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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 8:12am | IP Logged

Lady, you have voiced my sentiments to the T, I must say. The serial is yo-yoing for heaven knows what reason and the Forum gets all worked up. The disappointment is not with the serial for the past few weeks but the general trend, sure it started with a lot of promise and then, you know the rest.

Adding my two cents to your points:

Anjali – that is pathetic woman, to blame someone else for your plight, its crystal clear who is at fault and who is not. You are only allowed to resent Khushi for being the cause the effect it entirely SMJ and ASR's doing. If the two important guys in your life had not messed it up, you would not be in this situation. Grow a spine woman; you are infuriating to say the least. Did you hear your "Chote" complain when you went all mushy over your spouse, don't think so. Therefore in addition to the spine grow a brain.

Arnav- for all you intelligence you are really duh, with a capital D. You need to attend to the two important women in your life, both need attention and TLC at the moment, you need to strike a balance. Dude remember this mess is created by you with a lot of assistance from SMJ, had you a gram of common sense you would handle the situation better and not let your wife bear the brunt of the taunts at home nor ignore a fragile sister, for whom you did what you did in the first place.

Khushi- you are what 19, 22, 23 or 25, whatever the number maybe act normal, if you vacillate in this manner, we will sure go MAD. I can understand your plight and my sympathies are with you, but girl, really, you are acting silly. Now that he knows the truth and the complete truth, give him a piece of your mind and get over the habit of leaving sentences half completed.

Note – is it really so difficult to say "Happy Birthday", really??? Apologizing I can understand, some folks cannot say sorry but a harmless birthday wish, come on guys, be reasonable. Sorry that is a lot to ask off from team 4 Lions.

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 8:14am | IP Logged
Good to have you posting again Sush! Its slowly looses charm in certain episodes then comes back with a bang. What a freaking see-saw!

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 8:16am | IP Logged
Hi Sush , I read ur posts before n loved them too! I wanted to watch today's episode before posting here! Ya got the answer finally ! Though I know she is not doing all this for a B'Day wish alone,still wanted to make sure, as cv's always fail to keep kushi's character balanced. 
      But this time kushi Is doing something for herself, for her self respect! She is Not letting go off his faults so easily! She wants her share of  rights as  a proper wife. Though she said she is not angry with Arnav , she is for sure not happy with his words he said on the last night! 

     Now they started showing it  frm Anjali's pov More than kushi's?? I'm ok with Anjali's screen space as she is an imp character for the story to move on, but again not above kushi's pain! Kushi has gone through much more pain than Anjali, but they always failed to potray her pain! Hope they keep consistency with her character atleast this time n don't turn her into a clown.
         


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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 8:43am | IP Logged

Veeps...It is not about the SP bahu...I myself have told hubby dear that the ruby set he got for me did not please me as much for my B'day as I like a card from him when he takes a moment to write about his feelings...Which is much harder for him to do...

But a  sensitive person who is so emotionally tuned also understands when a person is trying and is gracious to thank them for their effort even if it is not exactly what and how you wanted it...Khushi's character gets half sketched before they pay attention to something else...and make her behave quite inconsistently...
 
Caring about a person is not only about force feeding them or telling them to eat their medicine...it is taking care of them emotionally too...
 
Chocobubble, Meens and Kalyani, Namita...agree with you...will come back...at work right now..


Edited by -Sush- - 18 July 2012 at 9:56am

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 11:26am | IP Logged
I think the fact is that Khushi cannot be happy until her family is happy. She is staying true to her character, family comes first. Until Anjali and Payal are happy in their lives, she will be happy too. For her she has never placed her happiness over others and unfortunately although Arnav is trying so hard to please her, he would win more points if he worked on his sisters loneliness and probably telling Akash off. The fact that he bought up the contract, makes her feel further constrained. Arnav should have let her go when she left. Khushi would have had to come back eventually unless she was to reveal the truth to her family. 

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:17pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by meens80

Hi Sush, good to see your post! Hope you had a good trip to IndiaSmile.

The ME TRP's don't really count; for a daily show the weekend offering is a bonus so to say and does not count in the week's TRP's. The average for last week was 3, which is not bad. Most of us initially got a heart attack when the week's TRP's were posted at 2, but that was a typo quickly clarified by SP and the PH.

About the current track; i don't think the fuss Khushi is making is about the Happy b'day declaration. Khushi is upset about Arnav bringing up the marriage contract and she is probably trying to distance herself so that she can leave when the contract is up and not be the cause of grief for the bro-sis duo. So it is either that or Khushi wants Arnav to open up to her; he certainly has no problem in hurling abuses and harsh words then why is he dumbfounded in expressing his true feelings even after they have come so far in their relationship?

About Anjali; i think she needs time to heal, period. Her reaction is exactly as expected; it has barely been a couple of days since her world has come tumbling down and now in her mind she thinks she is being abandoned by her beloved Chote; which is not true because Arnav is making every effort to strike a balance and keep both ladies happy and protected.

I think the biggest problem here is that we jumped into this family drama right after the end of the kidnapping track. If the CV's had given a couple weeks of ARHI romance, love and positive growth before dropping us into this "didi ki saut" angle so to say, the TRP and online audience would have been a lot more receptive to this track and the emotions of each character involved.

 
Hi Means,
I am not sure...but I think the TRP charts by independent rating agencies don't take an average for the week but pick a day at random and report TRP for the show from that day. Thats why TB is not changing the chart..because what they show is correct...ME is probably the day that was picked to rate IPKKND...They do it the same way for other shows as well...So it is fair...yeah...always a possibility that one show had a a really bad day when this was done...but if the show is maintaining interest ...should it plummet like that on a particular day?
 
Of course, SP and PH will never clarify this...and I trust their numbers less than numbers collected by independent rating agencies...but it is what it is...OK for some days and really bad for the ME...which should be worrisome for the PH...
 
In bold
The point you make about the reason for being unhappy make sense Meens...for a good communicator like Khushi...I would have liked her to say it..rather than saying I am not angry about that and then making a fuss about birthday wish...
 
About the timing of the romance and family drama...I on the other hand think that the Arnie bending over backwards for romance at this moment is not quite so fitting...Slow development of relationship and understanding could be better than Arnie acting like he is the Romeo of the Century...LOLLOLLOL
 
 


Edited by -Sush- - 18 July 2012 at 1:18pm
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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:24pm | IP Logged
I hate it when people start bashing Kh's character THE MINUTE SHE ASSERTS HERSELF IN THE SHOW - AND SAYS NO TO MR. ASR- Gee the reaction girls on this forum give when ASR is denied something! 

You r wrong in suggesting that Kh shud make sense. In today's episode while speaking to DM, she is VERY clear on what she wants - she wants ASR to realize his words were cruel and hurt her and NOT ALL THE MONEY HE CAN FLASH BEFORE HER WILL MAKE HER HAPPY IS HE HIMSELF IS NOT NICE TO HER- it has NOTHING to do with ASR being 'sensitive' or insensitive - she wants him to realize that he cannot treat the girl he loves this way, with disrespect, thrashing and accusing her and reducing her status by calling it a 'contract marriage'.

I am extremely proud of Kh today when she refused the absolutely gorgeous sari from ASR - she will dress for him when he dresses her with respect! GREAT JOB CVs! And even though I don't know where the redemption track has gone, still ASR doing goofy things to see Kh smile is nice - though Kh shud STILL push for him to accept his mistakes towards her last week.

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 2:04pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Kalyaani

Lady, you have voiced my sentiments to the T, I must say. The serial is yo-yoing for heaven knows what reason and the Forum gets all worked up. The disappointment is not with the serial for the past few weeks but the general trend, sure it started with a lot of promise and then, you know the rest.

Adding my two cents to your points:

Anjali ' that is pathetic woman, to blame someone else for your plight, its crystal clear who is at fault and who is not. You are only allowed to resent Khushi for being the cause the effect it entirely SMJ and ASR's doing. If the two important guys in your life had not messed it up, you would not be in this situation. Grow a spine woman; you are infuriating to say the least. Did you hear your "Chote" complain when you went all mushy over your spouse, don't think so. Therefore in addition to the spine grow a brain.

Arnav- for all you intelligence you are really duh, with a capital D. You need to attend to the two important women in your life, both need attention and TLC at the moment, you need to strike a balance. Dude remember this mess is created by you with a lot of assistance from SMJ, had you a gram of common sense you would handle the situation better and not let your wife bear the brunt of the taunts at home nor ignore a fragile sister, for whom you did what you did in the first place.

Khushi- you are what 19, 22, 23 or 25, whatever the number maybe act normal, if you vacillate in this manner, we will sure go MAD. I can understand your plight and my sympathies are with you, but girl, really, you are acting silly. Now that he knows the truth and the complete truth, give him a piece of your mind and get over the habit of leaving sentences half completed.

Note ' is it really so difficult to say "Happy Birthday", really??? Apologizing I can understand, some folks cannot say sorry but a harmless birthday wish, come on guys, be reasonable. Sorry that is a lot to ask off from team 4 Lions.


Love your rant! My sentiments exactly...
If only the CVs focused on Kushi... i have been waiting endlessly to see her character grow and evolve. BUT, the CVs seem to be hellbent on showing us how much she likes to butt into other people's lives. Seriously? Advising Di, advising Aakash, telling off hubby (and that too when she is not angry with him... that doesn't even make sense!). So, she can't be happy when Di, Jiji, Maami are not happy... which is why she is making Arnav the punching bag? Why can't she just talk to him about it, after all she loves to talk... We (IF members) couldn't figure out what was bothering her, how can she expect a man to even get anywhere close to guessing correctly?!! And, when she can celebrate her b'day with her family, accept ishes from Naani & gifts from Paayal & NK, why the sudden need to look don upon hubby dear who has done nothing but put so much thought and feeling into making the day special? 

Yup, Kushi, please me normal, you are driving us crazy.

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