Originally posted by: janvis70
Disgusted is all I can say...what was the point of the last scene yesterday...Ashu is shown to be far more manipulative than Mallika...his behaviour was outright disgusting today...he threw a crumb in the form of a hug yesterday to make sure Ndihi did not leave him...and today he wears the air of a martyr to show the extent he is willing to go to please Nidhi...he knows fully well that Mallika is bound to create a scene...and he is betting on Nidhi melting in the face of it...and of course, she does...and tomorrow he will try and make Nidhi happy by offering her a couple of more hugs...is intimacy a sort of currency for barter for this guy...I so dont want to see that scene...cause it would make wanna puke...I dont think I can respect this man irrespective of what happens next!
Originally posted by: Blushsarika
Thanks for the WU Tanu ji,
I don't think Ashu's behaviour was odd today , he was behaving like any normal person will behave in this situation. In the previous episode Nidhi hugged him , ashu just stopped her with tears in his eyes . If we see things from his side ,he is the one who is defeated from both the sides .
Today he was feeling sad because he can't help Mallika when she needs him the most , on the other hand Mallika was with him when his baba left him and he was alone and depressed.
Today I found him preoccupied with the thought of Guilt , his intention was not to hurt Nidhi , he was expecting his Wife to understand his feelings , he even made her understand by giving the examples of Rohan and Anjie .
But he was not successful.
He was dissapointed with Nidhi.
But it doesn't mean he was emotionally blackmailing her.
Things could be interpreted in this way also.
Even Nidhi's step of leaving the house was a sort of emotional blackmailing , she knew that he loves her and will stop her as well as will fulfill all her wishes
rangie part was interesting today
And here i thought Nidhi stopped Mallika out of goodness of heart βοΈ...she had NO choice..Ashu has gone to super sulk mode πand the next violin scene is going to be coz Nidhi did as he wanted her to do..he is like some spoilt sulky kid..."won't talk to you unless you give me my toy"..once the toy is given the kid dances with joy!! π€’
Character assassination of Dr Ashutosh is complete..can't watch the epi any more!!π€¬
Same here, after today, not going to watch. They are not delivering what the promised!! This is not a love story, but a grown man walking all over his young wife. Disgusting!π
Thanks for your wonderful update to this tedious epi. π Seriously just watching it tired me out today! So, the Ashni truce did not even last for half a day! Are they truly newly-weds?? π
To analyze Ashu, lets go back to the four back-to-back scenes.
1. Ashu stops Nidhi from leaving, he cannot imagine life without her and loves her the most. But, looks like they still did not discuss what they were going to do with Mallu, even though Nidhi pointed out that Mallu's obsession was their main concern.
2. Ashu visits Mallu who is sleeping. He sees her shivering, maybe she is recollecting Jagan, so he tries to console her, but pulls his had away remembering what DB and Nidhi say. He is hurt, but that gesture is an acceptance to himself that Nidhi's assessment is correct. Yet, he does not share Mallu's experiences Nidhi.
3. His half hearted apology to Nidhi, which sounded more like a reluctant acknowledgement that her diagnosis of Mallu was spot on and his assurance that he will act on it was delivered without any expressions on his face. He also agreed that Nidhi had equal rights in this house, so he effectively threw the ball back in Nidhi's court.
4. After that he refuses to talk to Nidhi, the famous silent treatment. He even goes to the extent of calling HM to push him and ignores his morning tea as well. Again with that wooden expression he delivers his decision of sending Mallu away, letting Nidhi know in no uncertain terms that he was not happy with his own decision.
So, what do we make of this guy? Only that CVs have diluted his character to a great extent, just so they can deliver that knock-out punch when Mallu's true colors are revealed!
But, there could be another reason. Remember, long ago, when Nidhi as an intern handles the pregnancy case and Mallu wants her dismissed for insubordination. But Ashu is impressed with her doctoring and defends her by stating that she had the potential to become a brilliant doctor. This line has probably come back to haunt him now. When Nidhi stated her assessment of Mallu, Ashu did not like it. Then in Mallu's room he accepts the truth to himself, but again in front of Nidhi he is not forthcoming in his apology or thankig Nidhi for opening his eyes. So now maybe his ego is hurt that Nidhi assessed Mallu as a doctor should and for the very first time in his life he did not act like a doctor and let his friendship blind him. Maybe he did not like Nidhi, someone so junior and with so little experience outsmart him in his own field, medicine. Now, Mallu is not oly his friend but has become an ego issue for him and he wants to prove Nidhi wrong! Or punish Nidhi for being correct?
When Mallu heard she was going out with Ashu, that made her happy, she had a small smile on her face. Then the final part with the ambulance drama, where once again she boldly staked her claim on AShu in front of Nidhi saying she will die and her was her 'dawa' all hiding behind her sickness. She is using the very same words he told Nidhi and in front of her! Once more her clarity of thoughts was amazing, just like on that parapet. She promised to get well soon and not trouble anyone! How can everyone just believe her, no one, not even Nidhi, even suspects her?
Anu (Libra), can I say I told you so, Mallu's recovery after this will be amazing, miraculous even! Ashu, for his part was really sadened that he had to do this to his friend, the only one who stood by him in the past, but now he was unable to return the gesture. This emotion from him was truly honest, he was sad and guilty at the same time. Maybe he expected Nidhi to stop him when he informed her and BB that morning but she did not! But the fact that she actually put the brakes on this drama at the last minute did take him by surprise! That feeling was genuine too!
Originally posted by: janvis70
A very interesting take on Ashu's ego being hurt on professional grounds...I sincerely doubt that KP is barking up that tree though...
On Nidhi stopping Mallu...you may be right that he expected Nidhi to comply with his wishes earlier...but, subconsciously, he knew very well what would happen...while there maybe outward surprise, he can surely exult inwardly on his wishes being granted and being proved right on Nidhi once again...even if not willfully or consciously , he was certainly skillfully manipulating her to dance to his tune...starting with the indifference from the night before...a man who is astute enough to do this fails to recognize the heavy toll that Mallika's behaviour is taking on Nidhi...am surprised...or is it simply a case of seeing only what he wants to see!
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