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Journey of being together - In Pain !!! (Page 3)

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Posted: 11 April 2012 at 3:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Justlikethat1

That was a very beautiful postClap
Did not watch the episode but I can imagine Aham's anger LOL He does react with anger doesn't he? Tongue
Although I can see their relationship grow multitudes, there is one thing that is missing in their relationship. Sharing pain completely.. Especially from Gopi. Aham does share his confusion and anger but he also does that partially not letting Gopi completely into him. 
Gopi never shares her pain. If Aham insists she does give him a very vague answer that confuses him than solving their problems.. This communication gap in their relation needs to be filled. 
Even today seems to be a perfect example. Both do not realize the extent of being silent with each other. Again wise old woman Naani meant exactly this. When two people are this shy, it is going to make it difficult for them.. 
Aham is going to realize this very soon.. With Anitha coming back, unless Aham talks to Gopi, he is going to face a huge task.. Tongue
Agree Harini...because both are worried about each other's reactions & feelings & they still have distance to cover in their relationship, they hold back communicating each others feelings & thoughts...& since so far both have not seen the other suffer because of that, it has been fine...but this communication Gap will be the one which come to the fore when much bigger things happen in life & the future of their elationship is based on it ...hope time gives them another opportunity to work on this aspect of their relationship before it is 2 late !!!

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Posted: 11 April 2012 at 3:14am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Dhabu89

Ahem and Gopi both love their family. And both would do anything needed to make sure the family stayed together. When Ahem came out of the bathroom and ignored Gopi, it wasn't out of not wanting to reach out to her...it was more frustration as Navya said...he like to be in control of everything around him...Loved this episode because of the family and its unity was really prominent today 

Fantabulous post Navya and very well analyzed.
Thank you Rupal Wink !!!...agree it is their individual personalities at fore...but a marriage cuts across this over period of time , living & understanding each other & when time comes, hopefully they will also be able to do that !!!
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Posted: 11 April 2012 at 3:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by westindian

Great post.  He needs to know she will always be there for him, in happiness or in pain/sorrow.Clap

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Thank you West Indian Wink !!! Well Ahem knows that very well  & also his happiness & sorrow are also now based on her !!!
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Posted: 11 April 2012 at 3:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by angl143

Well said Navya! Clap  The relationship that Gopi and Ahem share is somehow being halted by each others reservations to get even closer to one another.  It is disheartening that the CVs didn't use this opportunity in this track to push both of them towards each other by exhibiting each others vulnerabilitys through their sorrow and despair.  It would have created that need to take comfort from each other and share in each other's pain.  Ahem's anger was maybe justified as he felt that he was losing control and for once in his life he didn't he have the solution to the problem! Gopi understands Ahem's anger, but the fear of his anger is what sets Gopi apart from him.  As everyone is saying, why didn't Ahem take comfort in Gopi's arms when he was troubled? The problem may not be  in his comfort level with her, but maybe the fact that he is the elder son of the son of the house, and he felt that he should fix everything that is going wrong as its his responsibility and he may have felt frustrated at the time. In that frustration, he forgot there was someone else in the corner of his room also suffering silentlyCry.  Hope it made sense. ConfusedEmbarrassed
Thank you Kshama Smile !!! 
 
Thou Gopi knows about Ahem's anger, he has over period of time, got her to be comfortable with him...& yday she did not reach out to him because of the dilema she was facing & not because of fear of his anger !!!

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Posted: 11 April 2012 at 3:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by snsaufan

Thumbs Up as your analysis is spot on! Clap
we saw all 4 husb-wife relationships in the Modi house.. the elder 2 communicated..raji calmed each other..but GoHem still have a distance they need to overcome..
he took out his frustration by getting angry and she by pretending to search in the cupboard and taking peaks at him...
Thank you snsaufan Wink !!!
 
 
Every relationship has some strengths & also areas to work on...& for Gohem it is reaching out & letting other partner know about your feelings & this also comes with being close to each other !!! So far both have not shared their pain with each other completely & suffered within themselves but the day they realise how the other partner is also suffering because of this they both will start to work on this area immediately so as to strength their relationship & be thr for one another Smile !!!
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Posted: 11 April 2012 at 3:39am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Aish3003

So true!

I was waiting with baited breath when they started showing each of the couples one after the other... I knew Gohem would be last... And I was hoping he would say something to her... atleast remove his frustration but he was quiet but brilliant acting by Nazim... loved the way he threw the file!!

Brilliant Post.
Thank you Aish Wink !!! & agree with you Nazim blows breath & feelings so easily into our Ahemji WinkSmile !!!
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Posted: 11 April 2012 at 3:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ShaunSA

Was a very short scene but once again your analysis was spot on navya! I had hoped that aham would ask gopi about the matter. He knows she knows something that he doesn't. Was a golden opportunity for them. But cv's let it slip away. Guess they really dont want rashi exposed anytime soon.
Thank you Shaun Smile !!! Just waiting to see how Ahem will react today when he knows Gopi was part of the plan & did not share it with him !!
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Posted: 11 April 2012 at 3:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Srilathalolla

Hi I Like your analysis and yes you have to express your feeling to your loved once or else there will be always a gap in the relationship what ever might be the relation and mainly when it comes to a Husband and wife sharing is the only way to communication and Ahem need to work on it and I think Gopi also need too. 

Thank you Srilatha Wink !!! and agree with you that both need to work on sharing each other's feelings with one another & also reach out to the other not only in happiness but also in sorrow !!!

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