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Lovely topic of discussion:
Here is my POV on both of these:
Ok, I completely understand that she and her family were betrayed by Shyam. She was shocked, and was in a dilemma.
It was upto her to decide between 2 things then:
1) Disclose his truth to the Raizadas, which might shatter Anjali's life, she'll feel guilty for destroying her life. Wrong in a way. What if Shyam does repent one day? Let Anjali live peacefully
2) Stay quiet, thereby betraying Anjali's trust. Again WRONG.
So you see, here the 1st path would lead to a WRONG, the 2nd would be wrong.
I remember a dialogue from a movie, " It's easy to choose between something RIGHT and WRONG. But very difficult to choose between 2 WRONG things." Here Khushi had to make that, and must say it was a difficult one.
Maybe she thought, Shyam will rectify one day, and be sorry and return back to Anjali. She was a nave girl, she knew the pain of a broken marriage. Her sister had borne that. She didn't want to be the cause to ruin abother girl's life.
He believed what he saw. His temper overpowered everything else, his logic, his reasoning, everything!
At that minute all he could see was 2 things:
1) His brother in law backstabbing his sister
2) The worst part, the girl who he had given his heart to was involved in shattering his Di's life.
He felt guilty, guilty for allowing himself to fall for a girl who was responsible for ruining his Di's life. But more importantly, angry ,angry that a girl whom he had set eyes for, was actually seeing her dreams in the eyes of another MAN.
Jealousy, anger, helplessness, guilt! He decided to marry her! What better way to CONTROL the situations. After all he was ASR.
HE didn't give her the reason to marry, Khushi obliged, coz at stake was her sister's life.
Now here comes the point, she never thought she owed him an explanation, coz they actually didn't have a relationship before. Arnav had never really given her a positive signal. His actions confused her, and the poor soul was confused herself for what she was feeling. So prior to marriage, she never OWED him an explanation , if we consider the terms for a relationship.
But she did owe one to Nani and Anjali.
Arnav felt he didn't have to explain her the reason for the marriage, coz he felt she DESERVED this. For ruining di's life, and for unknowingly rejecting him
After marriage, pertaining to the recent incidents, of going with Shyam, she feels that she still doesn't OWE him an explanation, as he never fulfills the relationship that he has started. And he too hasn't given her a strong reason for the marriage to her. So why does she have to be answerable to him?
Verdict : So finally, both need to start TALKING. Both have had trust issues. Both have been right in their own way!!They both have to see the other in good light, realize what a gem of a person the other one is, ponder over themselves (Mainly Arnav here).
Khushi too needs to introspect, if aperson can be all lovey dovey towards his Di, why the hatred towards her? It's probably something BIG. She should try and find out. And then, she needs to understand that, Shyam is in noway ever going to change. He has bigger plans, she needs to confide into someone ASAP. She alone will not be able to handle him.
PS: If you've read the whole post, thank you for reaching till here.
PPS: I tried to put my thoughts in the best way possible. Sorry if I didn't make sense somewhere.
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