Originally posted by: jammy
I am confused are you saying that jassi is using Purab as just a buffer!! she still loves Armaan but he is someone who is beyond her reach.
If yes then her decision to continue her relationship is a majboori!!! It been loaded on her!! Well there we certainly have a well confuse girl. She better makes up her mind. If according to you she is using a guy as a buffer for her own security of future. 😕
And ohh isnt it great that you assumed that he doesnt love her. What do you want him to do?? sing it to her??
Jammy.
Jammy,she has made up her mind about marrying Purab.What do you want her to do?Suddenly have amnesia?Forget everything?😆
Jammy,it's not a sin to love someone and marry somebody else if the love is not reciprocated or is unsuitable for marriage.In Jassi's case,as far as Jassi knows,it's both.So why are you thinking of her as someone evil?She is not making any scheme to hurt Purab.
Arranged marriages work on these principles.My brother-in-law got married to a girl who had a serious affair which broke down due to parental differences.The guy still loved her & wanted to get married but it finally didn't work out.My bil knew all about it but he still chose to go ahead with the marriage.Only a handful ppl in the family knew abt this.She also consented but those of us who knew abt her also knew how painful it was for her.I beleive they had a platonic relation for the first few months.It's been 8 yrs now.They are extremely happy.My Bil is no saint( he has the foulest of tempers and a real showoff) but he is also one of the finest person I know.She in turn really worships him.Whether she loves him as much as she loved the other guy,no one will know.But she went into a marriage with a baggage and made a success out of it.
You seem to have a very poor regard for girls who love someone else before marriage.Girls do give a lot when they love someone but that doesn't mean they are cheating the other guy.They are just moving on and that is the best course that can be taken in such a situation.
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