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Khushi is the most disrespected character on IPK. (Page 12)

sanayakhushifan Goldie

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 3:46pm | IP Logged
Apparently 4 Lions just posted a picture of Arnav and "Di" on their Facebook page - an indication of what is to come? Angry

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SaJanLuv14 IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 3:47pm | IP Logged
I've honestly been keeping quiet this whole time in the hope that things were going to change but what mr.hegde said blew me off, I feel like instead of Anjali, Khushi has become the supporting actress in the show, honestly if the show were just based on Arnav and Anjali this show would have NEVER EVER made it this far, 
and I agree with u completely
I've NEVER EVER seen Khushi get the proper respect she deserves!~ and I was honestly hoping the Shyam confrontation would have been the BIGGEST way to redeem Arnav for his doing and esp to let everyone know about Khushi's greatness and selflessness however what happened only a slap, which yes I did enjoy but didn't justify everything that Arnav did till this point. 

I completely agree that Anjali has the right to be sad, but why can't they show her strong and independent or even delusional or even angry at Khushi instead of just crying all the time, give her all the screen time she wants


at the same time why not give Khushi the respect she deserves in the show?! 

The PH talks about wanting a realistic show and all and how Anjali can't magically forgive and forget everything in her life

well NEW FLASH: there isn't a SINGLE PERSON in this entire world who can be as "forgiving" as Khushi is, like think about it
from the VERY VERY beginning Arnav, Mamiji, Shyam, Buaji, Garima, everyone has given Khushi one big blow at least, and Arnav above all of them, and they just let her go like that, always forgiving? 

this time I'm actually glad that Khushi is taking her time into forgiving him

and u know what the BIGGEST irony is

EVERY SINGLE PROMO, aside for the one with Anjali's abortion

was promoting ArHi and even the original promos before the start of the show was PROMOTING ARHI'S LOVE STORY

NOT about Didi ki Saut's concept, I didnt' SEE ANY CONCEPT from that show 

and Gul Khan said Iss Pyar ko Kya Naam Doon is a higher scale of their old show Geet right?

Then as far as I remember Mann's brother Dev did have a significant part in the show and was a huge conflict for Mann and Geet HOWEVER Mann and Geet were originally the main emphasis of the show no matter what, and that's how I would like it and that's how it was and that's how it should stay

I love all the cast members and the team in the show but please please please treat Sanaya's talent and Khushi's character with justice and please stick to the ACTUAL ISS PYAR KO KYA NAAM DOON CONCEPT NOT DIDI KI SAUT. 

Edited by SaJanLuv14 - 18 July 2012 at 5:00pm

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AmazingAmy IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 3:51pm | IP Logged
@ LadyLaLa: Wow your reply almost rivaled mine in the length, I love it! It was just wonderfully written.

@ Shweta: Thanks hun, you are the sweetest! And I agree, sadly Khushi herself has swept everything under the carpet. I don't understand why they continue to undermine Khushi and her feelings! They realize they are ruining their own show by doing that!

@ Miyah: OMG you are alive! I will check the scrap right after this post...we're both equally pathetic when it comes to the scrapbook so there will never be any misunderstanding lol. Lovely post dear, you made perfect sense, better than me!

@ zeeba: To be honest, she hasn't always been like this...remember the guest house Khushi. How she told him off? That scene did justice to Khushi as a character and Sanaya as an actress! That was what, almost a year ago? I don't think we're asking for much to give her another outburst like that!

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Rabba-Ve-Delena IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 3:51pm | IP Logged
Hi Priyanka

I cannot speak for Sanaya but honestly I hope the drama that goes on over the internet never reflects on the sets of the show where they seem to behave like one happy family. It's unfair, I feel they should all maintain a distance from fans, like Barun and Sanaya do. Or deal with it a very level headed manor as Akshay and Abhas do. I understand Daljeet too get upset about being personally attacked because of Anjali but from the video there was a sense of her not being able to handle it and perhaps taking it to heart, I hope she distances herself. I can repeat that 100x for Mr. Hedge. Seriously that dude should not use the internet to communicate with IPKKND fans, he doesn't do himself, the show or us any favours. It's really bad practise. Hire a PR please.

But back to Khushi, 100% ditto. I am still frustrated at the fact they haven't addressed THAT line from Thursday but then again I am not surprise, they have as I feared successfully romanticised that notion. I think they've never quite grasped how to balance Khushi happy-go-lucky, fun loving, bubbly attitude with that sense of maturity and her feisty side, I mean it does emerge once in a while but I think they're in fear of making her the stereotypical bread and butter SP bahu hence they have this tendency to skate over all of Khushi's serious, demeaning issues. Which is frustrating because initially when the show started, Khushi really had spunk where she wouldn't let anyone demean her unfairly.

I'm glad we're getting more monologues to understand her HOWEVER who in the world wrote the dialogues for today's DM scene, where she is talking about how some things will never change but then a second later she decides they can be changed. Plus her reflection on everything Arnav has said and done was so cryptic and vague - it's shoddy.

The CVs need to take a step-back and evaluate what message they want to get across, because the more they continue to skate over the really rubbish that happens to Khushi, the less people will be interested in seeing the female lead being made so weak and disrespected - no matter how many times they use Sanaya for comical, light hearted scenes OR rely on ASR.

Edited by Rabba-Ve-Delena - 18 July 2012 at 4:46pm

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mz.jess IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 3:51pm | IP Logged
Love this post!!

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saddafmahmood Goldie

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 3:56pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by AyeReKhushi

Originally posted by Raniya1990

Onthe whole Did ki Saut topic... I had this thought that may be he said tht to appease daljeet banot? Cause you know with all that previous ruccus about her leaving the show and bla bla bla. Its just a thought...would love it if someone would respond and tell me if i could be right or even wrong?

I think it is a combination of two, DB asked for more importance and was this close to quitting and two, the writers probably have run out of ideas to drag the show!

Thanks everyone for your responses! I can only hope that the writers handle Khushi's character with the same sensitivity and care that they are handling a supporting character. Because right now, I'm worried that Khushi is being shown carelessly. Then again, the writers of this show have never written an author-backed track for her. It is all credit to Sanaya and the FANS for bringing this character of Khushi to life.

I don't even know if Sanaya feels bad about this or not but I certainly do. I'd be annoyed if I was her. Its use me to promote the show, the Arshi romance, go overseas to meet international fans and then when it comes to the sideline me and even have the nerve to say that the show was always about the brother-sister's story. SI is the one who should be going around, running her own campaign to get people to feel sorry for her and her character.

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SaraJL Goldie

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 3:58pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sanayakhushifan

Apparently 4 Lions just posted a picture of Arnav and "Di" on their Facebook page - an indication of what is to come? Angry

Really? If this show main focus turns into brother/sister relationship then I am not going to watch at all... I feel like they cheated me big time by showing me wrong promos, giving me the wrong idea that it's a love story between Arnav/Khushi full of hate... This would be my first and last Indian show ever.

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Jammy- IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 4:01pm | IP Logged
there a few things I like about your post and some points that I disagree.

Just yesterday I was confused as to what Khushi wants? I mean Arnav has already wished her, lit up the pool side, made her cut the cake, requested aloo puri to be made and still she was brushing him off?? I completely agree with you. They should show her POV as well. Its getting too complicated now a days for me to understand her.

As for everyone stressing on the fact that we should understand Anjali's pain thats simply because we dont! Come on yaar, hate mails are being sent to Daljeet and Gautam is literally fighting a war on twitter. You think they wouldnt react?

I want everyone to just gather around Khushi and apologize!! This sanka devi has done alot for everybody!! She needs recognition now! Its about time.
But I think Payal was right about not intereferring in her and Akash's matter. Seriously think guys, would you like it if matters were already worst and your sister/ mother would butt in?? I know I wouldnt. I'm not saying khushi was at fault I am just saying Payal is right! I know khushi was trying to help but she shouldnt have! Especially with a guy like Aakash who yesterday was going all khushiji khushiji and suddenly he has a problem talking with her?! Ajeeb hai!!

Well coming to the point of Sanaya being ignored! I wouldnt go to that extreme! I want her to have a much better wodrobe, yes!! I mean she has been literally repeating her clothes over and over again! So I want that changed too! As for her hair extensions I guess the role of khushi demanded it.
About her character being ignored- nah I dont think so! In what way?? :s Infact I'm liking the way she is behaving!! All matured and understanding!! There have definately been inconsistency in her character.

See, these guys are professionals do you think if Sanaya was not getting what was promised she would continue? Nah I think its all going good! Unlike us, maybe she already knew that Anjali is also a important character.

Bottom line I want to know what khushi is thinking right now! Just a little conversation with DM is not helping!

So there it is. Its what I think.

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