When marriage is sucessful?

Poll Question: when arrangemarriage is sucessful?

Poll Choice	Votes	Poll Statistics
when love is developed after wards .	1	[7.69%]
when two family from same culture	2	[15.38%]
when both of them follow their culture	0	[0.00%]
when both respect each culture	10	[76.92%]
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phjs

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Posted: 08 June 2012 at 2:27am | IP Logged

this question is related to yeaterday episode.where paulomi had done mistake in vaishnav parivar.i think it is very difficult to adjust with culture and rassam of completely different culture families join to geteher by arrange marriage or love marriage.couple has to sacrifice a lot.

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Posted: 08 June 2012 at 2:36am | IP Logged

for me it would be respect for sure; not just in arranged marriage but in every kind of relationship (by blood/ by marriage/ by profession or any other) respect and understanding for the other will always take you far ahead and helps make that relationship a success...but obviously the respect for the other has to be from both sides! great post Big smile

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roseheart11

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Posted: 08 June 2012 at 2:43am | IP Logged

respect ...then love...love develops frm respect and understanding between the 2.

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unniknairtcr

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Posted: 08 June 2012 at 6:11am | IP Logged

adjustment,patience,sacrifice,etc,etc,make a marriage successful.

but in this story,yasodha is a bit too much.i think.dont know what others think,

yasodha rules everyone in that house.her hus,MIL,noone has any voice over her.that s not a good thing to watch.

she is loving caring,everyone respects her.but still ,,,,,,,,in the cake matter,paulomi made a mistake.but she apologized to her MIL.but her behavior was such that, paulomi s mother left that house.

i think,yashoda wants a daughter in law,who obeys her orders without any qns.

sbh1

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Posted: 08 June 2012 at 6:18am | IP Logged

no i hink she wants bahu who is pasand of krish but also follows culture ,ethics rules of family.if not both of things satisfied she will not go for bahu.krish choice is first crieteria for her.she say s krish can go out of house and marry paulomi if she donot follow rules of family.

nuttycleo

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Posted: 08 June 2012 at 6:54am | IP Logged

Hmm...there is sooo much to a marriage n at times the cultural backgrounds can make contribution to how a person thinks, Bt cannot b the sole reason for success or failure of the marriage itself, arranged or otherwise!
As stated above, respect towards ur spouse n family members is vital to any marital success. I personally feel that the ability to give the other person benefit of doubt n quickly getting over any misunderstandings also help in cementing the bond. Of course...being patient n selfless helps...Bt we are talking real life here n with every passing generation, patience levels are going lower...so well...watever works for ppl is good enough!

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