Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon


Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

Khushi is the most disrespected character on IPK.

AmazingAmy IF-Dazzler

Joined: 10 March 2012
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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 12:48pm | IP Logged
Sorry for this long post. I was about to log off but had this on my mind and wanted to get rid of it. You can read at your own risk.

I feel like Khushi is the least respected character on the show. Everyone is focused on justifying Anjali's pain. What about all the pain and hurt Khushi has faced repeatedly? Its too much to remember but she has been hurt more than anyone on this show. How can they just sweep all that under the rug and force us to "understand" Anjali's pain instead?

Khushi never gets the sorry she deserves from anyone. Arnav is an obvious one but I feel even her family, especially Garima and Buaji, have yet to apologize to her for the way they treated her after she got married. This show always undermines all the humiliation Khushi faces. She got called characterless by both Shyam and Arnav...the next day, they pretended it never happened. They act like all the hurtful words she has to hear from various members of the Raizada family and her own family don't matter, as if her feelings don't matter.

She dismisses the biggest of insults then gets upset over some insignificant matter. Ahhh! Why are they doing this, making her character inconsistent and hard to relate with on purpose? I think a lot of members on IF have done a far better job explaining Khushi's character than the CVs have. We love Khushi so we try very hard to understand her on our own because she is not making it very easy right now.They barely show us her POV. There is no deep or emotional thought shown behind her actions. But when it comes to Arnav and Anjali, there seems to be no shortage of emotional breakdown scenes. 

At least showing us Arnav's POV is limited to on-screen and Barun nails it perfectly. However...Anjali's POV is being explained and justified by the PH, writers and actors even off-screen. What the heck? They are leaving no stones unturned to get Anjali's pain through to us. Yet they are so careless when it comes to all the pain Khushi has been facing for over a year. We keep waiting to see her get the apology and respect she deserves but it never comes. It's completely unfair.

One last note...speaking about Khushi brings me Sanaya. If I were her, I'd be insulted by Gautam Hedge's tweet that the concept of IPK was about Arnav and Anjali. Where does that leave Khushi? I'd be worried about the future of my character if this guy is writing the story. Going by his thinking, Sanaya is the parallel lead...though they are still promoting her as the main lead because they know better. 

I wonder if Sanaya is okay with the sudden change in the theme of the show. She had to carry this show on her shoulder for the past 2 months and she did an admirable job keeping it in the top 10, without any complaints. After all that hard work, her character has been relegated once again. 

And how can she be okay with her look on the show? We see how amazing she looks at award shows and other events where she styles herself. As opposed to the show. I would be horrified if they told me to wear such ghastly clothes. I don't mind the colors but the material looks quite cheap compared to Daljeet's expensive wardrobe. Sanaya is naturally beautiful so she still carries them off. But what about the hair, the unnecessary extensions and hair clips that look very unappealing. It doesn't make sense. She is not treated like a lead on the show.

I don't like to be dramatic...but I had to say it. I think I won't watch another show by this PH again. Its too much of a headache! They are just all highly unprofessional, from top to bottom. Sorry for the negativity but I don't care. I'm getting increasingly annoyed with the way Khushi is being sidelined.

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Sultan_Of_Swing IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:04pm | IP Logged
Think its time Sanaya put her foot down, she has literally run the show over the last 2 months, continues to act brilliantly, putting her soul into the character. And what does she get in return?

Edited by Naach_Basanti - 18 July 2012 at 1:54pm

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SanzBarbie IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:04pm | IP Logged
very logical post..
i think the ph has either taken Sanaya as for granted like khushi in the show coz sanaya does not throw tantrum and ultimatum like the other side character or the stylists and cvs r extremely jealous of her heavenly beauty to even utilize it..

Edited by Doc_Manaal - 18 July 2012 at 1:05pm

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xsumi IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:06pm | IP Logged
awesome post
u know ..u just said all my words
it not nice cause even know her own sister payal is disrespecting khushi , anjali hates khushi right now , akash PFFFTTT i dont even know what is wrong with that dude at the moment (i like shyam way better then akash right now ) i can understand her pain ...because she is also going through alot and not only anjali and everyone else
and im happy that Arnav is trying to win her sweet 
i guess NK and Arnav r the only sweetest people right now who r being so nice to khushi and trying to put a smile on her face Smile ohh even laxmi is soo sweet to khushi Big smile

i feel so sorry for khushi ..i guess everyone should say sorry to her cause i think they have hurt her alot *besides the nice people who love khushi *

Edited by xsumi - 18 July 2012 at 1:10pm

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OmNaMaSteOm IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:07pm | IP Logged
Sanaya once said in an interview that she wants to prove that she is an Indian actress. As far as a viewers I dont see that need any longer. She has proved more than required.

I dont know why is Sanaya still playing the role of khushi when her character never gets its due. - Its been a year since all the torcher but i dont see it getting what it needs to.

Sanaya gets the most repetitive wardrobes i have ever seen. Payal gets news sarees, the great DI gets to wear designer wear, mami gets to wear the circus, what about the khushi, the main lead.
Sanaya is the main lead when will she get to wear expensive clothes.

If Sanaya is not the main lead why should she work for the show during Barun's absence why didnt Daljeet shoulder the show ???? Why did Sanaya take that painful burden without asking a for a 1 -2 break why ????

Just because a character is strong does not mean they wont break. Just because she looks exceptionally beautiful does not mean make her wear the worst clothes in the name of no budget.

I would suggest Sanaya to quit the show if she is staying back to prove she is an Indian she does not have to im sure everyone knows that by now !!!

I started watching this show seeing Sanaya in it & now when I hear people saying she's not the lead I feel why am I watching a show like what is the point.

Before the MU everything was going great, post MU khushi is not lead anjali is wow Angry

Sanaya should negotiate to leave if her character does not get her due sooner.

Barun does not hav to worry her is ASR, Gul's favourite nothing will go wrong.

I feel really bad for Sanaya & khushi, being her ardent fan i cant do much Ouch

I can go on & on & on but for now Im stopping

Edited by Harshitha - 19 July 2012 at 2:03am

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AmaZayn Senior Member

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:10pm | IP Logged
I agree with you!

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xAaliya IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:12pm | IP Logged
Seriously both the leads wardrobe isn't good at all, I seen girl on other shows who are not even good looking has a better wardrobe than Khushi. CVS seriously need to do something about this but I been liking her outfits last week though she look great in Purple and I think she pulled off the pink outfit on her Birthday aswell.

On Character I agree no one cares about her feelings right now and how much she suffered. Arnav should said a simple sorry to her rather than trying to imitate her like this! Seems like were back to comedy again. Pinch

Edited by IshqSufiyana - 18 July 2012 at 1:18pm

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IllGetOverIpk IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:12pm | IP Logged
i don know wat to say...
but here is a list of my complaints...
1.after he hurt her during diwali almost kiss.. i waited for the apol which dint happened..
2.he married her forcefully.. now tat he knows she is not to be blamed.. did he apol...
wat makes me more angry is i recently watched those episodes 185-200... the way khushi was treated at tat time by asr was horrible...the way he said i hate u.. the way the banged the door on her hand.. when she came running to go home with buaji...
he never apol.
3. he called her characterless.. n thrw away her stars which she considers as her parents.. she was going to commit suicide for him.. n she left the most precious thing for him.. n threw tat on the terrace..
4.last but not the least the recent outburst,,,, tat was also really sad..

n abt the ph.. don know y suddenly they are talkin abt di ki saut or watever..??? i am confused...
but i like this track..i like this asr..trying to impress khushi.. but i wan a bit more of seriousness as well..

Edited by sarithaipkknd - 18 July 2012 at 1:12pm

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