Surabhi and this is not to particularly only for one fan group. Tm just asked about us opinion on this matter. I don't know why only one fan group taking this things so personally where there is no refrence are written in topic as gaury fans or anything else.
Originally posted by: SiriuslySujalIMO Gauri was traumatised. She was quite young, and I get the feeling that seeing all the rona dhona and shouting and probably hearing all the stuff about how her parents lost their honour in the process must have affected her at least somewhat, albeit subconsciously. She didn't want the wedding to go through because she wanted to study, but when it didn't, the mud-slinging aftermath must have left her feeling quite used and vengeful. Human psychology is very complicated... you never know how things can affect you. Some people bounce back from horrible events, and others are deeply affected by things that may seem like they should be trivial. When she saw the haveli again after years, she was shaking like a leaf. For a long time, she was desperate to get the acceptance from the Singh family that she had been denied in her youth, despite probably knowing that it was illogical for her to want that. Both those reactions definitely imply that she was traumatised by her broken-off child marriage.
I think she deserves some sympathy for the stuff that happened. However, I don't think she deserves sympathy for her actions as an adult. Childhood trauma is not an excuse for selfishness, and marrying an already married person knowing full well that she was going to ruin another girl's life in the process (another girl who, by the way, was nothing but nice to her when they met as children even though she had every reason not to be) is an extremely selfish act which shouldn't be defended.Just my 2 cents on the matter!
@red-Originally posted by: payalibm
exctly my point - where is bhairo or any of singhs or anandi responsible for the traumatised child hood of gauri..infact all the bad word or mouth came out from her own parents and she was shaking like a leaf seeing haveeli after so much time is clear indication she was badly in trauma..but why ... because her own parents left her their on that noght unprotected and all lightning and bolting and rain and storm...OMG!100% any oen would be hell bent scared that way and she was mere 12years old...i rember my daughter got hurt in my batroom which is nothing but full of glasses evrywhere and that night she was closing gate and she got badly hurt when one galss fal down..she has to undergo an operation and for more then 3 months she wsa in bed complitely..so the point is she just couldnt enter in that room of mine for ages..it tuk me and my huby lots and lots of patience to send here their and encourage her to go their and be stop scaring of any glass...because it was miracle afer her ankels been cut till bone she survived and could stand up..for more then year she was baneed to even walk fast...so i know what can traumatised child and so truly said by sujal it can be triggered by any small to small matter...but its also truth by love and care and patience it could be outgrowna and can be termed as a bad dream..which now my daughter her self calls and now all fear free og glasses and nwo she lolzzz..dosent want to take bath in her batroom but only in mine...so why gauri parents didnt do anything about it...huh!because they were busy collecting money..not thinking about their daughter and they themself inflicted pain on their own daughter...where as in al this where is bhairo is responsible..infact its other way around...yes gauri had undergon pain of bashing words and all but bhairo funding helped her diverting her mind complitely and puting all effort on studies and see now she is dr. that too with MS..its not a small achivement...so how can bahiro or singhs or even DS responsible for her traumtaised childhood...yes DS did wrong but she dint bash the girl like she did to other woman of her home..in fact anandi had a bad cildhood wiht all that stupidness of DS and her rules and backwrdness thinking...she shuld be trumtised...but she is so humble and good and beautiful from heart and so supporting and most important the pain of others...but here gauri is complete opposite...how come❓
Originally posted by: SiriuslySujalIMO Gauri was traumatised. She was quite young, and I get the feeling that seeing all the rona dhona and shouting and probably hearing all the stuff about how her parents lost their honour in the process must have affected her at least somewhat, albeit subconsciously. She didn't want the wedding to go through because she wanted to study, but when it didn't, the mud-slinging aftermath must have left her feeling quite used and vengeful. Human psychology is very complicated... you never know how things can affect you. Some people bounce back from horrible events, and others are deeply affected by things that may seem like they should be trivial. When she saw the haveli again after years, she was shaking like a leaf. For a long time, she was desperate to get the acceptance from the Singh family that she had been denied in her youth, despite probably knowing that it was illogical for her to want that. Both those reactions definitely imply that she was traumatised by her broken-off child marriage.
I think she deserves some sympathy for the stuff that happened. However, I don't think she deserves sympathy for her actions as an adult. Childhood trauma is not an excuse for selfishness, and marrying an already married person knowing full well that she was going to ruin another girl's life in the process (another girl who, by the way, was nothing but nice to her when they met as children even though she had every reason not to be) is an extremely selfish act which shouldn't be defended.Just my 2 cents on the matter!
Originally posted by: sushiani@red-
even i asked the same point in the post of ankit long backyou know the answer i got is, "it is quite common in villages to sell their children "i feel the root n main cause of gauri's trauma(so called😆) is antaryami parents
Originally posted by: payalibmexctly my point - where is bhairo or any of singhs or anandi responsible for the traumatised child hood of gauri..infact all the bad word or mouth came out from her own parents and she was shaking like a leaf seeing haveeli after so much time is clear indication she was badly in trauma..but why ... because her own parents left her their on that noght unprotected and all lightning and bolting and rain and storm...OMG!100% any oen would be hell bent scared that way and she was mere 12years old...i rember my daughter got hurt in my batroom which is nothing but full of glasses evrywhere and that night she was closing gate and she got badly hurt when one galss fal down..she has to undergo an operation and for more then 3 months she wsa in bed complitely..so the point is she just couldnt enter in that room of mine for ages..it tuk me and my huby lots and lots of patience to send here their and encourage her to go their and be stop scaring of any glass...because it was miracle afer her ankels been cut till bone she survived and could stand up..for more then year she was baneed to even walk fast...so i know what can traumatised child and so truly said by sujal it can be triggered by any small to small matter...but its also truth by love and care and patience it could be outgrowna and can be termed as a bad dream..which now my daughter her self calls and now all fear free og glasses and nwo she lolzzz..dosent want to take bath in her batroom but only in mine...so why gauri parents didnt do anything about it...huh!because they were busy collecting money..not thinking about their daughter and they themself inflicted pain on their own daughter...where as in al this where is bhairo is responsible..infact its other way around...yes gauri had undergon pain of bashing words and all but bhairo funding helped her diverting her mind complitely and puting all effort on studies and see now she is dr. that too with MS..its not a small achivement...so how can bahiro or singhs or even DS responsible for her traumtaised childhood...yes DS did wrong but she dint bash the girl like she did to other woman of her home..in fact anandi had a bad cildhood wiht all that stupidness of DS and her rules and backwrdness thinking...she shuld be trumtised...but she is so humble and good and beautiful from heart and so supporting and most important the pain of others...but here gauri is complete opposite...how come❓
Originally posted by: katts
@red: To explain why they both are different, is like explaining 'why a terrorist and a social activist are different'😆 Human mind works differently for each one of us... most importantly they are opposites because the director and the story demands so😆😉
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