all issues r solved , Bua can return with a vengence along with Prashant breaking news mayb WinkTongue
 
@Samana : Yess Bua needs to b told off big time .. even if she is physically present in the house , she needs to b told by Yash and all that stay away from kids Angry

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 2:17pm | IP Logged

All those who hv not wished Deeps yet ..its her birthday today (20th july) and in India its already 12am ...midnight .. so plsss wish her

 
 
 
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