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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:44pm | IP Logged
In this case it is very easy for Vikram to get divorce on grounds of wife's insanity. But he doesn't want to divorce his wife or tell Sugni the truth either - it's a case of having your cake and eating it too.

He's telling everyone that they should respect Sugni, but what he's doing to her will destroy her self-respect and destroy her forever. Not love in my dictionary.

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 3:12pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Chitrashi

In this case it is very easy for Vikram to get divorce on grounds of wife's insanity. But he doesn't want to divorce his wife or tell Sugni the truth either - it's a case of having your cake and eating it too.

He's telling everyone that they should respect Sugni, but what he's doing to her will destroy her self-respect and destroy her forever. Not love in my dictionary.
 
Exactly Chitrashi, TVS love (without divorcing his first wife and coming out clean himself) only degrads Sugni further. As Gulabiya said, why can't TVS just tell the truth and does Sugni's Sar dhakai, because in essence, if he marries her without divorcing his first wife, he is doing exactly what Sugni doesn't want to happen to her...

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 10:32pm | IP Logged
Awesome post Sara post

It's not hard to imagine being in Vik shoes cause we've all been there maybe not as extreme as Vik but we've all lied. Lies are like poison once you say it out your mouth it take's a life of is own. I remember failing a course and instead of telling my parents I hid the truth from them cause I didn't want to hear I told you so or have things taken from me as punishment. My fear out weigh my conscious. I succeeded after keeping a vigil on the mailman and intercepted the letter before my parents saw it. Like TVS luck wasn't on my side cause after six months my mom meet my teacher and learn how I failed and made of up the credit. Even though I got in  trouble but was so relieve when it finally came out. D'ohLOL

"Guilt is perhaps the most painful companion of death."

That is TVS state of mind right now he is dying slowly cause he's telling one lie after the other to hide the last lied he told earlier. Vikram has put in himself in a corner where there is no turning back even if he wanted to so the best thing right now it's for that secret to come out on it's own he's never going to say it and in the mean time his will eat at him every moment.

I don't agree TVS is having his cake and eating it too. Where is it written that people don't lie to people they love? Humans being always hurt the ones you love the most it isn't intentional but something things aren't in your control and you have to either find a solution or let it take it course and pray for the best.

I keep seeing  this word Divorce, but we're forgetting TVS is a Thakur not an ordinary man. These people are bind by code of honor that there WORD is suppose to mean something. We also don't know if divorce is even something that can be done in there society. TVS never betrayed his vows while his wife was alive and we can't punished him for falling in love a year after his wife supposing death. TVS has given Vachans before finding out his wife is alive what is he suppose to do with those promises when things are happening to fast and out of his control. There is no denying TVS lie has caused a relation to break and is wrong but this wasn't premeditated but due to circumstances this lie has cause more damage then he ever anticipated.

True love doesn't mean you stop being a human being, if that was the case you'll be Angel living in heaven and not down here on earth.




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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 12:54am | IP Logged
Awesome post pyar-ishk Clap  TVS is stuck in a terrible situation of his own making.  He intended telling Sugni at the right time but G's investigations forced him to keep on lying and now that he has caused a split between Mother & Daughter the guilt has begun eating into him, it is something he never dreamt of.  It is better for him to get it out of his chest, before causing more damage. it should not be hard for Sugni since he did not know his wife was alive.  He did not play with her all along.  Adi & Amrita together could convince Sugni of Vikram's sincereity too.

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 1:50am | IP Logged
 divorce is not easy now... may be VS would have thought about this but..  G created lots of thunder...  so now if he say to G ' ok fine i have a wife but i will divorce her'.. then defiantly G will say 'if u can divorce ur first wife for sug then what's guarantee u will not divorce sug for another girl.. and when  sug will know she  will also say 'please don't do this for me'..  so what he do ?...     

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 4:27am | IP Logged
Great comments and arguments and so well thought out. Just reading these posts shows we've got a show that leaves us thinking...
 
It is a complicated situation...in essence you cannot blame TVS...He never knew first wife was alive and living somewhere. She shows up and he's caught between the past and a possible future which he wants. He never wanted Sugni to know and perhaps the world would NEVER have known if Gulabiya was not determined to find out the truth. 
 
Now if TVS tells the truth, Sugni will be devastated...His best bet is to talk to her about his first wife and how she was mentally ill, the hardships and the loss. Eventually he should tell her the truth rather than take her mandir and marry her. TVS is a man of honor would redeem himself by telling her, his love for her is the truth but he cannot demean her into marrying her with such deception. He would rather lose her than for her to ever find out that he had wronged her in this way.
 
It is is far more fitting with the character of TVS who IS a Thakhur first and foremost. Then he will give her the choice to live with him as his second wife or to leave him.
 
Perhaps his luck will work in his favor and wife No. 1 will die or disappear once again...but I doubt it. Sugni and Vikram will be separated in about a week...and then we will have to waith three months for them to get back together...in the meantime they will give us smoe nice scenes with them until the big explosive blow up.
 
 

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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 4:38am | IP Logged
I wholly agree with you Laila.   TVS is first and foremost a Thakur and a man of honor he should tell her the truth. 
 
3 months separation i can tolerate but Adi-Sugni Jodi no way. 

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