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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:07am | IP Logged
Originally posted by misty85

Originally posted by ashish.sachi

Originally posted by -Rinky-

[QUOTE=misty85]@hrsriks, Rinky: I fe

I don't think , it is possible now , even if both wants.


There can be only two options now :

. Rishi goes completely away from Indira's life for sometime , so that she can realize herself.

. Rishi Marries Indira , and takes her away from SN. May be they rent a house & live there.

I don't think so... doesn't a good couple (hubby-wife) are also good friends?... friendship is one thing which you can start at any point... I know they've gone much ahead...but still neither indu nor rishi opened up to each other... they kept secrets (this is applicable more to rishi)... where as indu never considered his point in decision making...
Your this point also reminds me of one of the marriage vows in hindu marriage system which says that from now on wards we (man & wife) will stay together like best friends.

I am not saying that they cannot be best friends.

I am saying they cannot be just best friends only. Even if they try , the old spark between them will come out sooner than later.

It is now not possible the situation like in Jan , when Indu applied in Matrimony and discussed with him like friends. The situation , just cannot return to that now.

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ashish.sachi



I am not saying that they cannot be best friends.

I am saying they cannot be just best friends only. Even if they try , the old spark between them will come out sooner than later.

It is now not possible the situation like in Jan , when Indu applied in Matrimony and discussed with him like friends. The situation , just cannot return to that now.

Ok... I agree with you on this...LOL still I feel the actual problem is lack of proper communication...why didn't Indu told him about vidhit... If she trusts him why doesn't she open up... I think after the case is over both indu & mandira can be good friends...after all both have suffered a lot.Smile... par abhi kuch keh nahi sakte kyonki mandira pe itni asani se bharosa nahi kiya ja sakta.

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Rinky-

I am still not convinced in the romantic relationship between her and Rishi...Cause now Rishi is unempoyed, has no family responsibility...can he juggle being Indira's aid/lover and also his own life life later? he currently has no other job but to be with her, what will he do later? 

I feel this person has lot of potential... it's simply that he doesn't want to do any thing...like he didn't want to catch the ball in childhood... if he decides something he can do it... I think Indira has become instrumental in bringing a sense of responsibility in him... on the other hand I want rishi to become instrumental in bringing the other soft side of Indira... & he has been successful to some extent.

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by misty85

Originally posted by -Rinky-

I am still not convinced in the romantic relationship between her and Rishi...Cause now Rishi is unempoyed, has no family responsibility...can he juggle being Indira's aid/lover and also his own life life later? he currently has no other job but to be with her, what will he do later? 

I feel this person has lot of potential... it's simply that he doesn't want to do any thing...like he didn't want to catch the ball in childhood... if he decides something he can do it... I think Indira has become instrumental in bringing a sense of responsibility in him... on the other hand I want rishi to become instrumental in bringing the other soft side of Indira... & he has been successful to some extent.

Perfectly said Misty.Tongue

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 8:27am | IP Logged
Indira built these strong thick walls around her emotional self in this 8 years that it is 
not easy for her to develop friendships with anyone . As Rishi rightly said,you need to
tear through her hitlerpan to read her heart which as of now Rishi could do quiet well.
Ishaan and Amma can provide emotional support but are not of her age.

I believe friendship is an integral part of any true and healthy relationship between a couple
and unconditional love can cure any grave wound.It would surely help her overcome all of
her demons and in accepting love which would further help her embrace life happily and not
live in despair.


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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 10:03am | IP Logged
like like like to everypost here- my like button not working.

my two paisas - there are two things here i felt

the past- why  is indira the way she is? rude /obnoxious / extremely rule based and the future- what should she do to be ...fine and normal ? happy? and indira doesnt seem to ve a present of her own

indira dad ditched the family- but none of the others in the family behave the way she does with him including munna- we are yet to see vidith.but why?  because they all accept weakness in a human being which indira cant?  maybe but  this isnt i feel the reason for her being hitler- she once told munna- mere hitler bannne mein sabse bada haath aapka hain. if the dad dies/disappears its the eldest son who takes over. its more to do with munnas  irresponsibility than inder s betrayal- her becomming hitler.

Just consider - if munna had been responsible, she would ve completed her education, worked and contributed to the familys income . her brother would ve taken care the various bills and grocery.
she would ve hated her dad, mistrusted men in general but the constant stress of being the bread winner would be shared. she wouldve still slapped ppl who she felt was wrong but she would ve continued to smile perhaps at ishaan and sunaina atleast. and if love/romance came its way, she would have tackled it better than slapping the guy 100 times.

BUT, munna being munna , none of the above happened.

she doesnt like being the head of the family. she dislikes it but she hesitates from leaving the  responsibility just to prove to herself that she s not like her dad /munna.she has a scorn for these men munna lesser than her dad thats what makes her count every paisa she earns and spends on them and tell them everytime- does a father tell his family everytime they eat that hes paid for it? or a mother tell 100 times the amount of ime and energy she spent on cooking to her kids? but indira does that- and ppl dislike it. im not blaming her, she should make them realise but in a better way.

and now the ques of do what she needs? for what rinky?

the first thing my mind thought of was money.

to be continued..Smile and i completed in page 4




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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 10:24am | IP Logged
Again what a wonderful post ji and I can see from Where Its coming !Embarrassed I m glad finally I made to comment here !Chalo let me go on with mine one !LOL

Well All I feel is she needs the basic love,compassion and affection Which shes missing in her life like anything  And thats what end up making her the so called HITLER Which I believe shes not as all.She just be like being under such circumstances.The source of that emotions could be and any one a Lover,Friend or Father.Well I feel Rishi could be her friend But currenyly I feel hes not the one a Friend.hes that special one for her still shes not quite opened up with him some where.Rishi provided that bits of love and support many a times that the reason she end up liking him and eventually loving him too.Well For a girl like Indira Values and own made decisions matters the most.Still she kept aside all those sake of Rishi.I feel that was enough to prove she really loved him.The question Why she always asked Rishi to share her responsilibites and other questions.I feel She was in vain emotions from long.and suddenly Rishi came Filled up that vain inside her.asking those things to him as indirectly a questions that will he be with her ever or He be like the one The others in her life who left her just like that.Thats my point of view afcourse.
about her Friend out side SN I always wondered Indu was been in school,collage or at work ! I wonder that was not a single real friend of her .I really wish she gets some one to open up her heart.May Vidit could be a one .


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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 10:25am | IP Logged
Hi Rinky... Just read you thread

one word for it wonderful Clap




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