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When a man loves a woman, he neednt be Devdas (Page 12)

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 8:28am | IP Logged
i dont know about men about we fans sure become devdas during weekends!!!!!!

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 8:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by arsh_sp

i dont know about men about we fans sure become devdas during weekends!!!!!!
LOLLOL thats well saidSmile
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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 8:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bella39

Awesome post Thumbs Up   Loved it!!!
 
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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 8:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anurao.66

A beautifully written post.
 
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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 8:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by momma1128

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Originally posted by momma1128

I wholeheartedly agree with reasons 1 through 10.  It was just a showcase of all the shades of ASR.  To tell you the truth I cannot imagine him as a Romeo/Majnu/Devdas type.  He was never one to patronize Khushi.  Ever.  He is the only one who can handle her sanka deviness.  He will definitely lash out at himself for the hurt he has caused her (IN PRIVATE), he will apologize and he will set it right (as he did when he fixed Payash wedding).

I love ASR because he owns his flaws.  This is me, take me for everything I am, and if you are lucky and if I trust you and myself in your presence, I might show you a glimmer of the man I could be if I wasn't busy holding up my family.

He doesn't apologize for his anger, he doesn't apologize for his arrogance, he doesn't apologize for not believing in God.  Love the I don't care about anyone's opinion of me because those who know me, know that I care - give him back love with interest and he will bring you the world.  And I love that it is so directly a foil to Shyam who is such a people pleaser with  a heart of poison.  

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Hiya AnuBig smile
 
Hows it going...thanks muchBig smile
 
Anu I dont mind being the only one who thinks this...sure I think ASR has done several things wrong...none of which are justifiable...but he is not the only guilty here...and no I am not waiting for him to be punished...because in the same breath ASR has done several good things which quite a lot of the characters here have not done
 
Cheers!

I also do not want him to be punished as I think the punishment he can give himself is far worse than what Khushi can imagine.  The man is wiling to bleed for her (when he thought she was in the ambulance, he did that to himself, to punish himself).

If ASR is made to grovel and beg and do a Majnu, it is to satisfy the blood lust for a section of the viewing audience's need for retribution and vengence - not because the story of these two who find each other time and again within each other's arms DESPITE shitty words and actions on BOTH sides, needs it.
 
Anu
 
very well saidClapClap
 
I dont know I am alone...but I dont want him to be the only one to repent...there are many more here who need to repent before he does...and a no to the Manju types...ASR is far to realistic and dignified for thatSmile

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 8:54am | IP Logged
Hi JW,
read this on the run and could not help myself had to sneak in to leave my comment...
 
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After reading this just in passing...asked hubby what do you think of the Devadas Majnu type...do you think they are great lover, what they had was a once in alife time love...
He gave me this incredulous look first (a here we go again talking shit look)...and whe I insisted...he said...Devadas was a bloody loser...I'm not sure what love is but am sure as hell that that is not love...
Sigh of relief for me...we agree...I've always disliked Operas and not cos of the shrill voices or the overdramatic expression and loud dressing...but it was the tragic stories...however passionate the lyrics or the singing...they put me off by the nature of the story...
I too am yet to give love a defintion (might never get there)...but for me love is the passion and zest with which one lives life with armed with the strength of knowing one is loved or loving someone.
 
I see love in the cards my father wrote my mother two lines of poetry written in the language he was most at home with (my dad was mixed so native tongues were multiple) and written by a very pragmatic man who did not usually give into the liberties of frivelity...
Love was my mother who learnt the language (spent years in its literary nuances) to understand those words not satisfied with the mere traslation by another...
Love is seeing that same woman (my mom) live out the passing of my dad without morning his leaving but living life witht the same zest he had and tryingto fullfill dreams that he set out to accomplish cut short by his sudden demise...
 
So saying I dont expect all that from fiction...but the dynamics of the couple they have point out to a very passionate love it would be sad if they belittle it by a soppy tragic twist...
 
Ok love got to go...its rare the hubby and me can agree on abstracts ...so I had to share my high and now gotto go before that all to charming man turns grizzly...(remind you of someone)

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 8:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by riti4u

Originally posted by like_ipk

 
 
Hi riti4u - agree with you, especially the hilighted parts.
 
He has to repent and big time, so he might be shown to go the Majnu way initially but then I want him to get back to being ASR n pull himself together, seek forgiveness and even decide to let her go if that is what she wants to do. Much as it would make me sad to see him hurting, it would be totally in character for him to do that for like you said, he keeps the happiness of those he loves above himself.
 
For Khushi, I want to see that she accepts him as a person who is both Arnav and ASR at the same time(for now she seems confused) and who decides to stay/come back inspite of everything because she loves him.
 
 
 
 


Hey there...

Yes indeed after his redemption..I want to see khushi's love developing...more importantly she needs to understand who ASR is...last week's episode did give me hope that she understands him to some extent..when she says..you keep things at heart ..dont say it coz of your ego..but she needs to understand depth in him...she has also misunderstood him a lot when she says he doesnt care for anyone else but himself...she needs to see that man's selflessness..way he cares for his family..he may not be sweet talker but how he owns up responsibility...and then when she learns it..she complete her love story..then she can come back to him...
 
Hiya thereBig smile
 
Agree with both of you...believe that none of us can decide whether ASR is to be redeemed or not...it is a right only he hasSmile

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 8:58am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sanjanashaika

what a unique idea and lovely post! i had a great time reading it Clap
 
Hey thanksBig smile, much appreciated

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