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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 1:35pm | IP Logged
only if his family loves me and trust me more than him only then yes...other wise NOOO find another girl plz ...lolz

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 1:47pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by trina2010

Originally posted by momma1128

There is a point in everyone's marriage where their spouse chooses family over partner. Isn't a matter of ALWAYS but it happens. That's the truth about life.

And I don't think that when ASR is full out in love with Khushi that he will always put Anjali first.

Just my POV.
Well said Anu . Yeah there's a point of course. But I said NO MATTER WHAT. What bothers me here is Arnav is NOT saying anything to Shyam because of his Di where he has witnessed many times Shyams advances towards Khushi. Not even another warning or a SLAP in private. No harsh words . Its Khushi who is getting everything.
I felt bad for her today.hopefully as you said in future he would love Khushi and prefer her over Anji if needed.
 
I agree with Anu here and Trina, you have a point too...but here is my logic...
If I find out that My husband and a close friend of me are supposed to handle a task for me and they goof up which makes me lose my temper... I will always first take it out on my husband! He protests it and says hello... you have your friend to blame as well, why just me? And I always end up saying, because honey, I married you... not my friend.
I think in Arnav's case, he knows Shyam is a bugger but he won't do any damage to him given Anj's pregnancy. And, I don't think he ever saw Shyam's advances towards Khushi... all he saw was half the conversation on Holi and the scene from yday where from the place he is standing, it looked like they were having a conversation and Shyam is smiling. Still Arnav has every reason to believe Khushi is in love with Shyam!
However, Arnav is in love with Khushi and he is more mad at her than Shyam... thats why he said, Khushi could have said no to going out with Shyam for meds, in today episode. He can always deal with Shyam after Anj delivers a baby and punish him but how will he deal with Khushi? He doesn't know... since he loves her and feels betryayed, he will want to cause her more hurt and it has nothing to do with Shyam...
 
Hope I made sense...
 

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 1:50pm | IP Logged
Well, I don't exactly belief in relationships and love but if I ever come accross a real life ASR, then a definite no! U can consider me a smaller female version of ASR so it'll be an ultimate collision if I ever come accross a person like that!

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 1:51pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Marybarton

Originally posted by trina2010

I have a question to IF members
. Would you ever fall for a person like Arnav in real life considering this that he would always put someone else(sister,mom,dad anybody)over you all your life no matter what?


P.S.Now maybe the person is as handsome and rich as ASR.Answer based on this please


I would, in fact it think I would insist on him loving his mother and sister. Here's why:

1. A man who doesn't love and show utter dedication to the woman who gave birth to him and to the woman who helped raise him (sister) cannot understand love enough to give it to someone who is not his blood connection. So that respect for women has to be ingrained in him for him to value me (another woman building a bond with him that is not already set).

2. I would put my mother and sibling ahead of him, so it only seems logical. I cannot be selfish and think he will put me first if I put him second.

3. I cannot compete with a mother, she gave birth to him and raised him for say 30 years. So she has 30 years on me. This is something a lot of wives have trouble with and only understand when they become mothers themselves. I am not trying to be preachy or advocating whiny mama's boys. I am saying, someone like Arnav who loves his family and respects them is a good guy in my book.

4. All that said, the mother and sister has to give me respect as the woman in his life. We all occupy different roles, so we don't have to compete. I think Khushi gets this.

5. Oh one more thing, about HIM as a person and getting along. I am really like Khushi in real life, but not as tolerant. I, Mary would probably scare him in real life. I have a bigger temper and I would make this tiger a kitten in no time. So I am not afraid of the arrogance or rudeness. I can top it and badger him into politeness.



I should add, the guy has to be worth the effort.

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 1:51pm | IP Logged
Nope.. Been there, done that, and have the scars to prove it.. Never again..

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 1:56pm | IP Logged
Its possible since you dont pick who you fall in love with...
And perhaps no woman will ever be more important to a man than his parents/sister/brother but I would need to be...wow this is a really hard question, I keep going back and forth in my answer because yes I would love it if I was the most important person in his life but realistically that may not happen and honestly he may not be the most important person in my life either (so it would be unfair to ask him of something I cant give him). 
So I have no idea how to answer your question. 

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 2:08pm | IP Logged
Maybe no. 
I don't mind if a person is arrogant, rude, angry, possessive... whatever.
But I won't be able to bear if he always places his sister, mother or his relative above me. 

Unless...
He is a super rich bast*rd and I get a right over his wealth. LOL
Maybe money will be the only thing that I may consider before falling for such a person.

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Posted: 06 April 2012 at 2:10pm | IP Logged
Very Good Question! 
The answer for me is NO way!
Yeah we all love ASR to the Core but i dont think we would want a man that puts everything in the world first but his wife!

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