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apathy of anandi for bhago is very much wrong (Page 2)

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 12:25am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sumreen

  she is fully aware that her parents financial condition is not good  
 
Her parents are actually quite wealthy now... and have been for quite some time,
 
they used to be poor ... then there was all the issues with the land dealings with mahavir singh...khajan went to jail... and when he came out Khajan and bhago were quite wealthy afterwards.
 
Infact, when anandi was shot in the head,  they had to make a Rs. 50,000 deposit in the hospital for her stay... and bhairon went forward to the hospital counter and tried to make payments to the accountant ... and khajan came up and pushed him aside and said that he will pay the Rs. 50,000 because although he had been poor before,  now he was khajan both by name and by monetary status LOLLOL ... and he took out the Rs. 50,000 from his pocket in notes and gave it to the accountant.  He told bhairon to get lost ... and also bore the cost of the entire brain operation of anandi ...lakhs and lakhs of rupees ... and would not let bhairon pay one red cent ...
 
After that,  when anandi returned home,  khajan and bhago did huge amounts of shopping for her ... all sorts of things they could not give her when she was a child ... clothes, dolls, vessels for the kitchen,  a motorbike for jagya etc... and they were going to jayetsar to give her all these gifts when they received news that dadisa has organized the second marriage of jagya to gauri (the child one)... at that time, several people from bilaria had come to their home to admire all the gifts they were giving to anandi.
 
Currently they are very well to do ... they are not as wealthy as dadisa,  but they are not hand to mouth like they were when anandi first got married.

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 12:28am | IP Logged
I think the absence of Anandi's parents in her life is more due to the apathy on the part of the CVs rather than Anandi's.Even if the actors are not available to shoot they could have shown that Anandi keeping in touch with her parents thru phone conversations or shown that she is visiting her parents from time to time through conversations.

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 12:28am | IP Logged
but then whatever she told to jagya that he does not care about his parents and is busy in his own life  is also applicable to her

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 12:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sumreen

but then whatever she told to jagya that he does not care about his parents and is busy in his own life  is also applicable to her
 
But she is talking from a social/cultural perspective of there being a difference between a boy's responsibiliy to his parents and  girl's responsibility to her parents. 
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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 12:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tinoo

I have always felt that anandi has a lot of covert hostility towards her parents for her child marriage.
 
She will never voice it outright ... but it is there ...  it was there in her speech when she won the award and she talked of parents who are so thoughtless about their daughters' futures when they get them married at young ages...
 
So while she sort of gives them the respect that is due to them because they are her parents,  internally she does not have those feelings for them... it is not just the child marriage part... but even later on... when she ran away in childhood because of dadisa's atyaachaar on her,  then too her mother had dragged her back and brought her back to the haveli  without bothering about what problems anandi was facing in her married family... and a few other instances like that...
 
She probably feels that her parents were just offloading her onto the singh family.  Her parents never once entertained any problems she had when she was adjusting to the singhs ... it is anandi's good fortune that sumitra always took her side when dadisa used to tyrannize anandi ...
 
I dont blame anandi for not calling her parents ... she doesnt have those feelings towards her...
 
I mean there is a clinical type of recognition that these are her parents ... so because of the person she is, she will give respect to them from that clinical perspective ... but I think emotionally she has been deadened to the prospect of her parents as parents.
Even I felt that was the case.She never thanked her parents in her speech.She knew that she could never turn to them for support.I think she has learnt at a very young age not to expect anything from her parents.
They  probably did whatever they did keeping the welfare of their daughter in their mind.They knew that their little girl is sensible and they  should have sat down and explained these things to her she would have definitely understood once she knew why they are doing all this. 

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:06am | IP Logged
Before lecturing Jagat to care 4 the feelings of parents,Anandi shd Hv thought of her parents...

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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:10am | IP Logged
I think the title sound track of Balika vadhu explains what Anandi feels about her parents.
Does any one know the lines?
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Posted: 18 July 2012 at 1:25am | IP Logged

It is merely a mistake of CVs', but not Anandi's or Singh's family.  Not only Anandi's parents but also Singh's own daughter and son-in-law were not there at award function. Does that mean Singh's family avoided their daughter? And so many characters were not there on the award day (a discussion went on in the forum about those people by that time).

The reason must be that all these actors might have gone to some other shows, so this sudden absence of them from this show. Now that, after Shiv's entry, the story needs Anandi's mother for a short time, they brought her in, that too in a dying condition so that they can end her character in this way. If the story needs Shyam or Suguna at any time, they would suddenly appear in the show telling that they were just back home from a long foreign trip or something like that.

But there should have been at least a telephonic contact between Anandi and her parents like they are doing with Sumithra now. 

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