Originally posted by: tinoo
heth singh made a supposedly crude joke about women and their place and i didnt understand.
can someone explain please -- he said if lughai goes in baraat then she comes out a bride?
what does this mean?
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lolzzz...u made me go more then 10 or 12 yrs back memory lane with this q...lolzzz...their was marige after a long spam of more then 20 years in family...my cousion bro..eldest one on our generation ,we all were geting ready to go in marige..lolzz and people in our small viallge\town were having shok and all...seeing them doing kana fusee and all..talking and making faces and specialy females around...we ask them whats hapening(as we all 14kids of our family study in hostel..so we came from hostel just to attend this marige)
grand father explaind - female never goes in marige function,what he said we couldnt belive...exctly what heith sing said..we asked him wht does it mean and he replied ke if female goes then we will come back but wihout your bhabi
we again asked - howcome...
and he explained... female always puts there heads where not necessary..they always complaint...they cant control their tounge and more over about the dowry...he said male..elder male in famlies use to go see the place or home and fix the marrige...thats it...females were never asked nor consulted nor knows whats going on around excpt the eldest female at home whome even male has to adrees and should tell about their moves and thinking...she the one who contols the whome home...and her belif is what evryone ahs to care for and have too also belif...right or wrong no one is allowed to utter even think .\ above that female...so he said if they attend marrige then 1st tou they will behave uperhandedly ke they from male side...and evry house has their own tradition and methods of cermony and its female parents right to do howeva they want till female is not their daughter in law..means till mangsindoor ke rasam...and lolzz.as cant control the tounge of female they will do their chapr chapr in small small rituals which can lead to some great arguments and even can stop the marrige...and what was so funyy kee..female hads to cover their faces with their dupata whic was on theri head and this covering has to eb till chest..😆..lolzzz...so was like kese kee bahu kou lay ayaa yaa koe bahu yaa bete chalee ayee tou...lolzzz...female knows their husband face is such a big deal as they ahve to always keep tht paalllaa in front ...he was like i myself dont know how they know other members of family or how they walk or do work or serve...and many more intresting facts...but one thing which really hurted him about all this ke whats the mistake fo females...if one think they did all this then its coz they are illitrate...and we males are responsible for this uneducation of females ... and its true a female is always a the own who is enemy of other female coz she is the one who cretes hopa hopa if a female gives birth to female and not male and all...lolzz but he said his wife and our grand maa was educated and knew all this is nothing but bullshit so she was the 1st one in our town or village who let the female join the function and attend marrige..so that this can be stoped saying ke female if goes will never let marrige happen and the grrom will come empty hand and she opend the schol for female to be educated and not go thru this type of ghatiya so called traditions...so we are going and they not liking it btu as we belong to one of the major in town so they cant come in open and say anything so thts y they doing kana fusee
i dont know if i have created hopa hopa or helped any one but i wrote entirely what i listened ages ago from my grandfather..i am sorry if i ahve hurted any one feelings..i jsut wrote what i experinced...
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