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What exactly does Sandy feel for Suraj?

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Posted: 10 April 2012 at 6:57am | IP Logged

Okay, you can joke if you must, but am trying to be serious. Stern Smile

Love?  Respect?  Pity?  Duty? 

None of the above? 

Just likes to sleep on that floor? 


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Posted: 10 April 2012 at 7:03am | IP Logged
@Rumeladawn :  when you say responsibility... wifely duties? just washing his clothes, making sure he eats, sleeps ?
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She says she respects him (several times a day), so she must respect him... Respect is a good start

She knows the meaning and importance of marriage, so she is bound by the promises of marriage...Duty and responsibility is also a good thing

She cares for his health, well being, shop, family, so she has some sort of affection for him...Affection is good too

The above was enough for simple Suraj to call it love...But for Sandy??? No...This is not "love" enough for her...

I wonder which message from heaven she's waiting for...Confused

Perhaps she read a lot of M&B novels or watched a certain love-hate starplus serial and is waiting for her dil to go dhak-dhak in his vicinity, a certain "Oy waaay" song to start and have Suraj mistreat her before "feeling" love?Tongue Isnt the wonderful "Tu suraj main sanjh piyaji" track good enough for her? LOL

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Posted: 10 April 2012 at 7:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by navyaalex8

She says she respects him (several times a day), so she must respect him... Respect is a good start

She knows the meaning and importance of marriage, so she is bound by the promises of marriage...Duty and responsibility is also a good thing

She cares for his health, well being, shop, family, so she has some sort of affection for him...Affection is good too

The above was enough for simple Suraj to call it love...But for Sandy??? No...This is not "love" enough for her...

I wonder which message from heaven she's waiting for...Confused

Perhaps she read a lot of M&B novels or watched a certain love-hate starplus serial and is waiting for her dil to go dhak-dhak in his vicinity, a certain "Oy waaay" song to start and have Suraj mistreat her before "feeling" love?Tongue Isnt the wonderful "Tu suraj main sanjh piyaji" track good enough for her? LOL

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she says she respects him...okay.
affection? hmmm...I don't see a lot of that.
definitely no dhak dhaks...I sometimes need a stethoscope to check if she has a pulse...although recently she was more lively.
duty...yes.

i'm wondering if one day she'll find his lack of formal education will make her resent him.

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Posted: 10 April 2012 at 7:20am | IP Logged
Good post Hiral...
 
We are not exposed to Sandhya's POV regarding Suraj yet but her actions so far has shown  all that the above posts have mentioned and  that she has a sense of responsibility in this marriage
 
She cares for Suraj enough to bear all of Bhabho's mistreatment to keep him from getting hurt...
 
She actually loves Suraj and has has grown attached to him and cares deeply for him which is the reason she is still in that house...
 
But I am a romantic and so feel that Sandhya has fallen in love with Suraj but maybe she is just taking all of life's challenges as a test where she feels the need to excel and keep trying until she reaches that excellence in results...
 

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Posted: 10 April 2012 at 7:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Juna04

Good post Hiral...
 
We are not exposed to Sandhya's POV regarding Suraj yet but her actions so far has shown  all that the above posts have mentioned and  that she has a sense of responsibility in this marriage
 
She cares for Suraj enough to bear all of Bhabho's mistreatment to keep him from getting hurt...
 
She actually loves Suraj and has has grown attached to him and cares deeply for him which is the reason she is still in that house...
 
But I am a romantic and so feel that Sandhya has fallen in love with Suraj but maybe she is just taking all of life's challenges as a test where she feels the need to excel and keep trying until she reaches that excellence in results...
 

@bold :  that may be right... but how does she know she has reached that level of excellence? There are no marks here. This is where she may be going wrong. This is life...and matters of the heart...not some challenge.


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Posted: 10 April 2012 at 7:24am | IP Logged
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i'm wondering if one day she'll find his lack of formal education will make her resent him.


She says it doesnt matter (when preeti made her speech to bhabho) but most people would find it a stumbling block... But she is not "most people"...She's more strong willed than many...A bhabho in the making (with more refinement and polish of course)...Maybe then Suraj will love/like her again ...Ewww

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