The 6 months cooling of period in India sounds great in theory, yet the truth is that it works only if BOTH the people want a divorce, there is no conflict regarding children/money/property AND if the judge is sensible. Judges actually refuse divorce because they feel that divorce is immoral. Yes, it actually happens.
Heavens forbid, if you file a case on the basis of extra marital affairs or violence, you will be stuck in the courts for eternity ... And if only one person wants it, then forget it. You will never get a divorce.
My cousin was beaten up by her husband and his family yet she went with mutual consent divorce otherwise she would have never been rid of them. It still took a year. And they kept all her jewellery/cash/shares. She could have contested, but that would have meant that she would have still been tied to that scum. So she thought, forget the money, let me just save my life.
... the mumbai high court, a few days back refused a divorce plea. Both parties wanted it, the guy had a transferable job... they had not lived together for years and he was getting transferred again and they were both fed up ... The judge said that a wife should be like Sita (from the Ramayan) who followed Ram to vanvaas for 14 years ... this is the actual statement of the judge ... Yes, this is the HIGH COURT of the country
So, i'll take the quick drive through type of divorce any day ... at least women don't end up being tied up to monsters and finally buckling down to Societal pressure which increases more the case prolongs.
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