Tanthya: Lovely song selection. Will wait for your update.
Doods,
Fantastic post!! So your heart did ache, huh? and here I was thinking that I was the only one. 😃Afterwards, I was thinking if I could not take his 10 mins of pain, how will I see his redemption act and your ""rain-pain" scene. I guess, as you say, with bucketload of tears.😆
Today, one of your pictures made me think and connect with your yesterday's post:
See the triangles:
The first picture, Tanthya's triangle, Anjali and Khushi are the base, Arnav is at the apex. As you said, because of a conversation between Khushi and Anjali, a truth was kept from Arnav and MU was created between Khushi and Arnav. But later, it will be Anjali who will be responsible for clearing that MU, that is making Arnav aware of the situation and uniting them.
Similarly, in the second picture Anjali and Arnav are the base, Khushi is at the apex. Thus, again because of the conversation or this brother-sister relationship, Khushi will leave and that time also, it will be Anjali who will be responsible for clearing or getting her back into Arnav's life and uniting them.
Below is my analysis,
Arnav Singh Raizada - Today I notice two of his traits, one we already know, the other I am trying to decipher but will still write about it
First:
Yesterday, when Nani asked Arnav to tie the thread, he refused but later, when she showed him that his action has upset her, he reluctantly accepted. This is not the first time its happened. Its happened many times before and it got me thinking, that this guy just cannot bear the people he cares about being angry at him, he cares being the key word here. He is not a man of emotions nor words, and his approach is always been to cut the matter at the core. Remember, after his marriage, he understood why his family was making such a emotional drama, he had done the unthinkable but he did not like his family, his nani and his sister being upset with him, he wanted them to stop. His words, that time cutting right to the core were ""Yeh natak kab tak chalega". He wanted his family to accept it, forget and forgive and move forward. He just wanted them to be like before, the people who cared about him. They say, all men are child at heart, they require the constant care and acceptance from their loved ones, its their need. But for Arnav its more, because of his past, because of his parents. It is a kind of an insecurity in him and inbuilt fear that the people he cares about might leave him, and he is always taking measures to make sure that they do not, it can be as simple as giving in to the emotional pressure from Nani/Anjali or as extreme as getting married without informing his family.
Similarly, today he did not like Khushi being angry with him. He knows he had done wrong but for him even she was wrong as she did not tell him the reason when he gave her the chance. But what really pricked him was her silence because even though, he is a man who likes silence, he hates it if he is been subjected to the silent treatment. With his family, he knows what cards to use to make them happy or get the assurance that they care because if nothing else works, he knows his trump card will work and that is "I will leave the house". Also, with his family, he has that confidence that they do care but with Khushi, he has no trump card, he has no confidence,he knows she does not care but he was still trying to instigate her because it an all-universe logic, that a person gets angry with you or with something only when he or she cares, he wanted that hint, that proof,that assurance.
Alas, it did not work and he left in anger because Khushi proved smarter or dumber than him, depending on the way you look at it, she is not his soulmate for nothing. She knows with words he will always win so she used the opposite thing to irk him and that is "silence". Well, only if she knew, that it was words he sought, words he was looking for, words he wanted to hear, even if they were just in anger.
Second:
Arnav Singh Raizada, a man of action. This we have already seen before, that as soon as, he encounters a situation, he wants to rectify it. Today, also he realized that he had made a mistake with Khushi and he wanted to rectify it. He went to her, but did he apologize, NO, because he did not go to apologize, he went to justify his actions. He had remorse, he was guilty, he knew he was wrong but for him she was wrong too. The "what" was his fault i.e his actions but the "why" was her fault. He blamed her for the "why" because he had asked her for the explanation, he gave her chance to make him understand but she was the one who refused to oblige yesterday before the fight. Thus, according to him, he was at fault because she was fault. Hence, no apology, just justification that if you would have told me, I would not have reacted. Similarly, he again gave her a chance to explain, he again wanted to understand, but she did not take it, and then thus, she again became a culprit in his eyes, as for him she is still continuing her relationship with Shyam even after marriage.
But when the times comes, he will apologize, he will have remorse and he will be guilty because that time he will realize that the "why" and the "what" was wrong and both were his fault. He will be guilty not because he misunderstood the situation but because he did not give Khushi the chance to explain, a chance to justify. He will be angry because he punished the innocent and he will be filled with remorse that will be nothing compared to what he felt today. He said today, that she is made his life hell but soon he will know that it was not Khushi who has or will make his life hell, it is he, himself who is responsible for making his life hell, now and then.
Ja dekta hu waah tumhara saaman bhikra hua hain
This statement is so true. As her things, Arnav feelings for her are also all scattered. Sometimes he thinks she's innocent, sometimes he things she is guilty. Sometimes he thinks she cares for him, and sometimes he thinks she does not. Every time he decides on the verdict, her behavior, her actions confuse him and send his emotions on a different course. He has become like that ship, that is unable to find an anchor, with every wave his emotions take a different turn sending him and his life in an uproar. He does not know how to encounter this changing feelings, he is a person who knows only black and white. he does not know how to deal with gray. He does not know which course to select, which path to walk on, he does not know whether black is right or white and his only way is to lash out at the person who is responsible for them. But, like today, as Khushi silently found the file for him, it will be Khushi who will steer him in the right direction, who will unknowingly help him to decide between the black and white,who will help him find the grip on his emotions and who will be his anchor which has been lost since that fateful day.
Blessings
They say, before you do anything you should always take the blessings of your elders. The day of reckoning is nearing and Arnav needs all the blessing that he can muster. Today, he got from Nani and Arnav though reluctant, accepted the blessings. Ironically, it was Shyam, his opponent, who was responsible for them. Unknowingly, Shyam gave him the thread, the thread that was a symbol of protection to Arnav. Now Shyam has lost, both his symbols of protection, which represents his two main protection from Arnav, his so-called relationship with Khushi and Anjali.
Today, he handed over the thread that represented the protection, to Arnav himself and soon, I feel, unknowingly, he himself will be the one to bring the truth of his relationship in front of Arnav. It can be because Arnav might hear that confrontation between Khushi and Shyam or something else but he will be aware of the reality. Thus, as soon as, Arnav finds out the truth behind Shyam's relationship with Khushi that it was a lie, a hoax, Shyam will lose that protection, that second chance that was handed to him like a plate of gold.
His other protection, his other raksha thread, has unknowingly reached Anjali and I think, when the times comes, it will Anjali herself who will take that protection away from Shyam. This very thread will be one of the clues that will help her to connect the dots and to reveal the true identity of Shyam and to throw him away. That time, Anjali will vet out the punishment that Arnav wanted her to give on the day of marriage. Well, as they say, better late than never.
Thus, initially, even if it seems that Arnav has lost, lost in the game of love, but in the end, against all odds his love will win and in their own ways, it will be Shyam unknowingly and Anjali knowingly, who will make his love victorious, who will bring Khushi and Arnav together. They already have love, its the trust and respect, that is missing. Thus,it will Shyam who will bring trust to their relationship by revealing the truth whereas it will Anjali who will bring the respect because in the way, she and her relationship with her brother and husband are and will be responsible for it being absent.
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