Whats wrong with Anandi? - Page 2

Originally posted by: elasingh

Agree completely. Anandi says to dadi that she is very happy in singh*s household.Doest she realise that she is taking advantage of them. Ds cant be with Jagia, Jagia gauri marriage unstable(all marriages need support system) ,Bharav Sumi are without their son. If Anandi had moved out immidiately once Jagia and Gauri married (irrespective of ds heart attack) situation in singh household would have been very different. I hope Anandi realizes this. Sees situation from different angle.

Why should Anandi suffer because of misdeeds of somebody else. As per this post Anandi is coming in between that spineless Jagya and his so called selfish living in mate's (Gauri is no his wife) happiness.
Anandi sacrificed a lot to get adjusted to the haveli and it's norms so she has all the right to do what she is doing now.

No doubt Anandi serves them and looks after them . Afterall she is styaying in their house with all comforts. Gauri never got a chance. All she did was to sit in her room and weep and insult singhs and in return got back insults. If she was solo bahu things might have been different.

On thhe contrary I want Anandi to be very successful and very happy with Shiv (very goodlooking). But I dont want Jagia and Gauri to suffer either. I want to see them happy too and why not. There is really no valid reason to make them suffer lifelong.

Originally posted by: monamie111

@ bold blue..

no i don think anandi is thinking that!! she knows it very well that she has no more relation with jaggya...in today's episode only she has mentioned that the relationship with jaggya is the "naam-ka-rista" now!!

she is thinking that shiv has said yes bcoz he pity her!! and also sha has fear that shiv will also break her heart one day like jaggya did!

also..i don think she has over reacted...it is not so easy to move on with someone else...

exactly but i think there is one more reason the way she told Shiv about Ashima...she will place herself in same situation ...she has been loving Jagaya for so long suddenly someone else arrived and her love separated from her forever ...Ashi has been loving shiv and know him before  he knows Anandi and  Anandi will think Shiv is rejecting  Ashi's feelings giving her pain and marrying Anandi out of sympathy for her ..something like that...Anandi is not Gauri being a woman she can never give pain to another woman and let her heart break 

Ok so when Jagya gave the sun locket as rishwat just to do fake marriage with gauri...remember that locket had dadisa's emotions were attached at that time he wronged dadisa and not Anandi.
All the time when he was fooling Anandi and Gauri together during his college times then too he was wrong...when he was young he fooled bhairo with fake
report card...I don't remember when he earned the right over haveli other than just being born there, in which too he was lucky enough to be born here...
Coming to Gauri...I don't think she is interested to live in the haveli with haveli people in it...she did challenge sumitra that she would keep him away from his family...so I think to keep jaggu and his living in mate happy all the haveli people along with Anandi should handover the haveli keys and property papers to Katira couple because jaggu's only achievement in life was to be born as haveli's waris...Edited by vrinda9183 - 11 years ago

[QUOTE=elasingh]On thhe contrary I want Anandi to be very successful and very happy with Shiv (very goodlooking). But I dont want Jagia and Gauri to suffer either. I want to see them happy too and why not. There is really no valid reason to make them suffer lifelong.[/QUOTE]

Originally posted by: elasingh

No doubt Anandi serves them and looks after them . Afterall she is styaying in their house with all comforts. Gauri never got a chance. All she did was to sit in her room and weep and insult singhs and in return got back insults. If she was solo bahu things might have been different.

As far Anandi being better then Jagia ,I think she is. No doubt abuout that. But stiill does Jagia deserve all these curses that are thrown upon him and Gauri.

  For me Anandi is just a character and she has her negative points too.

What to say what katora couple did with others...look at what they are doing to each other . This is what we call made for each other. Both seems to be competeing with each other to be biggest liar and biggest selfish

Originally posted by: Samanthav

Today's episode I felt that Anandi over reacted on Shiv and Ds... and she cant understand that Ds wants to see her happy. Anandi is thinking that she is married and cant do that again... she needs to move on...😕

 

  Hope she understands Shiv's love on her... 😊😊

Why anandi did this to shiv ? - mainly trauma, mind not allowing to trust a man again no matter how good he is, fear whether he too would change colours like jagya, thinking shiv is also cheating ashima just like jaggu cheated her . Her inability to trust a man again in short ... its true shiv told her a number of times he respects her, saved her from jyothi's place , cares for her but still she is not ready to trust him. Because her friend cum life partner jaggu who wrote letters to her everyday cheated her. He being a doctor and the one who heals the pain of patients had himself given pain to anandi . So she must have thought men cannot be trusted no matter whether he is doctor or collector.