Is not ASR wrong??? - Page 2

He isnt neglecting his sister. He's just ALSO giving time to the wife he has always wronged.  Edited by Fan_ipkknd1 - 11 years ago

don't forget ASR has just realised what Khushi has done for him, she has given him a second life and he has also realised he loves Khushi & hurt her badly, so naturally he will now give more importance to his wife, but at the same time he is equally concerned about his sister, he is certainly paying more attention to his wife coz he doesn't want to loose her at any cost.For ASR both the ladies are important,Anjali has the whole families support, but Khushi has only ASR/Payal/NK n Nani.Khushi is suffering to not only now but since the inception of the show, coz she is stronger n a fighter n doest shed tears at a drop of a hat everybody seems to forget her sorrow?Just coz she smiles all the time doesn't mean she is happy all the time?

I dont think what Arnav is doing is unnatural. He looks out for his sister. He has been shown to give her time. Just because in a 30 minute show they are not showing it doesnt mean its not happening. Like when she thought the flowers were for her and she wanted to keep them in her room. It was shown that he was walking with her. Plus Nani has assured him that she has someone with her most of the time. 

Honestly guys, in real life a guy is not capable of sitting and comforting a person.  We are not wired that way -- we can encourage people and tell them how to do things better or how to get better but we are not the type to sit with a person that is moping.

This content was originally posted by: ssilent

I am surprised that no one has objection about that ASR has almost completely neglected his sister  and her problem. he is not even realizing that she needs him right now. Is not he doing wrong. or brother sister love is so week andeasily forgettable??? 

He hasn't neglected Anjali, he still cares and loves her the same. 

Did he really neglect her? Just a day before he searched for his di everywhere when she left without telling anyone, he carried her to her room and Yelled at Khushi for his Di. He said things he shouldn't have said. Khushi is equally important in his life too. He completely shattered her now. So isn't it his responsibility to make up to her? Thats what hes doing and even in this he hasn't forgotten his Di. Did he not ask about Di in the morning? Didn't he ask her if she ate her breakfast or not??? So how is he neglecting her? A day hasn't passed when he didn't ask about his di. Edited by ..Kirann.. - 11 years ago

You know its very strange but no one would have asked this question if tables had been reversed! I am willing to bet the question would've been " Khushi shouldn't be ignoring Arnav for her brother"!

Yes Anjali WAS the most imp person in his life, she is going through a tough time, but surely Arnav can't be expected to babysit her 24/7? He also is trying to rebuild his marriage to a woman whom he loves and whom he has wronged as much as Shyam has wronged Anjali. If anything she has suffered much more than Anjali - first at Shyam's hand & then at Arnav's.

Surely Arnav has an equal if not more duty towards Khushi. Anjali has the entire family rallying around her while Khushi has almost no one save for Payal, NK in her corner. Even Arnav, despite everything, chooses to lash out at her!Edited by DMGFan-2b-not2b - 11 years ago

I think a brother like arnav is a blessing.he takes care of anjali in the best possible way,at the same time he is newly in love,and is trying to win his wife's heart.there is nothing wrong with that.im loving every episode!

Beside Anjali Arnave has a personal life too.. and pleasing an upset wife is no crime .. Khushi has been through soo much that only Arnav knows well... Arnave loves his sister but needs to be there for his wife too.