Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon


Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

Sushpective: Logic that follows emotions...

-Sush- IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 6:37pm | IP Logged
Second episode in a row that I liked...The biggest reason...that the maturity in Khushi's character that CVs have recently stumbled upon seems to be here to stay...Welll at least it appears that way...It seems like the CVs are finally paying attention to her character and her feelings...rather than just be the receiving person of Arnie's story and his feelings...I really welcome this development.
What continued since yesterday was that reacting to Arnies irrational behavior (as far as she can tell) in a way a normal woman would react to it...
It seems like accusations keep coming...He keeps telling her that he hates her but does not feel he owes her an explanation beyond that. In fact he has told her that in so many words...again and again...He assumes the worst possible explanation as far as anything that has to do with Khushi is concerned...
Surprisingly...I actually think the CVs have found some footing with the hate angle...Beyond the initial...throwing her out of the room and other they have found a grip to show hate without it appearing like an abuse or beyond decent...Unfortunately...decent people react like this in marriages that are having issues...and sometimes in marraiges that do not have any serious issues either...So, finally this is a more real portrayal of dislike and hate...
What is also real ...that a real person feels the hurt after listening to the hurtful words...and they respond accordingly...They dont maintain their enthusiasm and run around with 100 ways to bother the other person...that is too childish ...for childish issues...There is nothing childish about this issue...
In terms of story telling...What I liked is that...they actually had a scene quite siwftly about Anj telling Arnie that she was the one who had asked Khushi and Shyam to go and get the medicine for her instead of keeping that as another MU...But unfortunately...people see and think what they want to see and what they want to think...even if the truth is right there in front of their eyes...
Khushi does not want to be treated like s***. She is tired of the Jekyll and Hyde behavior of Arnie...she refuses his softness on his terms, when he wants to give it and take it away when he decides to ...wthout explanation...She wants it on better terms...
That irks Arnie more and he jumps right into the worst assumptions again...As much as he wants to sound logical...he actually is a very emotional character...whose logic follows his emotions...So as soon as Khushi refuses to be the bechari victim that he now wants to turn soft to...and walks away ...without giving him a chance to offer softness...he reacts to that with more unkind words and more bitterness...
She reacts to the unkind words by avoiding him...
The best see him react to Khushis avoiding him...Waiting for the day...when she will leave him for good...If the only way he would learn is the hard be it...

Edited by -Sush- - 07 April 2012 at 9:25pm

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-Jamba- IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 6:37pm | IP Logged
Hey Sush!

Wondered where you got to! The evening just seems incomplete without this daily pilgrimage to IF! LOL

Today's milestone 225th episode did good - but was also dedicated to welcoming the newest Prakash - who probably got the most airtime and lines after BS. Jamba learned a valuable lesson today - never attempt to predict what will happen on a soap - you're just going to end up with lather all over your face. Tongue

Despite that life lesson - I liked the epi as the story progressed a bit.  She gives up on him, and is finally resigned to waiting out the 6 months. I'm finally resigned to the fact that the MU will drag until the next ME - whenever that is.

1. ASR gets the cold shoulder from his wife. There's a reason women are past masters at using this weapon - there isn't a guy on the planet who won't crumble like freshly baked pie crust when faced with the power of silence. Men just haven't learned how to combat it, and they never will - one of those soft skills that only comes wrapped up with the Y chromosome.

The hurtful stuff had to be said though Confused - ASR needs to have a store of memories to flashback to when he's going through his "regret" phase. Due to popular demand - its bound to last longer than the MU (which lasted 2 months on the strength of just one FB), so they'll need plenty of scenes for when the wailing and teeth gnashing begins.

2. Another head fake. This time, on that thread that was supposed to be the clue that broke the camel's back (and that sentence takes the prize for mangled metaphors Tongue). Why throw these out if there's no follow through intended? So the viewers do precisely what they did - focus on the diversion and give the writers some breathing room. 

Note to CV's - sleight of hand for magicians? Necessary tool. On a daily TV show? Not so much. Confused

3. Heer - tum kahan ho? ASR misses his wife - but the giant ego won't allow him to ask anyone as to her whereabouts. First lesson for a happy married life - all women aren't as SLAVISHLY devoted as the ever lovin' Di, and when you tell someone to get lost, they just might take you up on it.

Unfortunately, I made the mistake of reading a spoiler for an upcoming segment where KSR apparently starts screaming like a banshee when she sees ASR. Kinda diluted the intensity of today's epi. (too much time on IF today! Angry)

4. The snake goes through an elaborate charade to find the key to ASR's closet, on his quest for the mysterious file. Another fakeout like the thread, the scorpion, the hanky, and countless others? Will the file eventually turn out to contain nothing more than BS's wardobe wishlist for the CV's? Big smile

5. And speaking of wardrobe - 4 changes today!! BS pretty much went through his limited collection of clothing, does this mean he's finally getting some spanking new duds? 

PS: Honorable mention - the background score was PERFECT today - especially for the BS only scenes Clap ClapClap

Happy Friday all! Party

Edited by jamba111 - 06 April 2012 at 6:52pm

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--Sari-- IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 6:37pm | IP Logged

Best part of today; we traveled through time faster than we normally doClap Goodies in the Easter basket- ASR in change of clothes 3times & a near shaveDancing Onto mission no-gel hair...The greasy mess is as bad Khushi's hair extension w/those ugly clips. Nope, I haven't taken over Jamba's wardrobe critique; she still has the jobLOL

Anjali eating papaya, strange! No 1st time mother would take a chance knowing papaya could lead to a miscarriage. Yes, it is just green papaya but even so. Is she pregnant or not? The Daaga scene was the first time my prediction came trueShocked Before I pat myself, predicting Anjali's move isn't rocket science! Yes, I knew Anjali would find it & dismiss it w/exactly the same excuseLOL It never meant anything or Anjali is covering for her philandering woh and maybe trying to create situations to grope her bhabhi. Anjali's motive - a serious cause of concern or is she plain stupid?Confused

Khushi needs a hug after yest...HugShe is seriously hurt. She took it to heart & rightfully so. So not Khushi but understandable when someone tramples on your basic rights! Some of his anger was justified but not to that degree. To see him go soft on everyone else just made her hurt even more, why me? She wasn't hurt he loves his sis; she hurt because she saw she was on the other end of extremeOuch

In an effort to drag this one out, she didn't reflect on their conversation, strange for someone who is so hurt. Her resolve is strengthened; she will not expect anything from this relationship. Walk away, with her head held high, with dignityThumbs Up For her own sanity, she would oblige with his every wish, leave him alone but she isn't answerable to him. She has drawn the line, she is not going to let him crush her or be a doormat. Bravo...Clap

There was no reflection on the incident w/Shyam eitherConfused He is a real cause for concern but she doesn't seem to understand the seriousness of his advancesConfused Does she have a strategy to deal w/Shyam? The Khushi we know would gather evidence and call the cops on him just like she did w/the Sethi bros as weird as that was. Yes, she is a victim here but most often it is the victims who fight their fight. Am I to conclude, Khushi fights for everybody's cause but not her own? She will take all the humiliation from Shyam to protect the R's? What about her self-respect?

Talking to anyone in the family will not achieve anything, some are spineless, some will possibly blame her & ASR could go either way.This I say because an independent ASR would sympathize w/her but as Anjali's bro, I am not so sure. I have very low expectations from a guy who goes giddy over her pregnancy giddiness...If I were Khushi I am not so sure I would trust him enough to confide in him or help me out...Remember, I am didi ki saut? Btw, I am not liking the over protective ASR they portrayed today; if Anjali turns on Khushi; God help Khushi...Ouch

He doesn't want to see her at AROuch CV's going on another comedy streak w/another new venture other than the KKGSR-DS? Not appealing to meDead Looks like more comedy to come; I am not looking forward to any more comedy unless they fired the last comic writerLOL

Was this enough to go soft on ASR? Try harder dude...Embarrassed

ASR misses her. Nope, I didn't go aww...You reap what you sow...Yes, she gave you what you wanted; shanti! He didn't go looking for her on the street s this time or think she was with Shyam. So he really does trust her but when he sees them together all hell breaks loose...Understandable for any lover especially with a super possessive streak...He wouldn't let Aman talk to Khushi bhabi...ROFLHe is jealous of Khushi's popularity?LOLLOLLOL

Lakshmiji's clothes now match Khushi's...ROFL

They really do make a cute picture but enough talk with mutton...Give her a real friend!

Edited by --Sari-- - 06 April 2012 at 7:46pm

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savvy05 IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 6:39pm | IP Logged
One more good episode, what a nice way to end a good week in IPK. @Jamba your musings for episode 225 were spot on and the  CV's did good.

Arnav had a precursor as to what his road to redemption will look like. Now add this + (guilt * 100) + mistake of walking over an innocent girl's heart and we are going to see one hell and glorious road to redemption. I am really looking forward to that!
Khushi's hurt would be the other end when that happens and I am sure  Barun and Sanaya would be amazing in those scenes.

The scenes today were well etched with lovely FB's and great background score.

Khushi's thoughts as to how a man could love his sister so much and hate her to the extreme was heartbreaking to watch. She giving the silent treatment to him was just the right medicine to Arnav. I am liking the way her character is growing this week.

I am very glad the the CV's quickly closed out the reason for the Gupta sisters giving up the prize and the reason for Khushi going out with Shyam this week rather that extending it to next week.

Overall a much better week in recent times and am looking forward to next week.

Edited by savvy05 - 06 April 2012 at 6:41pm

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 6:47pm | IP Logged


I loved this episode, so happy the track continues to progress instead of going in reverse. I felt bad for Khushi when she looked on and asked how Arnav could have so much love for his Di and for her so much hatred.
The CVs continue to shock me, yet another MU out in the open. Arnav continues to learn how wrong he was about Khushi first with the competition and now this. I like that his first reaction is to go talk to Khushi especially after having FB to how he treated her. In his own way he did try to apologize to Khushi but she didn't want to hear it which is understandable
I just love when Khushi gives the silent treatment, from the moment he told her you will do as I say in the last episode she became silent which irked him to no end. Arnav doesn't want her to be a puppet in his hands like asked, he wants her to be the fiesty Khushi he fell in love with who never backed down from challenging him. When all failed Arnav decided to deliver yet another blow to Khushi which in turn was the final straw for her.
Khushi has finally reached the end of her rope, she can no longer brush off Arnav's hot and cold behavior in hopes of his love for her. His words have pierced her heart and hurt her deeply so she grants his wish, she stays out of his way and sight which I couldn't be happier about! Arnav needed to be taught a lesson here, he has taken her for granted too long and now needs to start repenting for that.

Edited by bollywoodcrazed - 06 April 2012 at 7:13pm

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fj08 IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 6:49pm | IP Logged
khushi is so heart broken in the first two scenes of the day, the way the episode progressed was really great

i have seen the episode a few times already but i cant put it into words yet

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-Sush- IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 6:49pm | IP Logged
I am really happy that the CVs have listened to the viewers cry for developing Khushis character rather than making her just so inconsistent more was discontiuous ...all over the place...
Finally there is continuity in her character...Let us just hope the grip they are finding now is here to stay...
Now if only they can pay more attention to her looks...avoid that hair style...and give her better clothes to wear...we will actually enjoy watching these FBs when Arnie realizes his mistakes...Smile

Edited by -Sush- - 06 April 2012 at 6:52pm

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areeba_blossom IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 6:53pm | IP Logged
I like ur view today Sush!

Check out my reply in my post for today! It's with the subject of 'the beginning of losing-symbolizations for 4/06/12'

Dunno how to post a link on a blackberry!

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