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Posted: 02 May 2012 at 1:52pm | IP Logged

exactly the point i have been raising since the whole EMA fiasco.. its Anushka for throwing herslef on Pardeep but he is an adult and knows the difference b/w right and wrong.. no one forced him to do anything and he is a loser...

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Originally posted by Ambrosia

The kids fell into this mess the day Pradeep chose to keep his relation with Anushka a secret. It's their father we are talking about.

We shouldn't be looking at the present but the future of the kids. What Mona is doing is fighting for her child's future. If the kids don't suffer now and fight back, they will forever deal with Anushka who doesn't so much care of their wellbeing. Even if Mona keeps her children out of this and leaves them at someone elses house, will that not affect their future? Ofcourse it would! What if something happens to Mona and Praedeep then what happens to the kids? At the moment Mona is fighting to put her home together not for her, but more for her children. She doesn't want to give those kids false hopes that their father will come back to them. Instead of lying she is telling them the truth and being her child they are fighting back and helping their mother in this mission. I think that's what any child would do.

I'm not against the kids living with Pradeep and Anushka. I thought that was a smart move for two reasons 1) The kids have a greater right to that home than Anushka does and 2) Anushka should know what it's like to replace Mona.

However telling the kids to acts like brats and lie in order to taunt Anushka seems wrong to me.

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Posted: 02 May 2012 at 11:13pm | IP Logged

I agree that the children should live with Pradeep for a while to show him that he has as much a responsibility towards them as the mother. In fact the last few episodes, if you exclude the silly Anushka-harassment tactics, have focussed on this. I like that Pradeep went along with Anushka to Rano's school to apologise and did the major part of the cleaning up himself.
The part that puts me off, though, is the kids behaving like brats to harass Anushka. Blame it all on the stupid MIL. Dead

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Posted: 03 May 2012 at 8:20am | IP Logged

Originally posted by blyton

I agree that the children should live with Pradeep for a while to show him that he has as much a responsibility towards them as the mother. In fact the last few episodes, if you exclude the silly Anushka-harassment tactics, have focussed on this. I like that Pradeep went along with Anushka to Rano's school to apologise and did the major part of the cleaning up himself.
The part that puts me off, though, is the kids behaving like brats to harass Anushka. Blame it all on the stupid MIL. Dead

I agree with you. I don't understand why the kids are asked to act as brats to harass Anushka. They are going the biwi no 1 way, where the kids and their pet dog annoyed Sushmita to the point that she started crying out of frustration.
The MIL probably wants the kids to annoy Anushka so much that she leaves the house and Pradeep's life for forever. That way Pradeep will have no choice but return to Mona. I dont see what good will come out of this Ouch

I wish Mona would have gotten a job and proved herself to be a capable mother and a business woman. That would have been so much more worth it..
I hate the silly stupid games they are playing to annoy Anushka. They are going the comedy way Confused

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Posted: 03 May 2012 at 11:10am | IP Logged

I agree that the kids ought not to be asked to behave like brats, but then they should not be asked to be on their best behavior either - which is what Mona did. So far I've not seen the two younger kids do anything that a child their age wouldn't do.

It is perfectly normal for a 5 yr old to request assistance with his bottoms. Such young children need adult supervision even if they are toilet trained.

Rano asking for paper and getting confused, or playing with her food is again a completely normal behavior for a 8 yr old. The girl has just had a fight in school, she's been thrown out of school and instead of being reassured and comforted she's being treated as a burden and a nuisance. Of course the child will get into behavior that attracts attention to herself.

Where the eldest girl is concerned - she's supposedly 10. Old enough to know and understand what is happening. Is it unreasonable to expect this child to be spiteful? She is going to retaliate at the person she sees as responsible for the breakup of her secure home environment.

Usually, children from broken homes are far more confused and bratty than the Singh children. Mostly, they are either totally introverted and withdraw from all social contact or they are obstinate and demanding and complete brats.

I don't think the MIL wants to drive away Anushka by asking the kids to forget their mother's instructions. She prolly just wants Anushka to realize the difference between between a full time mother and a visitor who spends 5 minutes with the kids out of an hour long visit.

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Posted: 03 May 2012 at 12:17pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by Chitrashi

I agree that the kids ought not to be asked to behave like brats, but then they should not be asked to be on their best behavior either - which is what Mona did. So far I've not seen the two younger kids do anything that a child their age wouldn't do.

It is perfectly normal for a 5 yr old to request assistance with his bottoms. Such young children need adult supervision even if they are toilet trained.

Rano asking for paper and getting confused, or playing with her food is again a completely normal behavior for a 8 yr old. The girl has just had a fight in school, she's been thrown out of school and instead of being reassured and comforted she's being treated as a burden and a nuisance. Of course the child will get into behavior that attracts attention to herself.

Where the eldest girl is concerned - she's supposedly 10. Old enough to know and understand what is happening. Is it unreasonable to expect this child to be spiteful? She is going to retaliate at the person she sees as responsible for the breakup of her secure home environment.

Usually, children from broken homes are far more confused and bratty than the Singh children. Mostly, they are either totally introverted and withdraw from all social contact or they are obstinate and demanding and complete brats.

I don't think the MIL wants to drive away Anushka by asking the kids to forget their mother's instructions. She prolly just wants Anushka to realize the difference between between a full time mother and a visitor who spends 5 minutes with the kids out of an hour long visit.

I agree the kids shouldn't go out of their way to be on their best behavior either. It's natural to harbor animosity towards a parent's girlfriend/boyfriend. However, they are going out of their way to be brats, and that's not right either.

It's possible that some five year old children need assistance to go the bathroom. However, the boy could have also gone to Pradeep. Peeing on the kitchen floor is utterly disgusting.

Rano deliberately played with her food when Anushka was on the phone and to pester her. It was fairly obvious. But that's just childish behavior and I wasn't even that bothered by it as a viewer. However, taking Anushka's documents and drawing over them or making planes out of them is unacceptable.

If anything, they need to be pestering Pradeep instead of, or at least in addition to, Anushka. After all, it was Pradeep who rarely appreciated Mona's dedication towards his children. He's their father and it makes more sense for him to own up the responsibility of taking care of the children than Anushka (a woman who has no experience with kids). But instead the show is making fun of Anushka's lack of capability and why? Because she's a woman.

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