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Why Khushi Cannot Reveal About Shyam: Edited (Page 12)

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Posted: 07 April 2012 at 9:02am | IP Logged
Originally posted by CDlove

Originally posted by sunflower52

Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by Fafu77

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urghh all this is because of shyamAngry

yes because of shyam. but ll others are equally to blame for shielding him i guess. even arnav is shielding him ina way


Why again blame Arnav for this as far he is concerned there is something happening between Shaym and Khushi.
If you want to blame Khushi and the Guptas for this. The Raizadas has no knowledge of this.
Im afraid this a bias view on the matter. Going byyour lineArnav is equally at fault for hiding this. And having the upper hand on the matter Arnav is the one who's supposed to reveal the truth about the allaged relationship of Shyam and Kushi. Why is he keeping quiet? Certainly he has his reasons for not revealing it but so does Kushi and the gupthas.
So if you are going to point a finger at Kushi and the Gupthas, the same finger should be pointed at Arnav.
Both the parties are concealing the matter for their own warped up reasons.
Arnav is concealing the matter for his own selfish reasons (protecting his Di's health while breaking all decorum on basic humanity to Kushi. Not even a criminal is charged the way she had been)
Gupthas are concealing the matter out of mixed reasons. Selfishness to keep Payal's marriage intact while they too don't want to open the can of worms and hurt Anjali.
Kushi being the underdog in the whole matter is mainly reluctant to voice the issue for many reasons which were excellently put out by Rima's original post.
A woman cornered in this kind of situation is fixed from all directions.
I believe Arnav and rest of the Gupthas are the people who are at fault in handling the matter.



Yes how convenient to put all this on Asr head and absolve the blame on Khushi and Gupta. Before you call me bias I see two sides of the coin.

Khushi is the one being haressed does Asr or Guptas know. They dont right no one is asking Khushi to be mahan, she should think about her own safety no one will be able to rescue her why because no one knows.

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Posted: 07 April 2012 at 9:06am | IP Logged
that was beautifully written my dear..!!

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When i look at it as an outsider, the only person at the moment Khushi can reveal to is Payal and to some extent Buaji.  Yes, i know Payal would not be of much help but at least she will ensure that Khushi is not left alone with Shyam often.  It also helps a person when they know that there is someone in the family who is aware of Shyam's behaviour.

The problem I see with Khushi is that she has not yet realised the danger she is in. This may be because she has other things in her mind - like Arnav not confessing after the fancy dress competition and the true state of her marriage with him.

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Posted: 07 April 2012 at 9:29am | IP Logged
Very well written, i see a lot of post where people are asking why she is not saying anything but if you really think about it this would have been the exact reaction from a real victim until it goes ti the limit beyond any control where there is no choice but get others involved and for kushi there will be a limit. people in the real world go through all sorts of abuse for many years before they get the courage to do something.
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Posted: 07 April 2012 at 9:36am | IP Logged
Thank you for this post!Big smile

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Posted: 07 April 2012 at 9:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunflower52

Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by Fafu77

loved the topic
urghh all this is because of shyamAngry

yes because of shyam. but ll others are equally to blame for shielding him i guess. even arnav is shielding him ina way


Why again blame Arnav for this as far he is concerned there is something happening between Shaym and Khushi.
If you want to blame Khushi and the Guptas for this. The Raizadas has no knowledge of this.
arnav is not so dumb . he has to ask khushi. he is supposed to probe. not believe what he  sees and what he is told. what did he fall in ove wih? khushi the person? or khushi the beautiful girl? if it is the first then he has to find out. if it is the second then it is fine.moreover he is giving shyam so many chances. what about khushi?
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Posted: 07 April 2012 at 10:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunflower52

Originally posted by CDlove

Originally posted by sunflower52

Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by Fafu77

loved the topic
urghh all this is because of shyamAngry

yes because of shyam. but ll others are equally to blame for shielding him i guess. even arnav is shielding him ina way


Why again blame Arnav for this as far he is concerned there is something happening between Shaym and Khushi.
If you want to blame Khushi and the Guptas for this. The Raizadas has no knowledge of this.
Im afraid this a bias view on the matter. Going byyour lineArnav is equally at fault for hiding this. And having the upper hand on the matter Arnav is the one who's supposed to reveal the truth about the allaged relationship of Shyam and Kushi. Why is he keeping quiet? Certainly he has his reasons for not revealing it but so does Kushi and the gupthas.
So if you are going to point a finger at Kushi and the Gupthas, the same finger should be pointed at Arnav.
Both the parties are concealing the matter for their own warped up reasons.
Arnav is concealing the matter for his own selfish reasons (protecting his Di's health while breaking all decorum on basic humanity to Kushi. Not even a criminal is charged the way she had been)
Gupthas are concealing the matter out of mixed reasons. Selfishness to keep Payal's marriage intact while they too don't want to open the can of worms and hurt Anjali.
Kushi being the underdog in the whole matter is mainly reluctant to voice the issue for many reasons which were excellently put out by Rima's original post.
A woman cornered in this kind of situation is fixed from all directions.
I believe Arnav and rest of the Gupthas are the people who are at fault in handling the matter.



Yes how convenient to put all this on Asr head and absolve the blame on Khushi and Gupta. Before you call me bias I see two sides of the coin.

Khushi is the one being haressed does Asr or Guptas know. They dont right no one is asking Khushi to be mahan, she should think about her own safety no one will be able to rescue her why because no one knows.
 
No one's blaming Arnav for everything. But that doesn't mean he's not blameless either. He has a responsability towards his sister as well as his wife (how much of a cheat he thinks she is...but who am I kidding. this is ASR we are talking about) when it comes to Shyam.
 
Kushi is in a real life situation where she's helpless. This is a common occurance in a south asian household when another relative makes an unwarrent move on woman from the same family.
 
She's not being mahan. she's helpless. It doesn't make it easier with the threat of her sister's marriage on top of her.
 
As a husband Arnav muct ensure the saftey of his wife. Arnav's loose behavior towards her is one reason Shyam is encouraged to make moves on Kushi more.
 
 Kushi would have been more safer with the Gupthas. At least Shaym wasn't living with them so that he can pounce on her every possible chance he gets. The senario we are discussing of a male relative harrassing Kushi would not come to question if she wasn't forcefully married to the said person's house in the first place.
 


Edited by CDlove - 07 April 2012 at 10:13am

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Posted: 07 April 2012 at 10:05am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by rima

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I dont know if anyone noticed it or if its of any significance, but khushi will have to do something soon. When shyam held her hand after the fashion show and she asked him to leave her hand he said " kyun sirf arnav is tarha pakar saktay hain" and later on also lets her know that he knows her marriage is a fake one. This is only going to make his advances stronger. I wonder what khushi will do? and i hope the CV's do focus on this track aswell. 
 
u are right here. she now has a hint of what syam thinks. she has more and more bold advances from him. the cvs should focus on doing something here. as a woman it is kind of scary to watch this everyday

You are right. It is scary, and its such a common problem for females in our society that it will probably end up helping someone deal with such a situation. Because the writers of this drama really end up writing it just as it happens in real life. Maybe she should start being more affectionate towards her husband although god knows how many taunts that is going to get her from her dear hubby! LOL
 
you are right. her hubby is the one peron who can protect her and one person she can't turn to. how sad is that?

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