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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 3:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by misty85

Nice post Rinky. Well I feel  jjkg has raised some good points. Indu might have grown up but still she is insecure from inside. It reflects in her behaviour.
I agree she needs a friend... but where to find such a friend. Amma was her biggest support system who was also her good friend... but thanks to CVs she has disappeared from the show... Ishaan also understands her well but he is too small but talks big for his age that too because of rishi's influence on him. We are thinking about vidhit also but his condition is not that good. I'm not even sure about his character... he seems not so strong...& we can't expect him to be very strong after a series of problems which he underwent in his life... if he emerges that strong it would be like superhuman quality...
Coming to rishi... he has provided her support in all conditions as a friend & lover both... still Indu never opened up to him... though she loves him she never became friendly with him... so trust factor is missing... but it's not her fault completely...
Still I feel rishi can also become her friend... & no external force is required.


Agree with you.!!!!

If Rishi is not a friend, what is he? He loves Indira but at no point of time did I see him make physical advances towards her. Once or twice he was just trying to tease her but he has been such a friend!!!!  Such a gentleman!!!

He has been with her in all her problems at all places at all times!!!

Coming to Indira (please, I am not bashing her character here, just trying to analyze a bit),

I really doubt if she truly loved Rishi. Time and again I get this doubt. When she first proposed
to him did she only want a person who was prepared to share her responsibilities? It looks like that.

She is worried about him, fearing that he will break her trust ( he has lied to her, soo I can understand this!!!). But in love, the first question you need to ask yourself is :

"What can I give to this relationship?" (Indira seems to ask Rishi everytime.. what can you give for this relationship?). (maybe the fact that mentally she is the angry 17 year old is forcing this behaviour form her)

With this mindset, the very foundation of love gets shaken. Rishi has shown time and again what he can give for this relationship. Indira's turn is overdue.

I don't entirely blame her like a lot of you have correctly pointed out. Maybe she can just take him as a friend for now and allow the relationship to build. I always thought she was too too fast in proposing marriage. (both times).  Again the need to have a companion who can share her burden seems to be topmost in her mind.

If she needs a friend, I don't see why she needs to look beyond  Rishi. She need not think about love or marriage. Over time, her feelings for him might become stronger and she might appreciate what he means to her...

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 3:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by hrsriks

Originally posted by misty85

Nice post Rinky. Well I feel  jjkg has raised some good points. Indu might have grown up but still she is insecure from inside. It reflects in her behaviour.
I agree she needs a friend... but where to find such a friend. Amma was her biggest support system who was also her good friend... but thanks to CVs she has disappeared from the show... Ishaan also understands her well but he is too small but talks big for his age that too because of rishi's influence on him. We are thinking about vidhit also but his condition is not that good. I'm not even sure about his character... he seems not so strong...& we can't expect him to be very strong after a series of problems which he underwent in his life... if he emerges that strong it would be like superhuman quality...
Coming to rishi... he has provided her support in all conditions as a friend & lover both... still Indu never opened up to him... though she loves him she never became friendly with him... so trust factor is missing... but it's not her fault completely...
Still I feel rishi can also become her friend... & no external force is required.


Agree with you.!!!!

If Rishi is not a friend, what is he? He loves Indira but at no point of time did I see him make physical advances towards her. Once or twice he was just trying to tease her but he has been such a friend!!!!  Such a gentleman!!!

He has been with her in all her problems at all places at all times!!!

Coming to Indira (please, I am not bashing her character here, just trying to analyze a bit),

I really doubt if she truly loved Rishi. Time and again I get this doubt. When she first proposed
to him did she only want a person who was prepared to share her responsibilities? It looks like that.

She is worried about him, fearing that he will break her trust ( he has lied to her, soo I can understand this!!!). But in love, the first question you need to ask yourself is :

"What can I give to this relationship?" (Indira seems to ask Rishi everytime.. what can you give for this relationship?). (maybe the fact that mentally she is the angry 17 year old is forcing this behaviour form her)

With this mindset, the very foundation of love gets shaken. Rishi has shown time and again what he can give for this relationship. Indira's turn is overdue.

I don't entirely blame her like a lot of you have correctly pointed out. Maybe she can just take him as a friend for now and allow the relationship to build. I always thought she was too too fast in proposing marriage. (both times).  Again the need to have a companion who can share her burden seems to be topmost in her mind.

If she needs a friend, I don't see why she needs to look beyond  Rishi. She need not think about love or marriage. Over time, her feelings for him might become stronger and she might appreciate what he means to her...

maybe she did propose too early...but Rishi also asked for marriage during the phase she was looking for a dulha (in a week)...Another problem I have with Indira Rishi relationship is...I wonder if Rishi's love started out of sympathy for her...or is it his need too to have a family...like she does...

love between two people who are trying to fill some void by being in a relationship can prove very destructive...

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 3:30am | IP Logged
@hrsriks, Rinky: I feel indu needs to restart her relationship with rishi again from friendship...

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 3:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by misty85

@hrsriks, Rinky: I feel indu needs to restart her relationship with rishi again from friendship...

completely agree Thumbs Up

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 4:25am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Rinky-

Originally posted by misty85

@hrsriks, Rinky: I feel indu needs to restart her relationship with rishi again from friendship...

completely agree Thumbs Up


Very nicely put. Infact it is the best time because Rishi hid two major things from her. Both those secrets ( his real identity and Vidith's condition) are out  now. So he has nothing to hide.
So they both can restart as friends and help each other, by genuinely caring for each other. Over a period of time, their friendship I am sure will blossom into love.. and this time it will be very strong.

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 4:44am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Rinky-

Originally posted by misty85

@hrsriks, Rinky: I feel indu needs to restart her relationship with rishi again from friendship...

completely agree Thumbs Up

I don't think , it is possible now , even if both wants.

They already have gone way ahead with their relationship , and it is now next to impossible to start afresh from friendship.

There can be only two options now :

. Rishi goes completely away from Indira's life for sometime , so that she can realize herself.

. Rishi Marries Indira , and takes her away from SN. May be they rent a house & live there.

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 4:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ashish.sachi

Originally posted by -Rinky-

Originally posted by misty85

@hrsriks, Rinky: I feel indu needs to restart her relationship with rishi again from friendship...

completely agree Thumbs Up

I don't think , it is possible now , even if both wants.

They already have gone way ahead with their relationship , and it is now next to impossible to start afresh from friendship.

There can be only two options now :

. Rishi goes completely away from Indira's life for sometime , so that she can realize herself.

. Rishi Marries Indira , and takes her away from SN. May be they rent a house & live there.

I don't think so... doesn't a good couple (hubby-wife) are also good friends?... friendship is one thing which you can start at any point... I know they've gone much ahead...but still neither indu nor rishi opened up to each other... they kept secrets (this is applicable more to rishi)... where as indu never considered his point in decision making...
Your this point also reminds me of one of the marriage vows in hindu marriage system which says that from now on wards we (man & wife) will stay together like best friends.

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 4:57am | IP Logged

No one in Sharma Family understands Indira's pain...n... I think this is a root cause of many problems in her life. She feels that no one loves n cares 4 her. Her past experiences with men in her life like her father , her brother (Munna) n 2 some of the d extent  Rishi also (as he also lied 2 her n no matter what d reason behind a lie... a lie is a lie afterall) are not very good. She has lost her faith in men. So I feel...if anyone who can again rebuild this faith, is her brother Videeth... Only Videeth can make her feel that she is also loved by someone...there is a person who loves n cares 4 her... who would always there for her whenever she needs a support of somone1 in her life... So I guess at this moment only Videeth can be seen as a ray of hope for Indira...

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