Awesome post! Agree with everything you said.
I also feel that we rarely ever get to see Khushi reflecting deeply about any important matter and even if we do, then it's only for a day or two. It's back to square one after that. It's like the CV's have gotten used to thinking that since she's Khushi, she can get over anything. Well, it's because of THEIR inconsistent and illogical writing that Khushi is the way she is today. I think they've taken her resilience for granted and have blinded themselves. Just because they might have sketched her out as an optimistic girl doesn't mean they can stretch that trait into irrationality.
And yeah, why the heck are they focusing so much on Anjali's plight? What about Arnav who was freaking KIDNAPPED? What about Khushi who obviously went through hell and back to get him home? What about all the things she had to go through because of Anjali's pati dev? Oh, that reminds me. Anjali's dialogue about wanting a son so he could be like Shyamji sickened me. So this is the kind of character progression and screen space Daljeet wanted, huh?
About the sorry's that need to be said... I doubt the CV's feel the same way. Like I said, they've taken Khushi's strength for granted and put her through whatever the hell they want and show her being chirpy and feisty again cause they can justify that with her character. It's so damn sad. I really do wonder what Sanaya feels about all of this. Doesn't she ever wonder whether Khushi will hear a simple "sorry" from someone, anyone?