Whenever Jassi has given her committment she has kept it.Be it to armaan,to Gulmohar or to anyone else.I don't know why any should be suspicicious of her intentions with Purab.

U r right love_jassi.....Jassi has always stood by her commitments....but her actions of late are becoming rather inconsistent so one couldnt be sure of anything......

also its not so much the fact that Jassi will run away with armaan but the fact that it has been concealed from Purab.....if she honestly felt that what she was doing was right then she wouldnt have felt so awkward......

Moreover, the issue here is not Jassi's motives......(she was coerced into meeting armaan and she has explained to amrit and bebe that she wants his blessings) the issue is that when u r in a relationship u have to think of things from ur partner's point of view too and jassi hasnt done that......should she have told Purab, everything would have been different......

       She did tell Purab and she didnot think the matter was that important that she needed to tell him by force.As far as she goes,she and Armaan share a professional relationship and she also is gr8ful to Armaan personally.She doesn't need Purab's permission but nevertheless she asks for his advise and she is not so conniving so as to think what Purab is thinking when she is saying this or saying that or that her actions maybe taken otherwise.That's her beauty.She trusts people and expects them to trust her in return.If she had the suspicious nature of an ordinary girl or if she was scheeming person in anyway then it would have been different.nor she shows any intention of hiding anything from anyone - Purab,gang,Amrit,Bebe........anyone

      TODAYS EPISODE proved it.She is very innocent and takes life as it comes.Being intelligent doesn't mean scheming and conniving as well!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

I know you did not mean it literally, however I think you can say the same thing in different way. Right now, it comes across crude. It would be treated harmless in, maybe, a forum where we can be sure that the readers are 18 years and above. Also, depends what kind of forum you are in. However, here we have many that are below 18 plus the forum is such that use of such language stands out, but not for a good reason. Also, you would agree, if we are lax with the language used here, someone else might post something more offensive. So yes, we want to keep this place clean and not use such language.

As for your comparison of ASS to B*M, I took 'ASS' as in 'donkey'. Also, ASS is a mild way of saying it, if you know what I mean. It has no 'sexual context' whereas your above statement does have a sexual meaning to it.

Edited by Ashwirya Shetty - 27 October 2004 at 6:27pm

your right love_jassi. Jassi is a very trustworthy person and a very sincere girl. But the reason all doubted was becuz these days she does so many differen tthings and things we would have never expected her to do. All I wish is that she doesn't ditch purab and run of to A.S(S)... because then she'll really get on my nerves.

agree!

 

I am confused are you saying that jassi is using Purab as just a buffer!! she still loves Armaan but he is someone who is beyond her reach.

If yes then her decision to continue her relationship is a majboori!!! It been loaded on her!! Well there we certainly have a well confuse girl. She better makes up her mind. If according to you she is using a guy as a buffer for her own security of future.

And ohh isnt it great that you assumed that he doesnt love her. What do you want him to do?? sing it to her??

Jammy.

       Jammy,she has made up her mind about marrying Purab.What do you want her to do?Suddenly have amnesia?Forget everything?

       Jammy,it's not a sin to love someone and marry somebody else if the love is not reciprocated or is unsuitable for marriage.In Jassi's case,as far as Jassi knows,it's both.So why are you thinking of her as someone evil?She is not making any scheme to hurt Purab.

       Arranged marriages work on these principles.My brother-in-law got married to a girl who had a serious affair which broke down due to parental differences.The guy still loved her & wanted to get married but it finally didn't work out.My bil knew all about it but he still chose to go ahead with the marriage.Only a handful ppl in the family knew abt this.She also consented but those of us who knew abt her also knew how painful it was for her.I beleive they had a platonic relation for the first few months.It's been 8 yrs now.They are extremely happy.My Bil is no saint( he has the foulest of tempers and a real showoff) but he is also one of the finest person I know.She in turn really worships him.Whether she loves him as much as she loved the other guy,no one will know.But she went into a marriage with a baggage and made a success out of it.

      You seem to have a very poor regard for girls who love someone else before marriage.Girls do give a lot when they love someone but that doesn't mean they are cheating the other guy.They are just moving on and that is the best course that can be taken in such a situation.

So Purab fans can say Ass but Armaan fans cannot say B*M?  Hmmmm.  Interesting.  Sorry but I take Ass as someones buttocks. 

I knew you would take the side of Purab fans.  AS USUAL.

I have read many swear words on the shout box including the F word.  How come that was not dealt with?  Was it cos they were swearing at Armaan - of course that is permitted here!

BTW you could have sent that post as a PM!
Never mind I have been driven off this forum as have alot of Armaan fans.

Thanks for your unbiased nature.

Great moderating!

BYE