Originally posted by megustajalebi
I'm a little confused. Are you saying that how some men feel about their place in the family (the sole bread winner image) is the fault of women, of mothers specifically?
Because that mentality is again the fault of the patriarchy and misogyny. This exists in western culture too, but not so much in the extent as it does in India. Even if men help out in the house, most women end up doing most of the housework and childcare by themselves.
you are confused because you are talking about tree...and i am talking about the seed of that treee...
sweet you wrote why a father figures not asked...and i am tlaking about the same father but when he was small or infant...i am tlaking about all the father figures kee how they devlop this thinking ke they shoould not do anythign at home and rest...why they assume 4rm the day one they are born kee when one day they amrry it will be their wife who will do the chores for him and will abide by his words and he will be whole and soul for her...and why the hell evry woman knows this is their future...wht woman cant think about the same equality with men...why cant they think ke if they come home their huby should help her i around with house hold work...lolzzz...thinking about when she comes home and huby might keep ready dinner for them,,,is like giving birth to alien...lolzzz..but why men easily knows and asumes for day one they are bron kee it will eb their mom who will be ready with fod whe he coems home be he working or doing velagiri out on raod with his frinds..how he knows he will eb served dinner or lunch with hot food...y this thinking for male??????? why??? why we female cant think????????? why?????
dear dont think about treee...or a grown man...think about seed...because the type of seed will decide how the tree will be...l8r as he takes shape its up to tree now from where he will grow...same kids how we want is (why only in hand of mother/?) in mother hands,,,,,,,, and once the kid is man or woman then they devlop their own thinking...