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i must say i feel very bad for papaji & co...
i mean they first fix megha's marriage with an NRI doc who is every bit more rich, established and fitting for megha and her kids...
and then they come to know that it is mohan whom megha loves...mohan whom they hv grown to admire...but never did they think him for megha...apparantly he is too young, carefree, living in a one room flat with noone else other than another same age bachelor boy guru...estranged from his own dad and whose mom hates megha...
wen i picture such a situation in real life...any parents wud feel apprehensive about this kind of rishtaa...if megha wud hv been alone widout kids to phir bhi chalta...but to view him as papa of 2 grown up kids is quite tough to imagine...
upar se mohan gvs no asurance regarding his parents...the way he said about his mom "unke yahaan se haan aane se to raha"...and about his dad (whom he even now calls mr. bhatnagar in front of his wud be in-laws) "unki haan ka wait kare to megha se pehle nanhi ki shaadi ho jayegi"...
really loved how they treated the entire scene...papaji, saroj and bela clearly worried about the situation surrounding mohan...practically speaking even as a viewer i cant imagine getting my daughter married to a lone bachelor with no family or parental blessings...
and mohan saying that only way is to trust him...trust him that he will always love megha and take care of nanhi and addu...though he said those sincerely and papaji also felt his sincerity...but i loved how papaji still stressed on his parents' involvement...
apparently speaking mohan doesnt project himself as trustworthy...he is very impulsive and his nature is that he will not let anyone or anything come between him and the thing he desires...
firstly he estranged himself from his dad for some reasons which r yet unknown...then he stubbornly refuses to call him dad even wen doing serious talking with wud be in-laws...all these only goes to show that if anyone resists him getting wat he wants he will sever all ties with him rather than compromise...
secondly...megha once righty said that mohan zid ke karan goli khane chale...although that was an assignment but one other reason was his frustration over megha's refusals...and now this marriage with ridzie...i refuse to believe mohan married her only because her dad was dying...rather he married her because he was heartbroken from the way he was treated in vyas house and megha remained silent...he married her only because he thot he has lost megha forever...
wen this marriage fact will come to the fore...i dont think mohan can be regarded as trustworthy more because he wont confess it thanks to guru...i wonder y since his marriage with ridzie he has become more dependant on guru...like he is always looking at guru before saying anything to the vyas-es...y is he letting guru influence his decisions is beyond me...
and guru...i dunno how much i shud blame him...his only desire is to see his bhaiyya happy...it is clear he loves mohan a lot and can move mountains just to see him happy...
he is advising mohan again confession only because he knows wat will happen to mohan if megha leaves him...guru's intention is gud but of course the way he is choosing is wrong and will prove to be disastrous in the coming days...
the situation is extremely complicated and honestly neither mohan nor guru is mature enuf to find a solution...although i dont want to support mohan for not confessing...but wen i place myself in his shoes i can see that it is easy to blame as third person...but how extremely difficult it is for mohan to say the truth to megha...
it is not at all easy to risk losing the one person whom he loves so much that too at a time wen she is nearly already belongs to him since their wedding is round the corner...
as for behaving as if nothing hapend...i cant blame mohan for that too...he is human after all...and wen everything is turning out as exactly how he wants it is difficult not to enjoy every moment of it by pretending to forget all the bad things that recently hapnd in his life...
all said and done i still want mohan to admit because honesty always brings peace of mind if nothing else...the task is extremely difficult for mohan and so even if he falters and fails to admit i for one will never blame him...
later wat will happen in mandap remains to be seen...if i am to predict then marriage wont happen now...mohan will be left alone in mandap...even the thot of it is breaking my heart...
NBT has always (not only now) been a painful journey of mohan...more than MM's love story i found it a solo journey of mohan where he is always getting pricked with thorns...
i guess the story is written in this way because the writers r aware it is kunal who can emote far better than akanksha...
letz c now...i am now hoping mohan's dad will come into picture on the wedding day and he may actually go against mohan's expectations and he may end up bringing solution so that MM is united...
wait and watch...thatz my motto now...
i mean they first fix megha's marriage with an NRI doc who is every bit more rich, established and fitting for megha and her kids...
and then they come to know that it is mohan whom megha loves...mohan whom they hv grown to admire...but never did they think him for megha...apparantly he is too young, carefree, living in a one room flat with noone else other than another same age bachelor boy guru...estranged from his own dad and whose mom hates megha...
wen i picture such a situation in real life...any parents wud feel apprehensive about this kind of rishtaa...if megha wud hv been alone widout kids to phir bhi chalta...but to view him as papa of 2 grown up kids is quite tough to imagine...
upar se mohan gvs no asurance regarding his parents...the way he said about his mom "unke yahaan se haan aane se to raha"...and about his dad (whom he even now calls mr. bhatnagar in front of his wud be in-laws) "unki haan ka wait kare to megha se pehle nanhi ki shaadi ho jayegi"...
really loved how they treated the entire scene...papaji, saroj and bela clearly worried about the situation surrounding mohan...practically speaking even as a viewer i cant imagine getting my daughter married to a lone bachelor with no family or parental blessings...
and mohan saying that only way is to trust him...trust him that he will always love megha and take care of nanhi and addu...though he said those sincerely and papaji also felt his sincerity...but i loved how papaji still stressed on his parents' involvement...
apparently speaking mohan doesnt project himself as trustworthy...he is very impulsive and his nature is that he will not let anyone or anything come between him and the thing he desires...
firstly he estranged himself from his dad for some reasons which r yet unknown...then he stubbornly refuses to call him dad even wen doing serious talking with wud be in-laws...all these only goes to show that if anyone resists him getting wat he wants he will sever all ties with him rather than compromise...
secondly...megha once righty said that mohan zid ke karan goli khane chale...although that was an assignment but one other reason was his frustration over megha's refusals...and now this marriage with ridzie...i refuse to believe mohan married her only because her dad was dying...rather he married her because he was heartbroken from the way he was treated in vyas house and megha remained silent...he married her only because he thot he has lost megha forever...
wen this marriage fact will come to the fore...i dont think mohan can be regarded as trustworthy more because he wont confess it thanks to guru...i wonder y since his marriage with ridzie he has become more dependant on guru...like he is always looking at guru before saying anything to the vyas-es...y is he letting guru influence his decisions is beyond me...
and guru...i dunno how much i shud blame him...his only desire is to see his bhaiyya happy...it is clear he loves mohan a lot and can move mountains just to see him happy...
he is advising mohan again confession only because he knows wat will happen to mohan if megha leaves him...guru's intention is gud but of course the way he is choosing is wrong and will prove to be disastrous in the coming days...
the situation is extremely complicated and honestly neither mohan nor guru is mature enuf to find a solution...although i dont want to support mohan for not confessing...but wen i place myself in his shoes i can see that it is easy to blame as third person...but how extremely difficult it is for mohan to say the truth to megha...
it is not at all easy to risk losing the one person whom he loves so much that too at a time wen she is nearly already belongs to him since their wedding is round the corner...
as for behaving as if nothing hapend...i cant blame mohan for that too...he is human after all...and wen everything is turning out as exactly how he wants it is difficult not to enjoy every moment of it by pretending to forget all the bad things that recently hapnd in his life...
all said and done i still want mohan to admit because honesty always brings peace of mind if nothing else...the task is extremely difficult for mohan and so even if he falters and fails to admit i for one will never blame him...
later wat will happen in mandap remains to be seen...if i am to predict then marriage wont happen now...mohan will be left alone in mandap...even the thot of it is breaking my heart...
NBT has always (not only now) been a painful journey of mohan...more than MM's love story i found it a solo journey of mohan where he is always getting pricked with thorns...
i guess the story is written in this way because the writers r aware it is kunal who can emote far better than akanksha...
letz c now...i am now hoping mohan's dad will come into picture on the wedding day and he may actually go against mohan's expectations and he may end up bringing solution so that MM is united...
wait and watch...thatz my motto now...
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