Pradeep Has Done Nothing Wrong!! - Page 3

fine... let pradeep give divorce to mona... that woman deserves someone much better than such a spineless losser...
let hi stay with anushka or whom so ever he wants to. afterall the marriage was forced on him, n he never wanted to marry mona.

but wait a minute... wht abt the kids... 1, 2, 3 kids... 3 CHILDREN'S.
did some1 forced him to have THREE kids with that WIFE of his whom he never ever loved.
and now whn he hav at last found his so called REAL love, why is he talking abt supporting the kids financially...
Cant he for once be a Man and say he will keep the custody of the kids. why Mona should look after the kids? cant his Real Love Anushka do so.

i so want mona to send all her kids, mother in law n father in law to anushka's house. just like they had shown in the film *biwi no 1*

then that pradeep will realize his mistake.

I agree that 1 has full right to live their life. But when it comes to family, you have to remember the promise that you made to your wife. The Seven Promises! You also have to remeber the children. Need to know that what they are going to go through when they find out that  person who they respected the most has bad qualities. I am not saying that once you have a family, your life just ends. Pradeep has full right to live his life through his own way nd find happiness.  But he has no right to hurt the woman who supported him for his down moment. He also has to remember that Mona left her house, family to come and stay with for rest of her life. And this is how you treat her? Anushka came just yesterday (figurely speaking) while Mona was their to see every turn of Pradeep's life. Anushka left Pradeep to achieve success while Mona became housewife just for Pradeep. Anuskha forces Pradeep what to do while Mona makes Pradeep understand the truth. If divorce happens then not only Mona but evryone else's life is going to get ruined. After what Pradeep did to Mona, I don't care if Pradeep's life gets ruined or not. [Pradeep can only see Anuskha's lust not even love. Pradeep does not have any love for Anuskha but it is actually his lust. If I was in Mona's place, the first thing I would have done is to get divorce asap. I would not want my kids to be under bad influence.

I feel sorry for people that are in Mona's situation. I am a stay at home mom for the past 5 years, but Thank God I have a masters degree, Although financially my contribution is not necessary, I would not want to find myself in Mona's position begging the guy to stay back.
Hopefully they will show her going back to college and becoming independent and kick Pradeep to the curb when he comes back to her. 

Pradeep's reason to get rid of Mona is wrong - plain wrong. Infidelity...shame on him to have physical relationship with another woman when he has a loving wife at home who has given him 3 kids. And then hiding the fact that he is iin relationship with another woman. Just because he is growing up the corporate ladder does not mean you give away with your family. He is growing up in his career in wrong way - by sleeping with his boss and saying "I love you". What happens when his boss is tired of him and throws him out in search of other green pastures - will Pradeep still say "I love you Anushka" ? Anushka left him to pursue her studies and do something big, so what is the guarantee that she will not do the same again.

see i would agree with you, if they had a horrible marriage, but Pradeep was happy in his marriage. IT's not like they were fighting everyday and living a miserable life. They were happy. So what he is doing right now is just infatuation, which will die soon enough. He is just getting carried away with the success and new life style. Once Rush of success wears off, he will come to his senses. Edited by dazzelll - 12 years ago

lets see...

frendz saubaat ki ek baat kahon
a wife and husband can take divorce but not a mom and dad
yaar pati patni divorce lesakte hain lekin ek maa bap nahin
pradeep jo bhi kar raha hai woh accha nahin kar raha hai woh khoon ke asoon royega when he will start to realise it will be too late and it should be too late and mona should not accept  him😛😲

Originally posted by: blyton

I In my eyes, Pradeep's greatest fault is not in having an EMA but in lying about it for SIX MONTHS and admitting it only when he had no possible chance of hiding the truth anymore. The second fault is that he thinks only FINANCIAL support is enough for his kids. Let him and Anushka take responsibility for the kids for just one week. Then they will know.
 
I would not like to abuse Anushka for all this. As  manipulative as she is, it's not she who is answerable to anyone. Pradeep is, and he can't escape the flak for what he has done. People are hanged for following their heart when it doesn't even hurt anyone else--take honour killings for example. Then why should Pradeep be exempted for throwing four innocent lives to the winds?

Blyton, loved the red highlighted area...what you say is very true...but how would Pradeep be punished...in real life the most punishment that one get is paying alimony...I mean we all have seen divorces all round happening, but we not necessarily hang them nor we stigmatize them, esp. men..how are Men who are guilty are of punishment? Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago

Pradeep is absolutely WRONG, COWARD, and INCAPABLE and SELFISH.

Since when is having an extra-marital affair not wrong?  It may not be legally wrong, but it's morally wrong.