Originally posted by Jhalak29
Hip Hip Horay
300 episodes, Another Milestone, Another Feather
Love hurts. Love heals. Love is joy. Loves is pain. Love never fails
" A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings
& the quality of her relationships. "
" A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results. " John Gray
Two different views, two different visions
Didnt we see this tonite, Khushi wanting to keep happy, the whole world, Di, mamiji and Payal Akash.Arnav wanting to see Khushi happy, A smile is all he wants for all his efforts.
The episode tonite opened with once agn Arnav giving the gift to Khushi and she rejects it and once agn a blow to him, which unsurps him for a few moments, Khushi is giving him one of the worst jabs and action intentionally trying to hurt him, the only man she loves and she isnt happy with herself yet something is not well with her one can see that, Khushi a women who is happy with a simple wish, can she behave so rude and compromising to Him, and why the snubs
the next scene deals with and we have a monologue from khushi,She sits with DM sharing herself, has she ever shared herself with anyone, no one but NK was that person who became confidante, her frnd a person she trusts and has shared herself in bits... Khushi tonite is touched by him,by his gesture, he she has this saree in her hand when she sits pouring her
heart to DM. She pretends to be unaffected by him his gestures ,,,, dictionary defines pretending as act or speak in a manner to make it appear it like its not the case & she has accepted him but she also believes if she will be with him, she gonna bring trouble with hiutoo she continue her characde but she is also the sunshine which brings the light to the his world, she is the only reason wh can pull Arnav away for ASR and let him live a few moments of careless existence, where his burden of the world he carries gets relieved.
Arnav leaves miffed and reaches NK and gives him a pc of mind & NK tries to reason with HIm.
" Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. "
Once agn we see a determined Arnav who wants to do something to bring her smile back, this time he wants to do all by himself with the faith in himself that he will win her back, he has faith in his love
These two hv been always on the opposite side of the pole but slowly with these efforts he is
learning her small things which bring smile to her and she is learning that she matters to him, A part of his world, Tonite she mite hv rebuffed him, but one say she will appreaciate it.
We see a determined Khushi talking to Akash abt vacation and his outburst with payal and Payal and bearing the brunt
A visibly hurt payal gvs Khushi a few hards words but it got two important point
1 Hum sirf khushi ki bahen nahi Payal bhi hain
2 Hamare aur Akash ke beech mein jo ho raha hai wo hamara aapas ka mamala hai
Payal tonite a valuebale lesson to Khushi that you might consider your husband family as urs but it is there bcz of him and no one should be meddling in between the two, Khushi hasnr got this tonite bur she will get Arnav will make sure she will In these few months with Arnav Khushi has learnt a lot of lesson abt humanity, shyam and truth she had nvr thought such consequences of her simple action of not telling anjali the truth at the start.
Once agn we see the determination in these two do do things right, I always seen a lot of similarity between them they are determined, they care abt their world and they are in love with each other, they matter to each other.
and then we see NK gving Arnav lessons abt winning Khushi, He takes Arnav walk down the memory Lane,
he tells himto realise the importance of Khushi, how and where it started and one of the most important journey he takes down memory lane where he saw the the first fall in his lap, in his office and GH and he says the most important her will never failed, A beautiful characterstic of Khushi, it reminds him his reasons for love for Khushi and most importantly what forms
When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself.
Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself. "
if Monday was doing something for Khushi then Tue was walk the extra mile and tonite it was walk down the memory lane, all important components of continuing a relationship, adding the spice in it. If you want a realtion to be growing and alive you should take a journey dwn the moemory lane and relive the beautiful moments,
but I believe Arnav will be able to win her smile bcz in a realtionship you grow, you learn and compromise and he has started the journey for her already. Micheal Formica in his ten elements of successful relationship mentions Respect, Humor,Transparency, Sacred space, Passion, Sharing responsibility as few of them and both Arnav and Khushi hv these only a few more they will reach the destination
Dedication for Khushi & Arnav Singh Raizada
" Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you.
They are not perfect but are always perfect for you. "
Arnav thoughts abt Khushi
A beautiful lady with eyes on fire,
That sparkle and laugh, that can smile and cry,
I love your eyes so clear and true.
Beautiful lady I adore you.
A twinkling look that bubbles bright,
With a heart to care, and a heart to love,
With hands to hold, and hands to help,
Beautiful lady there to give.
Beautiful lady, a smile so bright,
So warm and gentle, so soft. A delight.
A voice so clear,
That calms and soothes, a voice that wipes all fears.
I'll give to you, my thoughts, my prayers, my hopes,
I offer you my heart, my strength.
My love is yours for ever.
I love you as you are.
- Graham R. Bryan -
Thank you all for being a part of Redux and letting me in.