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Crooner 1.3 : Kuch Rishtey...ajeeb hi dor -UPDATED (Page 17)

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 5:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -SH-

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Another thing.. You already voiced it out... Mine would look much more like a teenage phan gurl's rant... But can we have a bit more of romance which we were 'promised' and what we have been waiting for ever since those 40 days came to an end.? If not that, then atleast a balance of romance with 'other' things. The patience is giving way to frustration now.. For an impatient saggi like me I've waited beyond my capacity... And again for what a sucker I've become for this love story I'll wait some more.. LOL

PS - WHAT happened to the water tankers? Tongue


In NK's words, woh ghum ne gaye LOL


Shocked Broken Heart

no heartbreaks pleeejj!!! Ouch 

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 5:24am | IP Logged
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going back to what u said abt love, change and acceptance...well the change for me has to come from within...i cannot force my man to change because i want to but he will change because he wants to...if i have to change the person i fell in love with then what was it that i saw in him, which made me fall in love with him in the first place...same rule applies for khushi & arnav!!!! she fell for the laad governor and he for the paagal but cute girl and whatever changes happen, is because of their wanting to...the only problem is the change in arnav is evident to all while khushi's not so!!!!

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till this point i understand her perfectly but what she does after that is not understandable...her convo with akaash was absolutely a no-no...why would she talk to akaash as if nothing has happened...what kind of dialogues were those...intentions notwithstanding...suggesting honeymoon...really???ConfusedConfused despite knowing very well what is happening in RM!!!! akaash not saying anything to her but takes it out on payal...don't blame him!!! he is hurt that payal broke the promise they had made to each other and it is between them...but i do agree with u priya abt portraying his hurt in a better manner!!!

now the the thing which irritated me is and i rarely get irritated... why does khushi feel her sister will be incapable of sorting out her marital problems...will she allow payal to interfere in her & arnav relation...don't think so!!! if she really wanted to help...she should have spoken to payal and not to akaash and her reason pretty lame...you are my jiji...then talk to jiji, know what the problem is exactly then suggest ur jiji if she needs ur advice on how to solve the situation!!!! where does it show khushi's maturity in handling situations just having good intentions are not enough!!! the whole khushi trying to solve payal's problem scene was badly handled!!!! btw am not upset with the character but people who conceived this scene!!!! sorry for the rant priya!!!


soni, hi
rarely do i get a chance to comment on your post, always too late and the next episode almost upon us. heartfelt post, great to read. i've left in the quotes the part i really liked.

all of us today are feeling the gap in khushi. our reasons might be slightly different in nuance, but overall we are all uncomfortable with the way she's being portrayed.

frankly i find no match between the girl she's grown and was evolving into and the things i saw yesterday.

most of all, i understand you're sad at everyone's sadness. i also would absolutely understand if you were hurt at arnav's words that night he lost control (yet again) and are even mad at him. but if you're the girl who has matured so much that you can lure shyam to save your husband, surely you can get your laad governor's ways? anger being a crucial and often apparent feature of the man

he loses it, all the time, nani has warned it's like his dad, this worrying trait of his. 

you've seen him say things he doesn't mean then apologise abjectly for it, with anjali the time you went looking for her. he was nasty to you in the midst of a mad day, his anger flared, it had to come out, he took it out on you. bad. but he returned. he apologised. he said mein tumhare bina and aur mein, the asr always in shell coming out only for you, love gave him the reason to. you gave him passive anger, cool, i understand, i even like. i think you're growing up, maybe ready to face your uncontrollable attraction for him even.

then you flip to comedy. reject all his efforts to make you happy, apologise in his way for the hurt he's caused. ok, you're giving it back to him.

but then he gives you what you want, in 5 minutes of utter beauty and memorable television. it was love and nothing else. the apnapan you wanted. how could the girl who had said to him hamesha when he asked can you hear me, do what you did to him?

you pretended you didn't hear. hamesha was what then?

then that confusing monologue. so you can't be happy when everyone is sad. but you can give him grief. spout holier than thou sentences on buying smiles. oh ok, he seems ready to put up with anything. maybe because he remembers that hamesha he said?

to further compound matters the loving good khushi now goes to give advice to bro in law. your fabulous take on that up there.

i do hope writers bring khushi back soon, the way they've tried to stay true to asr, the same thing for khushi please, she is a lovely character.  it is tough to develop her and sp nuns keep asking for sp-fication no doubt, but i am sure ipk won't let us down. 

baat sach ya jhoot ki nahin hai.
baat hai vishwas ki.

LOL 
thanks di!!! sorry have not been able to respond to ur beautiful posts...have read them all...yesterday thought of replying...had stepped out for lunch and reached home 5 mins before 8 as u said too late in the day!!!! yes di don't like the way she is being portrayed and guess everyone knows i rarely rant or crib...but somehow yesterday just could not connect with her!!! jaani na kintu for the first time kal mon ta kharab lag chilo!!!
loved what u wrote abt khushi specially @bold!!!! the last bit putting my vishwas on the cvs of giving khushi back soon!!!

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 5:25am | IP Logged
@shweta di loved ur post!!! Clap Clap

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 5:26am | IP Logged
Thanks Shweta,,,Hug,,,read ur post just now...fab post ,,logical as always,,,,

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 5:26am | IP Logged

Mou.. trust me.. it wasnt as easy!! LOL Thank you sanam! Hug

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 5:26am | IP Logged
Priya, what a Fantastic Crooner & that amazing quote with such an in-depth meaning Clap Clap 
 
A very pertinent question to the channel. The only thing which comes to my mind here is " Make hay will the sun shines " KBC starts in the month of August. So I can understand the need fr frentic promotions, bcoz once KBC starts the fall in TRPs is inevitable.
 
Coming to the subtext thoughts... The need fr parallel tracks. For a show to sustain itself fr 2-3 years, a decent side track becomes very important. As u rightly said Priya, it's a daily & it cant be Arnav-Khushi on screen all the time. But yes, the timing becomes very crucial here. The perfect time to explore these side tracks was during the kidnapping phase. And if CVs would have handled it wel then this DB fiasco would not have come up in the first place.
 
I had no issues with the Anjali or Payash track in yesterday's episode but going by the importance of the milestone episode, the screen space should have been limited.
 
I agree with u Priya, the CVs need to focus on Khushi's transformation in love & show her evolve from being a happy-go-lucky girl to a mature & rational woman. This is very crucial bcoz now this love story is about to step into a new phase of intensity & we wouldnt want the female character to back off citing immature reasons.
 
Now coming to the much awaited Khushi monologue. Yes Priya, the CVs ended up confusing the audience again. Simply bcoz the dialogues were quite condratictory & once again the audience couldnt connect with Khushi's true feelings. If she was not angry with him, then why reject his efforts?? If she feels that everybody in the house is unhappy & how can she celebrate, then why go ahead & suggest Aaaksh to go on a holiday?? When Arnav wished her Happy Birthday at midnight, she looked happy & satisfied, then why did she tell him yesterday that he couldnt bring a smile to her face??
 
Confusions galore Confused Confused
 
Lastly, another outstanding day at the office for our very own Mr.Perfect Thumbs Up 


Edited by amisuv - 19 July 2012 at 5:27am

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 5:29am | IP Logged
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Thanks Omoraboti *receiving the sash*Embarrassed'feels a bit intimidating but great to follow someone like you. Honestly I'm still in shock!Shocked  Thank you Priya so much! It always means a lot if someone likes what you write and then to be in the company of Indi and Shweta...I'm in cloud 9 flying right next to superman Big smile

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RIP Rajesh Khanna.

 
Recognition always brings added responsibility along with it - as my boss says. Tongue
 
Don't worry .. most of us are confused with Khushi. Confused Nk was at his peak yesterday .. so was Arnav. Loved the duo! Smile

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 5:35am | IP Logged
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Congratulations for a successful journey covering 300 episodes...this journey has been beautiful so far! Party

Congratulations GandhariHug

Amazing title and crooner Priya!!! Loved it...Kuch rishtey ajeeb hi dor mein bandhe hote hai! You were spot on the other day when you had said that Khushi had echoed the hatred in their story and t will be Arnav covering the love part. I remembered this as soon as Arnav smiled and said he knew what he had to do to win Khushi backClap Big smile.

I enjoyed the episode...for me, it was an episode where every character looked back at their own relationship with their loved ones. Everybody questioning what went wrong? where?!?

If there is anything lacking in Arnav and Khushi's relationship right now...it is communication. They havent yet spoken to each other...they havent yet sorted out their differences. Once they do that, there wont be any need to look back. But the lack of communication is taking a toll on them. that's their biggest drawback!!! when needed they rarely communicate otherwise both have enough to say to each other!!!!

Arnav is so used to having everything going according to his order that it is beyond his comprehension as to why Khushi is still unhappy!!! He cant fathom why he is failing at every attempt to make his wife happy. Aisa kya ho gaya? he is unable to read her mind at the moment. What is making it even more frustrating for him is that Khushi hasnt opened up to him. She hasnt told him what she feels, what the reason for her unhappiness is. While he thinks it is because he missed her birthday, the actual issue is something bigger than that! He hasnt even given a thought to the harsh words he uttered the other night because he didnt mean any of it! So he is clueless why his wife is behaving the way she is. Her withdrawal into a shell has made him determined to win her heart back. He will go that extra mile just to get his pagal Khushi back. I agree with you Priya, while a woman struggles to fit into a new family, new home, new surrounding, the husband has to ensure his wife is happy...how he chooses to do it, is his look out. There is no right or wrong way of doing it. Arnav Singh Raizada has chosen to recreate and rebuild his love story with Khushi with the hope to reach out to her heartEmbarrassedEmbarrassed I am so interested to know what Mr Nannav will do to please his lady love.. He has told Khushi he wishes to see her in the sari he gifted her Blushing. Cant help but think of their first rain hug.EmbarrassedEmbarrassed

Words once spoken cannot be taken back...Arnav has no clue what damage those harsh words have done to Khushi! Like you said Priya, those words have crushed her spirit. The spirit that didnt crumble  when Arnav forcefully married her has been crushed by the very man she loves the most. She was guilty for having put the family through so much pain...what she needed was some reassurance. Instead she was made to believe that she was the root cause of the problem and the biggest mistake in Arnav's life. While she appreciates all that Arnav is doing for her, she is unable to imagine why Arnav doesnt understand her pain...hello girl, for that you need to tell him what is running in your mind. It is time these two sit and iron out all the differences they have with each other. While I am cent percent sure that Arnav will mend his ways and make up for all that he has made Khushi go through, he is no antaryami. Arnav has no clue that Khushi is so broken from within...this message has to be conveyed to him verbally. He should be made aware that he cannot get away after hurling such harsh words at her and this is something only Khushi can do. 

Anjali is slowly getting out of her initial shock. She has started to question which in my opinion is a progress towards seeing the truth. The two men in her life cannot be wrong but in this case, she has no clue whose side to take. With time, she will get there. I am thankful she hasnt turned negative and hasnt yet openly blamed Khushi for the mess. 

Aakash needs timeoutAngry. Dude, go and do some introspection. He cant blame Payal for every thing! Yes, he may be hurt because she chose to hide the truth, but that doesnt mean he behaves like a kid. Angry

I am glad Payal is standing up for herself...she has asked Khushi to stay away from her problems (Hug for Payal). Knowing Khushi and the innate nature of the TV show bahus, she will never keep quietLOLLOL

Mr Hotwa was excellent yesterday...when is he notD'oh. The subtle changes in his expressions are so well done...something that only he can do!Embarrassed

Mr cutewa is just getting too cute...sari pehni..tumne nahi usne...kisine nahi pehniLOLLOL. I really hope he stays back in RM forever. I dont want him to go back.

I have nothing to say about the forum's outburst...Sleepy. I am here for Arhi and they dont disappoint me ever and I am more than excited to be part of their beautiful journey.

Note to the CVs: What happened to the water tankers? Kaam nahi kar rahe hai kya? Should I send new water tankers to your sets?CryCry
nishi...fab post!!!! loved ur take on arnav-khushi relationship and issues...yes anjali has started questioning...but her question of who is responsible is directly putting khushi in the line!!! i feel the actions and the thoughts will be given words soon!!!!
nishi like arnav-khushi...akaash and payal also need to communicate...they need to talk but don't think that's happening so soon!!! btw men ignoring their spouses when angry is common...personal experience!!!!LOL
waise good to see ki teri sui baarish par hi aatki hai!!!! aaj ka pata nahin but hope teri wish friday tak poori ho jaaye!!!LOLLOLLOL

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