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Arnav is wrong, Is Khushi right? (Page 29)

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by MentalExotica

Owing to the intensity of this thread i couldn't help myself - i had to comment before this thread shuts down.

Everybody has a point of view and there is some dire need to respect that.

I would like to keep it short.

They both are wrong but the intensity of wrong is INCOMPARABLE.

Arnav weighs down enormously - his wrong doings are well indefinite and unjust.
We cant talk about how he will regret later on because as of now he hasn't made any amendments.PERIOD.

Khushi has been wrong in hiding the truth but she shared this burden of wrong-doings with Payal, Buaji, and Amma.
THE TRUTH HAS BEEN HIDDEN BY ALL FOUR OF THEM. So when you take a go at her for hiding the truth mention how wrong the others are as well.

Being Hurt and owing to your hurt inflicting pain on someone who hurt you is WRONG.
I don't see Khushi doing that.



Well liked your view..so had to comment on it...Tongue..yes arnav did make a mistake and he is going to repent also in big way..May be in coming episode..we may judge his repentance whether he does justice or not..and yes indeed truth is hidden by all -Gupta family..but topic says only she too did a mistake by hiding truth..however small this mistake might sound..but to an extent it nearly took anjali' life.. seeing no of attempts shyam made at her life...yes her motive was good but as said..it was not her secret to keep...just this is my point..and regarding your last point..- yes if you are hurt by someone it is definately not right to hurt other person...- if here  you are referring to arnav's marrying khushi to hurt her..I think this was not his intention..he just did it to save his di's marriage and to sum extent himself from loosing khushi too..as far as his behavior is concerned..he is ruthless from begining and no one justifies his actions..but he acts more on impulse and situation..if he was to inflict hurt on khushi..he cud hav done in worse manner..it was never intended..Well having said that ..we may differ in POV..

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:29am | IP Logged
Both Arnav and Khushi hesitate to speak up about Shyam, because in case the other person doesn't know, they will reveal the dirt that is Shyam, who is an integral part of Anjali's life, and the Raizada family.  After all, in Indian society, in Indian familes, the damaad or jeeja is given a lot of importance, and really pampered because his happiness determines the daughter/sister's happiness.

Lets not forget we are watching an Indian serial, about Indian families.

So since both are trying to protect, neither is really wrong.  The circumstances are such.  Only thing that is wrong is the excessive anger that Arnav's character has.  But that is his characteristic that the entire story is based on.

So no wrongs or rights here !!!!

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:35am | IP Logged
only arnav and khusi at fault---no i donot think so. all the guptas are at fault for they are shielding a person with evil intention . this is the weak point of the story. at this point in the story khusi not telling the truth of her marriage to the guptas and payal is a weak point. 

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:35am | IP Logged
Originally posted by BigIPKKNDFan

Both Arnav and Khushi hesitate to speak up about Shyam, because in case the other person doesn't know, they will reveal the dirt that is Shyam, who is an integral part of Anjali's life, and the Raizada family.  After all, in Indian society, in Indian familes, the damaad or jeeja is given a lot of importance, and really pampered because his happiness determines the daughter/sister's happiness.

Lets not forget we are watching an Indian serial, about Indian families.

So since both are trying to protect, neither is really wrong.  The circumstances are such.  Only thing that is wrong is the excessive anger that Arnav's character has.  But that is his characteristic that the entire story is based on.

So no wrongs or rights here !!!!
Agreed with you..!!Tongue

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:39am | IP Logged
Originally posted by BigIPKKNDFan

Both Arnav and Khushi hesitate to speak up about Shyam, because in case the other person doesn't know, they will reveal the dirt that is Shyam, who is an integral part of Anjali's life, and the Raizada family.  After all, in Indian society, in Indian familes, the damaad or jeeja is given a lot of importance, and really pampered because his happiness determines the daughter/sister's happiness.

Lets not forget we are watching an Indian serial, about Indian families.

So since both are trying to protect, neither is really wrong.  The circumstances are such.  Only thing that is wrong is the excessive anger that Arnav's character has.  But that is his characteristic that the entire story is based on.

So no wrongs or rights here !!!!

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by serialjunkie

i would just add one thing here. Khushi did not ask Arnav to marry her, he forced her to marry him.

there is a saying in my language, paraphrasing here.
if you pick a venomous snake and decide to put it in your pocket, how do you not expect to be bitten by it?

so if arnav dragged khushi into his sphere of influence, he cannot expect to be not hurt by her reactions.

khushi is flawed no doubt, but what arnav has done to her is nothing short of criminal under any court of law.

now, i understand this is drama, so I will take it for the sake of drama to allow the story to move forward. But in reality, what Arnav has done to khushi is a grave injustice of massive proportions and not at all comparable to the fact that khushi hid shyam's truth from him.

Had he not dragged her into his house, she would not be in danger of facing shyam day in and day out. right now, she has no one to protect her, in her own house she had atleast buaji.

so lets not mix reality and fiction. in fiction, i will watch this for the sake of drama. But in reality, khushi's faults pale in comparison and ASR's forced marriage is criminal under Indian Penal Court and Hindu Marriage Act. Lets not gloss it.

No offence meant, zoha, I hope you understand. you know i am a sensible and reasonable person, but i dont want the fictional comparisons, understanding and/or justification of ASR's actions to gloss over the reality of it.

Here is an excerpt from Human Rights commission :-

JUST FYI - For drama's sake we can ignore the following but lets not forget what human rights laws have to say about it

http://www.forcedmarriage.net/media/images/FMGuidance-for-PoliceOfficers_108.pdf

Forced marriage is an abuse of human rights. "Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses."
(Universal Declaration of Human Rights, Article 16 (2))

"A woman's right to choose a spouse and enter freely into marriage is central to her life and her dignity and equality as a human being."
(General Recommendation No. 21, UN Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women)



 i am confused , really   my one crime makes me criminal.?   what i did is crime, i agree , but why i did that crime doesn't play any role before judging me..  how pure my intentions be but  an act alone can state me as criminal.. ..situations doesn't matter at all . then why i be good all the time when a single act is going to decide what i am..

physical abuse is wrong  but can we say that when  khushi  or anjali slaps shyam
forced marriage is wrong but with that we can say arnav is a criminal.. i don't think so

no offence just my view...

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bhuva123

Originally posted by serialjunkie

i would just add one thing here. Khushi did not ask Arnav to marry her, he forced her to marry him.

there is a saying in my language, paraphrasing here.
if you pick a venomous snake and decide to put it in your pocket, how do you not expect to be bitten by it?

so if arnav dragged khushi into his sphere of influence, he cannot expect to be not hurt by her reactions.

khushi is flawed no doubt, but what arnav has done to her is nothing short of criminal under any court of law.

now, i understand this is drama, so I will take it for the sake of drama to allow the story to move forward. But in reality, what Arnav has done to khushi is a grave injustice of massive proportions and not at all comparable to the fact that khushi hid shyam's truth from him.

Had he not dragged her into his house, she would not be in danger of facing shyam day in and day out. right now, she has no one to protect her, in her own house she had atleast buaji.

so lets not mix reality and fiction. in fiction, i will watch this for the sake of drama. But in reality, khushi's faults pale in comparison and ASR's forced marriage is criminal under Indian Penal Court and Hindu Marriage Act. Lets not gloss it.

No offence meant, zoha, I hope you understand. you know i am a sensible and reasonable person, but i dont want the fictional comparisons, understanding and/or justification of ASR's actions to gloss over the reality of it.

Here is an excerpt from Human Rights commission :-

JUST FYI - For drama's sake we can ignore the following but lets not forget what human rights laws have to say about it

http://www.forcedmarriage.net/media/images/FMGuidance-for-PoliceOfficers_108.pdf

Forced marriage is an abuse of human rights. "Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses."
(Universal Declaration of Human Rights, Article 16 (2))

"A woman's right to choose a spouse and enter freely into marriage is central to her life and her dignity and equality as a human being."
(General Recommendation No. 21, UN Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women)



 i am confused , really   my one crime makes me criminal.?   what i did is crime, i agree , but why i did that crime doesn't play any role before judging me..  how pure my intentions be but  an act alone can state me as criminal.. ..situations doesn't matter at all . then why i be good all the time when a single act is going to decide what i am..

physical abuse is wrong  but can we say that when  khushi  or anjali slaps shyam
forced marriage is wrong but with that we can say arnav is a criminal.. i don't think so

no offence just my view...

Totally agreed with you...when you commit so called Crime...it is motive to that matters...to me when a person does something against law..he is pardonable to extent when his motive is good and he feels remorse..again thats my POV...

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Posted: 09 April 2012 at 5:58am | IP Logged
Loved your post and agree with you.

As they say "Two Wrongs Can Not Make A Right".

The ball was rolled the day Khushi and the Gupta's decided to keep quite about Shaym.

If the Raizada's or Asr has knowledge about this and not believed at 1st then found out the real truth about Shaym. They would have been responsible. Now the Gupta's are the one who are responsible.

No matter how much the cv's justify by showing Asr in wrong light will make Khushi's silence any less pardonable. 

Asr was wrong to get married to her with out letting her know the reason and with out confronting her. 

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