Actually I have not seen husband and wife working together in one team.. But yes I had a experience like that before my marriage.. .. πππ
Before our marrige it happened. We joined same team and we worked in a team. We hide the fact that we were looking for each other. . My profile was very impressive and higher management in project was impressed with my work. they had given me a golden piece of work and an another impprtant work to my would be. together both of us incharge of product delivery along with the team.
after a month our manager joined the company. He also wanted to make his repo in the company and hence he wanted to fetch some good work . Unfortunately h elike my work and he wanted to fetch that.. Now his tricks started .. But poor fellow could not understand the relation between me and my would be husband.. πππππ that is where he faiiled.. ππ
and what happened was my manager, started having ego with me and started pampering him. .. He used to take him for lunch , for tea, and all lot of things, many time manager used to share his feelings for me ,(Ofcourse which were bad ), He also used to share his plans how he would defeat me in next meeting .. and So on .. ππππππ
My wpould be was the fav team member of manager. He used to compare my work with his work, and used to make me feel low. Manager used to consult him that he should leave my company otherwise I may spoil his image in higher management.. ππππ
My would be use dto tell me all the things. We were very good friend in team.. and all of us use to make fun of him in his absense.. ( Now this is common at wokrplace , He was the hot topic of ours at tea time .. )
Every body used to think us close friend. Surprisingly no body could make it out..Only one HR manager could make it out. But one fine day manager really misbehaned with me He shouted at me very badly.In return , I blaseted at him infront of entire floor, and resigned on spot. I did not agreed to take my resignation back. ( ofcourse I was looking for next good offer.. π and he given me the chance)
Then lot of enquiry were conducted on him because reaosn of my resignation was very open.. My would be husband had also not left him so easily. Lastly after 3 months That manager resigned. The stupid guy came to know on last day of his employment that we were looking at each other. ( HR manager told him ππ) In his next company My husband had to provide a refference check for him.. πππππππSince then he appologies to my husband like nothing. ππππππ.. OMG I still remember , the day his refference check was to be given, He called my husband and said : How is madame .. π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
My husband had also joined a new company , after delivering their product, He still calls my husband some times for some work, and we laugh like nothing at him.. when ever we all team members meet , we can not stop laughing on him . He is like a default topic of laugh with in us. But my husband is mature, he manages professional relation still with him..
Though we handeled the situation very intelligently and he could not introduce any misunderstanding between us, But then we decided that we will not work together in a team untill we we work for our own business. Since then we work seperate and feel free at home..
Edited by akvats01 - 11 years ago
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